How does a wife look down on her husband?

How does a wife look down on her husband?

In the emotional world, it is often unequal. Many wives will choose to turn a blind eye to their husbands' efforts, and even look down on their husbands in many cases. Here's how a wife looks down on her husband.

How does the wife look down on her husband? 1 The wife looks down on her husband's performance.

Every day when I come home, I think, he didn't do it. He didn't do it. I have a bad temper every day. Satire at my husband every day. In fact, there are more and more strong women in our life, but many strong women look down on men and feel that their wages are not as high as his. Moreover, it is they who give birth, educate and take care of children. They are responsible for cooking, cleaning and doing housework.

And they, men don't need to do anything, which leads to the psychology of many women. Men who distort and especially despise them. What's the use of calling a man? You might as well live your own life. Many women hint at her husband from time to time. Look down on him, but men can't see it. I don't know when my wife looks down on herself and looks down on herself!

In fact, if a woman is bored when she comes home every day, it is partly because of her pressure and partly because you are not motivated and responsible, and then she will look down on you when she comes home.

I don't think my husband has done enough.

Many women look down on their husbands, indicating that they have not done enough here and there. In fact, it is obvious that a wife doesn't like her husband. She goes home every day, feeling that it is not pleasing to the eye here and there. Her husband doesn't cook for himself and she doesn't sweep the floor at home! If you don't clean up, can't you share some housework with yourself?

Many women won't talk about his salary, nor will they. Saying that he doesn't make progress will only find fault, pick bad places here and there, and then let him think for himself. If a woman doesn't do something for you, she must look down on you.

I have a bad temper every day.

If a woman looks down on you, she will be grumpy when she comes home every day. I get angry with you or my children from time to time. In fact, they won't say they look down on you, and they won't say what they want you to do. They will only lose their temper to prove them. Angry, they want you to be more enterprising.

Be responsible. So when your wife comes home with a bad temper every day, she must resent your lack of ambition and look down on you, so you must make progress at this time. Come and show him.

Satire at her husband.

There are also some women who are more straightforward. Every time they look down on their husband, they will ridicule him and say that your salary is not as high as mine. Why don't you do anything? I educate all the children at home. What did you do?

I do all the housework. You only smoke and drink every day. Everything in the company has nothing to do with work. You don't work hard and have no initiative at all. Many women will go home to satirize their husbands and make them progress, but they don't know that men also have a great sense of inferiority. Instead of satirizing them every day, it is better to give them some comfort.

What does a wife look down on her husband? First, she seldom talks.

If a wife looks down on her husband, it will inevitably lead to an unbalanced and mutually beneficial relationship in this marriage.

Then, the wife always looks superior. If she really hates her husband, she can't help but despise and despise her, and even think that talking to her husband will undermine her identity.

In other words, she just showed her true feelings and rebelled against her husband in her deepest heart.

In Kan Kan, I can talk to anyone at will, but in front of my husband, I keep silent. I don't want to share my experiences, nor to express my feelings, nor to listen to my husband's worries.

Not only do you seldom talk, but you can't talk well with your husband in general, either in an impatient tone or in a reprimanding attitude.

Naturally, there is no concern and understanding for her husband, showing indifference.

Second, there is no quotient.

Emotional mentor Tu Lei said:

"Husband and wife is a profound fate, which begins with two people falling in love and ends with one person's death. To maintain this fate, the most important thing is respect, business and quantity.

Because a lover is a true partner in his life. "

When a wife doesn't realize this, she loses respect for her husband, which is the beginning of contempt. Once so, she will become strong and overbearing, and everything will be self-centered.

For the husband, it seems that he can only give orders and not listen to his suggestions.

In this case, everything the husband says is wrong, and everything he says will be denied, or he likes to make decisions without authorization and never says hello to his husband in advance.

I don't care about my husband at all. In my heart, my husband is a complete waste and exists in vain.

Third, easily deny it.

Don't expect a person who looks down on you to recognize you. Obviously, this is also impossible and unrealistic.

When a husband is in trouble, he will only be degraded and scolded by his wife. She has been denying her husband's ability. When the husband shows his skills passionately and accurately, the wife will be the first to pour a pot of cold water.

In addition to belittling and criticizing, there are accusations.

Even if the husband is in a bad mood and frustrated at work, the wife will not comfort him, but will mercilessly dig at him with some sharp words.

Husbands are like this, and so are in-laws. They don't want to associate with their husband's family, because they look down on a person and look down on his family.

At the same time, it will be taken out of context and directly interfere with male communication. Those friends who think that their husbands are outside are worthless and are birds of a feather.

Fourth, be choosy.

With such a wife, men will only become more and more inferior, weaker and less confident.

Because he never found confidence at home, no matter what he did, he was not recognized, and all his efforts were in vain, so he was devastated.

Not only at home, but also outside.

If you say you are angry with your husband, you will lose your temper with him. You often hold your child's face and accuse your husband of doing nothing and doing nothing well, but you will take all the credit to yourself.

Yes, it is to find fault with her husband and all kinds of eggs.

When a wife only finds fault with her husband, then her husband's efforts and changes are naturally invisible. It's not that you're not doing well enough, but that your wife has been demanding you with perfect standards.

It all depends on her feelings for you, just like you can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

Fifth, eliminate intimate relationships.

The wife looks down on her husband, which is especially obvious in the matter of husband and wife life.

"Get out of here and don't touch me!" It should be what she always said, without any feelings, whether it is eyes or expressions, it is full of disgust, which makes people stay away from it.

To tell the truth, a long-term and harmonious relationship between husband and wife depends on the wife's worship of her husband.

When a wife no longer admires her husband, her body will instinctively resist and stay away, and a woman will not make out with a man she despises.

For a while, I dislike my husband's sweat, and for a while, I dislike my husband's smelly mouth.

I can't even sit together and watch TV at ordinary times. When my husband approaches his wife, she will move to the other side in disgust. Unwilling to go out with her husband, occasionally going out together will deliberately pull a long distance.

Separate things between two people, for example, you can't use my towel.

How does the wife look down on her husband? 3 1. She makes her own decisions.

Treating that home as your home completely and not letting your husband feel that it is also your home is tantamount to directly depriving her husband of the initiative, the right to know, the right to decide, the economic right and so on.

Prove that she is strong, overbearing, selfish and arrogant. It also proves that she despises her husband and will be indifferent to his thoughts and opinions. Fundamentally and directly denied her husband, including his ability. There is a simple reason. How can she care about the opinion of a person she despises?

Therefore, there is no business between husband and wife, no matter what happens, they are their own masters and don't take each other seriously at all.

2. Question the original choice.

At home, I always put on a condescending posture and ask my husband to do whatever she says. I think my marriage to him is a gift for him.

As Li Baoli said in "An Arrow Through the Heart":

"My family condition is not good. The girl who sells vegetables in the market can rely on my appearance, and there are many people chasing me. It is his blessing to choose him as a fellow countryman. "

So you have to endure, take me as the center everywhere, vent your emotions casually, and regret your original decision very much. In comparison with others, I will belittle my husband and question my original choice.

3. look down on his relatives.

This is the general psychology of people, as long as it is an individual, it is no exception. Especially in contact with his poor relatives in the countryside, I don't hide my disgust, disgust and indifference. I feel that even if someone takes the initiative to talk to her, it is a caring attitude.

You know, if he is not respected by her, how can his relatives be respected by her and casually tell others about his life as if he were standing on a commanding height?

Including the attitude towards parents-in-law, the birth gap is very large, and even contempt.

4. Get angry with your husband casually.

Even if there are outsiders present, even in public, as long as she is a little unhappy, she will yell at her husband, including verbal violence and attacks. If the husband and wife are in conflict, she will not think that she is wrong, she will reflect on her own problems and be prone to cold violence.

The more her husband is in charge, the more she backs herself. She always regards her forgiveness as charity to her husband and doesn't know how to give him a step down.

Of course, even if there are outsiders present, she can't manage her emotions well. She doesn't take her husband seriously, and naturally she doesn't consider his face and feelings.

5, habitually splashing cold water.

No matter what her husband decides or makes up his mind, she is always the first to throw cold water on him. There is no support for her husband, only doubt, criticism, sarcasm and denial. Like what can you do? I've been a loser all my life. "

Even in the life of husband and wife, she will trample on her husband's dignity mercilessly: "This is all I can think of, and there is no other use."

It was she who attacked her husband for not making progress, and she threw cold water on him when he made up his mind and took courage to change the status quo. In a word, no matter what her husband does, he can't get her affirmation, and he will never reach her standard and find fault.

6. Arrogance and indifference to her husband.

Arrogant and cold eyes are like a sharp knife, expressing two messages to her husband. First, you don't deserve me. Secondly, I despise talking to you. For example, when her husband takes the initiative to talk to her or discuss other things, she always gets such a response.

There is often a condescending attitude at home. Ignore you when you are in a good mood, and ignore you directly when you are in a bad mood. What hurts more than attitude is that she has no emotional eyes.

Husband and wife have lost their reciprocal relationship and can only rely on their husbands' servility and ingratiation to maintain it, basically forming a deformed relationship between husband and wife.