Yesterday, we rural women quarreled, and one of them died of drinking pesticides. What do you think?

Let me tell you a real case, which happened in our village.

I remember that when I was in junior high school, my family split, and my little father brought back an aunt, who was young and beautiful.

On the same day, the little mother had a big fight with her father, which was widely circulated in the village, and everyone in the village looked down on the little father. Grandpa and grandma are even more angry with their hoes to shake his father. The children are in junior high school, and they have an affair, which has humiliated his family.

When I was young, his father bought a ticket and left, leaving no money. When I was young, his mother went back to her family in tears and cried to her family. When I was young, his uncle even stamped his feet angrily, saying that he had to chop him to death.

In this way, the little mother stayed with her parents for a few days and went back, saying that she wanted a divorce and took all the children away. Of course, her grandparents wouldn't let her. She begged her little mother to give her son a chance, and she couldn't bear her children to divorce with her, so she promised to forgive her for the sake of her children as long as her little father stopped fooling around and distanced himself from that woman.

My grandparents threatened to die when I was young, and my father promised not to mess around again.

Suddenly, one day, the little daddy came back in the middle of the night, and he was accompanied by a beautiful young woman. At that time, the little mommy collapsed, picked up a knife to cut the woman, and was stopped by the little daddy. The little daddy also beat the little mommy, and then took 8, yuan from home and left overnight.

The next day, when my grandparents got up, they found that my mother was gone, and no one answered the phone, but there was still breakfast in the pot.

Actually, Faxiao's mother went to visit Faxiao and his sister, stayed in her sister's dormitory for a few days, and told her a lot to study hard and listen to her grandparents in the future.

At that time, Xiaozi and his sister were still children, so how could they understand their mother's thoughts? If they knew what was going on at home, they would definitely stop her, and what happened later would not happen.

When the little mother came home, her grandparents found something was wrong, and tried to persuade her not to take it too hard. They hid all the pesticides and sleeping pills at home for fear of accidents. But no matter how to prevent it, something happened. It turned out that when my little mother came back, she bought pesticides again and drank them in the middle of the night. By the time others found out, it was too late.

Xiao Xiao and his sister hurried back, hugging his mother's body and crying loudly. Xiao Xiao's father also came back. As soon as he arrived at home, his grandparents beat him with sticks, and his uncles even swung him with knives, trying to avenge his sister.

It's useless to kill a man who can't be brought back from the dead. Later, my uncles took him over with my sister, became angry with my grandparents and had a serious illness, and broke up with my father. Since then, my father has never come back.

In fact, many couples fight and drink pesticides because they are angry for a moment, trying to die, and it's okay to be treated in time when they are found, but if they can't be saved, it will do great harm to their relatives, especially children.

Life is really fragile. I hope we can cherish our bodies and cherish life!

hello, I'm Lao Wang. After living in the countryside for more than a year, I met too many people and things in the countryside and got a deep understanding of the countryside. Some things are not as beautiful as we thought.

We know that people's quality is not directly related to knowledge, but the quality of people with high academic qualifications is often higher than that with low academic qualifications, which has a great relationship with people's different views on things after they have mastered certain knowledge.

nowadays, most of the elderly women in rural areas are not well educated, and there are few recreational activities in rural areas, so it is easy to make irresponsible remarks and provoke others' right and wrong. There are also some people who tear and quarrel over very small things, and sometimes it feels like a very unworthy thing.

What's more, it's even more deplorable that you love to get stuck in a corner after a quarrel, but you just drink pesticides and die. After all, if you drink pesticides and die, it will only bring pain to your family, but the other party will not lose much. Even if you compensate your family for some expenses, what can it do?

here, last year, there was an aunt who hanged herself because she was too angry after the divorce. After a year, others still live other people's lives. After all, the earth will still go around without anyone, and the sun will still rise every day. Therefore, everyone should think twice before they encounter anything, and don't make any decisions when they are angry. If you follow this practice, you will always feel lucky.

what do you think of Lao Wang's opinion? Welcome to talk together.

In those years, there were such incidents in rural areas that they finally felt wronged and committed suicide because they quarreled with others. Most of the protagonists in the incident were married women in rural areas, and their general suicide methods were: drinking pesticides, jumping into wells and hanging themselves.

A Song, who is two or three years younger than me in the village, quarreled with his neighbors when he was only seven or eight years old, because he was too angry to drink pesticides and committed suicide. In the end, A Song lost his mother from childhood and lived in the hands of his stepmother all his life.

At that time, A Song's mother was a small but very strong rural woman in her early thirties. A Song was the only child in her family. A Song's father was honest and dutiful, never blushed and stroppy with others, and always tolerated things, so she was often scolded by her daughter-in-law.

I don't know why it rained a lot that summer, and there was too much water in front of Asun's house, so I dug a shallow canal in front of my neighbor's house according to the terrain, and let the water drain along the canal to the street. However, my neighbor immediately went home and took a shovel to fill the canal, so as not to let Asun Niang break the ground in front of her house.

Actually, there is a bad relationship between the neighbors Liu Sister-in-law and Asuncion Niang. Asuncion Niang is too strong, and she is always the one who won't suffer losses. Therefore, I don't know why they got into trouble. If there were no previous contradictions, Liu Sister-in-law would naturally let Asuncion's family dig a canal to drain water from the front door. As the saying goes, it is convenient for others and for themselves. Now people don't like it.

auntie is as strong as ever, and quarrels with sister-in-law Liu in the street. Sister-in-law Liu points at auntie Liu and scolds her: It's just that you bully your man for being honest. Others can't let you be a bitch. Originally, you could dig ditches and drain water from the front of your house, but just because you don't like your character of always taking advantage, you won't be allowed to dig in front of my house.

After all, Auntie Song failed to drain the water from the front door. She disliked Auntie Song's honesty and didn't give her a fight. His daughter-in-law didn't care if she quarreled with others, so she drank dichlorvos in a fit of pique. When she was discovered, it was too late for Sanqiu, and finally she lost her mother.

At that time, people's view on this matter was that A Songniang didn't commit suicide because she quarreled with Liu's sister-in-law. Perhaps the bigger reason was that she disliked her husband's failure to help her quarrel and couldn't support her for a long time. Quarrel was not a big deal at that time. Rural women often quarreled over trivial matters, but only committed few suicides. No one accused Liu's sister-in-law too much, but said A Songniang was more.

this matter is put aside now, and it is estimated that he committed suicide because of a quarrel. There is no legal fault of the quarreler. If the death of myocardial infarction occurs during the quarrel, it is another matter, but running home to drink medicine, there is no way to make the quarreler responsible for anything, right?

this kind of thing is quite common in this rural area. Two years ago, a couple here had a conflict. The wife was washing clothes for her husband and found a note in her pocket, saying, "I am so sad without you in XX". The wife felt that her husband must have broken up with his ex-girlfriend again and had a big fight with her husband. The husband repeatedly explained that his wife was stubborn and refused to listen. In the middle of the night, I heard some noise outside. My husband woke up and disappeared from his wife. He hurried out to look for her. It turned out that her wife was too angry to go to the toilet to die. A bottle of paraquat had been opened and she smelled of pungent pesticides. She quickly woke up her parents and drove to the hospital overnight. After some gastric lavage, she was saved. But from then on, there was a psychological shadow in each other's hearts.

There's a couple who are helping people build houses in the village. It's very hot in the afternoon, and the wife complains that she can't rest on a hot day. The husband retaliates by saying, why don't you marry XXX (a very rich man in our village)? The wife can't stand it. She goes home a little earlier than her husband after work at night, and she goes to an abandoned house to drink medicine. This time, she is not as lucky as L.

Pesticides are very common in rural areas, and only stupid women can do such stupid things. Smart people don't do such stupid things. You took medicine and went to the hospital for rescue, which cost a lot of money. This is not within the scope of reimbursement for cooperative medical care. After being rescued, you are doomed, and some health problems will be left behind. After the rescue, the family lost money in vain, and the poor child lost his mother. A man from a poor family may have to live alone with the child from now on, but a child without a mother is like a grass, and without a mother's love, he will lose a lot of joy. A man with a good family will get married again in two years, and you will be forgotten forever. But it may hurt your baby.

don't do that worthless life. Even if it is a straw, we should seize it bravely. God can't save you if you belittle yourself. A word of advice to you: Tian Xingjian gentleman strives for self-improvement; The gentleman in the terrain carries things with virtue.

No matter what kind of environment a woman is in, she must constantly improve her ideological value. She should not try to die at every turn, and people should study hard, so that she can be open-minded and understand everything.

I'm the honest teacher Yan, and I'd like to talk to you about drinking pesticides.

It really happened in our village. Finally, the woman was saved, but she was ashamed to stay in the village, and the husband and wife ended up divorced. So, what's going on?

The husband and wife live a tight life, but the husband likes gambling on weekdays, so they have to quarrel a few words. It was originally the day before the Chinese New Year, and my wife gave her husband 1, yuan to pay off the previous debts. I didn't expect her husband to be dragged to gamble by a group of people as soon as he reached the village entrance.

at first, I was playing a small card with 1.2 yuan. I don't know if it was entrusted or topped, but suddenly it became a gamble of 12 yuan. Even more, some people have made a bold statement that they will send red envelopes to everyone in the New Year, and they will win money even if they have the ability. The husband couldn't hold back for a while and lost almost 1 yuan in a small bet. This time, the husband was also anxious, and he pressed up hundreds of times. In the end, naturally, he ended up with nothing left.

At this time, the wife waited for her husband to come home, so she went out to find someone, and at the head of the village, she saw her husband gambling. At this time, someone told her that your husband lost almost 1 thousand, so go and stop it. The wife suddenly became impatient, rushed up and dragged her husband back, still cursing: "You son of a bitch, let you pay back the money, but gamble here, how much money can you lose?" Didn't you kneel enough last time? "

The wife's words also made a group of gamblers burst into laughter and saw the true face of her husband. Later, the husband could not get off the stage, so he slapped his wife on the spot and began to criticize her for all kinds of things.

It can be said that watching the excitement is not afraid of the big things, but the onlookers did not stop them and began to boo. At last, his wife was sad and angry, and rushed home. When the husband came home, he saw his wife drinking half a bottle of pesticide. He gave a call, and the villagers came to their senses. They started calling doctors, and those who went to the toilet went to the toilet.

Several men rushed over together and held down his wife's limbs. The husband dragged his head, and the neighbor's aunt also took a ladle of excrement from the toilet, opened his mouth and poured it in. In that way, a life was saved, and a person's dignity and face were all gone.

quarreling is common in rural areas, but it is really wrong to drink pesticides. In particular, pesticides such as dichlorvos can't be saved by taking a sip. So, have something to say, don't be too impulsive.

for this kind of thing, I can only say that it was impulsive. It happened in my hometown and countryside!

That was 1 years ago. A couple in our village were both over 4 years old, but their husbands always had a bad temper and often quarreled with their wives. In recent years, their lives have been noisy. One son has gone out to work and his family life is easy.

But after the couple quarreled that summer, the wife was so angry that she drank pesticides, and finally died because she was not rescued. Later, her son came back to see such a scene and insisted on beating his father. Later, he was stopped by relatives in the village because his father's bad temper led to his mother's death from drinking pesticides.

It was really unfortunate for the villagers at that time, because the husband had been in a bad temper all these years and often beat and scolded his wife, while the wife had been forbearing all these years because the children had not grown up. Now that the sons have grown up and got married and worked, it may be that such a thing happened in the end. In fact, it is very unfortunate for the family. If the husband had a better temper, such a tragedy would not have happened.

When I was a child, my parents often quarreled. At that time, whenever they quarreled, they were very scared. At least now, my father's temper is not as strong as when he was young. Maybe it's because he is older, maybe his children are older, and parents still quarrel now, but not as much as when he was a child.

In fact, many families are like this. I remember my uncle next door was the same. When they were young, they quarreled with each other by smashing things. When they were young, they were very scared. But when they grew up, their children got married, and the two couples rarely quarreled. Now they are helping their children to look after their children, and their personality is not as impulsive as when they were young.

such a thing happened here the year before last.

After 3 years, Lao Wang and his wife, their sons have married and married. At ordinary times, the couple are indifferent and can't see anything wrong. That is, Lao Wang loves to drink and drink, and quarrels with his wife after drinking. I don't know how many times I quarreled about this couple. Once, Lao Wang was drunk again, and others sent Lao Wang back to the door, but his wife just wouldn't open the door. Let Lao Wang lie at the door until dawn. Since then, the couple have not been more energetic.

Now that my son is married and has another life, Lao Wang feels that the family burden is less, and he prefers to have two drinks.

On the sixth day of the first month, Lao Wang and his brothers came back from the wedding. Feeling that they didn't enjoy drinking, the two brothers set up cups and plates at home and chatted while drinking. It was dark, and my wife came back from outside. Seeing the two drinking, I was angry. Don't try hard, Lao Wang can't help but be blunt. In the end, it was so noisy. The neighbors even pulled and persuaded, although they stopped arguing, both of them held their breath.

not long after, people found their wife lying in the bathroom. He was rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment. He died that night because he drank too much pesticide and could not be rescued.

Lao Wang regretted not eating or drinking for several days. From then on, the drop of wine died.

it's inevitable that the couple will be a little stumbling in their lives. We should both persuade each other and understand each other. Once you lose it, you know how precious the other person is to you.

lament! Regret! Regret that a life is gone like this, and regret that people can't be resurrected after death.

In rural areas, there are more contradictions and disputes than in cities, but most of them are trivial matters, such as whose chicken ate other people's millet, and whose cattle ate other people's vegetables or crops and poured them into rice fields.