When we were about to get married, a pair of biological parents suddenly appeared.

On the eve of the National Day in 218, I received a phone call from Luo Chen saying that he was getting married and asked if I had time to have a wedding drink with him. I had already planned to go to Thailand on the National Day, so I told him truthfully that I couldn't attend his wedding. He was a little disappointed on the other end of the phone, but he understood and agreed to meet me again at the end of the year.

the day before I left for Thailand, I sent Luo Chen a WeChat transfer as a gift, with a few words to express my wishes. I wonder if he didn't click to receive it because he was too busy preparing for the wedding, and the system returned the money to me.

In desperation, I have to send a WeChat to another friend who is planning to go to the wedding, asking him to seal a red envelope in cash and give it to Luo Chen for me.

late at night on Luo Chen's wedding day, I was ready to go to bed in a hotel in Bangkok. Luo Chen sent me a WeChat voice, and I was surprised at how he was free to talk to me at this time.

His voice sounded a little tired. He said that he had just finished his day's wedding business and went to the door to smoke a cigarette to wake up. By the way, did I go to see the shemale?

I asked him why he didn't accept my WeChat transfer. He said that the amount was too large to be embarrassed. I said that you should not be polite to me. Anyway, you should pay me back the full amount when I get married. He laughed and asked me when I would return to China, and said that he would come to Guangzhou in a while.

I didn't expect that on October 1th, the third day after the National Day holiday, he came to Guangzhou from Shenzhen to find me. Speaking of it, he didn't come to see me specially, but the company sent him to Guangzhou to meet a group of distributors, and he dropped in to see me after he finished.

We ordered two dozen beers in a pub on Xingsheng Road in Tianhe that night. Of course, he drank most of them. Luo Chen is the first friend I met when I graduated from college. He can really drink, no matter red or white beer or foreign wine, no one in my circle of friends can drink better than him.

naturally, we talked about his marriage. I probably know that he and his wife Liu Yan have been in love for four years, but I would never have imagined the twists and turns they experienced when they got married, if he hadn't said it himself.

Second

Luo Chen is from Zhanjiang, Guangdong, and Liu Yan's hometown is in Jiangxi. Both of them were born in 1992, and they met in an electronics company in Shenzhen in 214. Luo Chen does shop operation and Xiaoyan does goods planning. Because there are many intersections at work, after a long time, they move their minds to each other.

After falling in love for half a year, the two began to live together. After living together, Liu Yan's meticulous care of Luo Chen once made most friends who were still single at that time both envious and jealous.

Liu Yan cooks a good dish and brings food to work every day after living together, which makes Luo Chen bid farewell to the office takeaway completely; Throughout the year, she will carefully help Luo Chen choose and buy clothes, shoes and hats, and wear them in different patterns according to the different climates of the four seasons, so that Luo Chen's clothes have risen several grades; Every weekend, Liu Yan likes to drag Luo Chen to fitness or running, which makes Luo Chen get rid of a lot of extra fat.

Of course, Luo Chen is not without merit. His greatest advantage is that he is gentle in temperament, rarely quarrels with Liu Yan, and always takes the initiative to retreat when there is a contradiction, which is very good for Liu Yan's relatively strong personality. Two people with complementary personalities got together and had a pretty good life.

By the end of 216, they have been living together for almost two years, and their understanding of each other's personality habits, lifestyle and values have reached a certain level. Luo Chen began to discuss marriage with Liu Yan.

Luo Chen said that he thought this was a natural thing, but Liu Yan's reaction made him somewhat unexpected.

Liu Yan, who is always kind to Luo Chen, has a negative attitude towards marriage, always perfunctory responses, and sometimes she is pressed by Luo Chen, and even shows obvious resistance, which once made Luo Chen extremely depressed.

"Are you disgusted that I didn't buy a house in Shenzhen?" In a hurry, Mr. Nice guy Luo Chen will be angry, too.

"You know I'm not like this." Liu Yan shook her head.

"So you don't love me and don't want to live with me forever?" Luo Chen continued to ask.

"Do you have any idea whether I love you or not?" Liu Yan also has a temper.

"Then why don't you want to marry me?" Luo Chen looked wronged.

"I don't want to get married so early, we are still young." Liu Yan always leaves this sentence behind.

Luo Chen said that at the end of 216, what he and Liu Yan repeated most was similar to the above discussion about marriage, but every time we talked here, the conversation could not go on because he didn't know how to answer Liu Yan's sentence "We are all young". Indeed, if we just look at the age, in 216, they were only 24 years old and only 25 years old.

Luo Chen said that he didn't know anything about Liu Yan's family, but the tradition of urging marriage in his family really made him feel pressure. The reason why Luo Chen wants to get married is that he really loves Liu Yan. After two years of cohabitation, he knows very well that Liu Yan is the woman he wants to live forever. Secondly, the increasing pressure of urging marriage at home also forced him to consider turning love into marriage.

because of the differences in marriage, the relationship between them was once tense. I remember that around New Year's Day in 217, Luo Chen, who was anxious because he failed to propose marriage, also had a dinner with several of our good brothers to help us analyze the reasons why Liu Yan didn't want to marry him.

With the psychology that the authorities are obsessed with the beholder, we seriously summarized three reasons at that time, in fact, Luo Chen himself had thought of them.

firstly, it is because there is no house in Shenzhen. This is a very realistic problem. For some girls, there is no sense of security without a house. Although she refuses to admit it, she may be worried.

Luo Chen's family is ordinary, and his parents still live in towns and villages in Zhanjiang. He is the eldest son of the family and has a younger sister below. In 214, his parents used half-life savings and some relatives to borrow money to buy a commercial house in a certain district of Zhanjiang, and the younger sister will get married eventually, and the house will be owned by him sooner or later.

Luo Chen's parents have asked him about his future development intention. If he returns to Zhanjiang, the house will be his. If you continue to stay in Shenzhen, you can consider selling the house, paying the down payment in Shenzhen, and then paying for the house every month. In any case, after buying him this house, his parents have already completed the task.

Luo Chen said that he wanted to stay in Shenzhen. After all, there were many opportunities in Shenzhen, but he had great reservations about selling the house in Zhanjiang and paying the down payment in Shenzhen.

Luo Chen has his own set of economic logic. He always thinks that the current housing bubble is serious, especially in a first-tier city like Shenzhen. Buying a house is equivalent to being cut off by someone. He wants to see the situation again and rent a house in Shenzhen for the time being. Besides, the house he rented is not bad, with convenient transportation, acceptable environment and affordable price.

So when we suggested that there was no room in Shenzhen, Luo Chen shook his head. As a person who has been sleeping with him for two years, he was confident that Liu Yan didn't pay special attention to the house. Moreover, after observing the idea of the housing market for a few years, he also mentioned to Liu Yan that she did not disagree, and it could not be because of the house.

The second reason we summarized is that Liu Yan doesn't love him enough, and she doesn't love him enough to make her want to get married. This point was rejected by Luo Chen as soon as we said it. "How can my own girlfriend treat me?" This self-confidence, he is full of confidence.

So we summed up the third reason. As Liu Yan herself said, she simply thought she was young and didn't want to get married too early. This is also what bothers Luo Chen most. People are not in a hurry. What can I do?

to this question, we unanimously answered at that time what we couldn't do. There was really no way. We couldn't force people to marry you, but we just waited for the right time.

Three

The matter of getting married has been deadlocked. Although Luo Chen didn't give up, he didn't dare to chase it too hard. He didn't have much confidence and decided to give it a try.

Who knows that shortly after the Spring Festival in 217, perhaps moved by Luo Chen's sincerity, Liu Yan, who has been uninterested in marriage, suddenly let go and she is willing to marry Luo Chen.

After a twist, Luo Chen was overjoyed, so he struck the iron while it was hot. He first took Liu Yan Hui to Zhanjiang, and made his seven aunts and aunts at home cry with joy. Then he booked a ticket with Liu Yan to return to Jiangxi, ready to finalize the marriage as soon as possible.

On the way back to Jiangxi, Luo Chen asked Liu Yan why she had resisted getting married before. Liu Yan explained that her family's economic conditions were poor, and she was afraid of Luo Chen's pressure, even more afraid of his rejection.

Liu Yan's explanation once made Luo Chen think that he was going to a poor family, but when he arrived in Jiangxi, he found that Liu Yan was not telling the truth.

The Liu family lives in the town, with a self-built three-story building and a pavement on the first floor. Their two brothers are married, which is a medium-sized family in the local area, and it is not much worse. The only drawback is that Liu Yan's father was injured while working on the construction site a few years ago and was paralyzed in a wheelchair.

On that trip to Jiangxi, the Liu family had a good impression on Luo Chen. Liu Yan's father and brother asked Luo Chen some basic information, and Luo Chen briefly introduced his family background, career and future plans. Both sides were satisfied with this marriage.

even Luo Chen asked his father to talk to Liu Yan's father on the phone. When Luo's father discussed the bride price in Mandarin with a strong Cantonese accent, Liu's sentence "We won't insist on this, the two families will discuss it, and the important thing is that the child is happy to get married", which moved Luo Chen to tears almost on the spot.

Luo Chen said that he was a little jittery before. After all, it was rumored on the Internet that the price of bride price in Jiangxi had been ranked first in the country for many years in a row. Although Liu Yan told him that this was not the case, he was inevitably worried. It was not until he heard the statement made by his prospective father-in-law that he could not help but believe the online rumors.

Luo Chen had already discussed with his family about the bride price, and about 8, yuan was the most suitable limit that Luo Jia could bear at that time. Luo Chen said that this is the figure he put forward after synthesizing various actual situations, and the customs differences outside the province have been taken into account. After all, in Luojia, the bride price between 3, and 5, yuan is more popular.

In fact, before going to Jiangxi, Liu Yan, the Luo family's idea of the bride price, had already made a thorough discussion with the family, and the Liu family did not raise any objection. Luo Chen and Liu Yan Hui were more like completing a procedure in Jiangxi.

The marriage was successfully finalized, and the Liu family had a positive attitude. They once suggested that the wedding date should be May Day of that year, but the Luo family paid more attention to numerology. According to birthdates of Luo Chen and Liu Yan, it was more appropriate to set the date at the end of the year. Finally, the two sides reached an understanding and the wedding was scheduled for the end of 217.

Everything seems to be settled. During that period, all my friends could see that Luo Chen was very happy. Most of the tweets in my circle of friends were longing for marriage.

however, things didn't go as smoothly as Luo Chen expected.

The mysterious phone call that followed not only upset Luo Chen's beautiful dream of getting married, but also made our friends who were ready to attend his wedding at the end of the year fall into a fog.

One day in June, 217, on the way home from badminton court, Luo Chen suddenly received a phone call from Jiangxi, and it was a middle-aged man's rough voice.

Luo Chen said that the other party spoke Mandarin, but with a strong accent. He sounded very tired, and he couldn't remember the details of the call. The main idea of the other party's call was: "Are you Ronaldinho? I'm Liu Yan's father, and I'm his real father! If you want to get married, you can't just give a bride price to her adoptive parents' family, and your biological parents' family must also give a bride price, otherwise we won't agree to this marriage! "

Luo Chen hung up the phone in a perfunctory manner. He decided that this was a liar. He had never heard that Liu Yan was adopted. Hanging up the phone, Luo Chen trotted home and asked Liu Yan where she leaked the information and why the liar knew so many details.

To Luo Chen's surprise, Liu Yan suddenly changed her face when she knew it, ran into the bathroom and closed the door. Soon, the voice of her quarreling with someone on the phone came out.

The phone call was made back to Jiangxi, because Liu Yan spoke a dialect, and Luo Chen couldn't understand or hear what she had quarreled about. After coming out of the bathroom, Liu Yan, who was crying like a pear, confessed the truth to Luo Chen.

The man who called Luo Chen is not a liar. He is indeed Liu Yan's biological father. The Liu family is Liu Yan's adoptive parents. What is her biological family name?

Four

He lived in the town next to the Liu family. The He family gave birth to three daughters in succession that year. In order to have a son, they wanted to send one of their daughters away, and picked the second child in the middle, which was later Liu Yan.

It happened that the Liu family, who had two sons at that time, wanted a daughter, so it was introduced that in 1994, two-year-old Liu Yan was sent to the Liu family. Three years later, in 1997, He Jia gave birth to a son as expected.

Fortunately, Liu's parents are kind and simple, and treat Liu Yan as their own, so that Liu Yan can study until she graduates from college. After Liu Yan was sent to the Liu family, because the two towns are not far apart, the two families still have contacts. Before Liu Yan went to junior high school, her biological parents came to see Liu Yan once a year. After Liu Yan went to junior high school, she rarely came again, and she never saw it once in two or three years.

after Liu Yan entered high school and opened a QQ account, she began to contact with the three siblings of He family occasionally through QQ. Sister Liu Yan has married, and her sister dropped out of school to work before finishing high school. Only the youngest brother is still at school.

after Liu Yan graduated and came out to work, every year when she came home, she would invite her siblings to dinner in the county town, and she often gave some pocket money to her younger brother who was still at school. For her biological parents, Liu Yan has little intersection. Although she can't talk about any feelings, she is also at peace with each other.

Until the Spring Festival in 214, Liu Yan, who had just graduated from college and came out to work, returned to Jiangxi from Shenzhen.

On the 27th of New Year's Day, my biological parents rushed to the Liu family to pick up Liu Yan Hui's family for the Spring Festival. As a result, it is conceivable that Liu Yan was unwilling. The biological mother was in tears, and she was so sorry that she had to. Now she is remorseful and wants to take Liu Yan back. Liu Yan was moved and cried and drove her out.

My biological parents didn't give up. They came to the Liu family again the next day, and brought some relatives with them. They didn't cry or make trouble, so they had to forcibly take Liu Yan away when they entered the door. Liu's eldest brother also called Liu's relatives. The two sides dragged Liu Yan to outdo each other, causing chickens to fly and dogs to jump, which attracted the neighbors to watch. Liu Yan was so angry that she climbed onto the roof of her house and cried and shouted that her biological parents would jump if they didn't leave themselves, which ended the farce.

"At that time, if her parents didn't return, my wife would really jump off a building." In the dim bar, Luo Chen lit a cigarette and said faintly.

It turns out that the biological parents who haven't been in contact for many years suddenly came to recognize their relatives because Liu Yan gradually reached the age of marriage and came up with the idea of a bride price.

Sister Liu Yan got married a few years ago. She married a local, and her husband's family was not well off. However, the He family insisted on asking for a bride price of 1, yuan, which caused the husband's family to still have a bad feeling towards Sister Liu Yan. Both Liu Yan and Liu Jia know this very well.

Although the robbery was unsuccessful, the biological parents did not intend to give up. Every ten and a half months, they would go to Liu's town to inquire about Liu Yan, for fear that they would miss sharing the wedding bonus of their biological daughter.

The reason why Liu Yan delayed taking Luo Chen home and repeatedly refused Luo Chen's proposal to get married is because of this reason. She was afraid of leaking the news and worried that her biological parents would make trouble. After all, they had done something to rob the Liu family before.

originally, Liu Yan and Luo Chen's marriage