How to refuse a woman's date

How to refuse a woman's date? Generally, you like to date together, but you don't like to date together. It's very simple, but when you are a man, how can you refuse a woman's date when you are invited by a woman you don't like?

How to refuse a woman's date 1 Once rejected by someone, it led to a long period of self-doubt, depression and no shadow.

First of all, I would like to thank the girl who wanted to refuse to tell you the truth. In order not to hurt each other, I asked this question in Zhihu. This is very worthy of recognition.

Generally speaking, most problems can be solved by making it clear and alienating each other. After all, girls are thin-skinned No matter how difficult the girl is, as long as she doesn't give the other party any possibility, she won't last long. I am most afraid that being soft-hearted will make the other party mistakenly think that they still have a chance.

Just talk about what I think should be paid attention to when rejecting each other.

1, make it clear to your face

Don't let the parties know through QQ, WeChat and friends circle. Speaking clearly in person is the most basic respect for someone who likes you.

Step 2 thank each other

No matter how bad the other person is and how much you don't like her, her feelings for you are precious and worthy of respect, not to mention that she has the courage to let you know. So don't take each other's likes as a bargaining chip to ridicule and hurt each other, and say thank you generously.

3. Directly and resolutely refuse not to delay.

Don't delay, and don't leave any possibility for the other party, politely but firmly refuse. For example, "I really can't be with you. I don't like you. Please give up. Sorry. " Don't worry that doing so will hurt each other. Ambiguity is the biggest torture to each other. Don't use: "We will be together when you lose weight."

"Let me think about it" and then play with irresponsible practices such as disappearing to avoid the problem. Not to mention: "you are really nice, I may like you in the future, but I really don't want to find a girlfriend now."

4. "It's not your fault"

Many boys are ashamed to admit that they have no feelings or are not ready for love, and like to throw questions back to each other or make excuses. You are too fat. Your education is far from mine.

Your family is not local, and my parents will not agree. This is extremely irresponsible. No one is perfect. The shortcomings and flaws of the other party are not props used to attack others when you refuse. Unintentional words are often more sad. Please face each other frankly and tell them that it's not that you are bad, but that I don't like you.

5. Don't lie.

It takes courage to refuse others. Many people like to make up excuses to excuse themselves. It's really not that I want to refuse you and hurt you. I have my reasons. There are various reasons, such as homosexuality. Said he was seriously ill and didn't want to delay each other.

Said he didn't want to find a girlfriend in college. A lie needs a thousand lies to round up. I bet you don't have the patience to make up a thousand lies for people you don't like. Sooner or later, the other party will know the truth, and it may even hurt more than being rejected directly. Because it means that you choose to cheat each other instead of looking at each other's feelings.

6. Don't give any last hugs.

Reject each other, the other party is very sad, and you may feel guilty and eager to compensate each other. So many people feel very kind and like to say, "Although I can't be with you, I can finally hug you or kiss you".

You may feel that it is better to make up for each other's injuries, and even be as complacent as a lover, but this really belongs to the other's useless tenderness.

7. Don't take it for granted

Don't think that they can use each other by refusing. This idea is selfish and doesn't consider each other's feelings. Everyone has a different precipitation period after falling in love. Many people may spend a year or two slowly suppressing their feelings of liking you. Loneliness is actually a secondary injury to each other.

Some people, both men and women, will reject each other and continue to use each other's feelings for their own convenience or vanity. For example, I admit that my brother and sister receive gifts to repair computers and so on. I can only say to such people: [eat shit].

8. Consciously keep secrets

The fact that the other person likes your confession should not be circulated among friends, because you encourage your vanity as a man. Secrecy is the most basic respect for each other and yourself.

9. Don't be soft-hearted where you shouldn't be.

If you don't like each other, don't sympathize with each other for a while. Agreeing to each other's requirements is similar to wanting to associate with nothing else. In the end, it will only hurt both sides.

10, control your lower body.

Many girls are silly to like each other's thoughts and forget everything, including their own bottom line. Although in Zhihu, a place full of elite gods, everyone thinks that the control of the body is the responsibility of the self, but I can't refute it. Just like a mature man, you have to think twice about many things.

How to refuse a woman's date? 2 What if a girl refuses to date?

Appropriate time:

What does the right time mean here? First of all, it must not be a working day, and the other party is not here. In addition, because you are a girl, it is not recommended that you invite again at night, especially after 9 o'clock.

Reasonable position:

By place, I mean the place where we dated. Maybe you don't understand. Let me make an analogy. In winter, our date is naturally for dinner or indoors. It is not appropriate for you to find a girl to go to the park in the open air.

Start with what girls like:

Every girl has her own unique taste. Some people like seafood, while others may like barbecue. Knowing what girls like to eat is more intuitive and easier to succeed.

Tell him in advance:

Don't wait until you want to eat at night to inform girls in a hurry. You must do it in advance, on the one hand to show your sincerity, and on the other hand, if something happens to the girl, right? It's better to deal with it

Call some of her friends:

If a girl is shy, you ask her out alone. If she is a little shy, you might as well call her friends or friends she knows around you. If there were more people, maybe she would be more at ease.

Pick-up by car:

Maybe the girl will think you are too troublesome, so you don't have to pick it up, but if the girl doesn't have transportation, go to work or wait for her at her house, so she will think you are more considerate and have a good impression on you.

Be prepared for girls to reject you:

Maybe we have made a lot of preparations, but it is not impossible for girls to have something or not feel for us. If they don't want to keep the appointment, they should be mentally prepared, test the girls' feelings for us in the future chat, and try again.

Look at the relationship between two people:

This is also very important. You can't just meet this girl today, talk for three sentences, and then invite her out to dinner and movies tomorrow to get to know her better. Don't be too casual.

How to refuse a woman's date 3 It's easy to find a reason to refuse a date, but it's not that difficult.

The first reason is that you feel uncomfortable. This is easy to understand. Girls and boys have different physiological characteristics, and there will always be uncomfortable times, and this reason is something that boys can't refuse. They should also give comfort and express their concern and worry.

The second reason is that I have arranged other things, such as making an appointment with my parents, and this boy can't stop me. After all, everyone's parents are the most important people to me, so I can't affect their relationship with their parents, so it is also very useful to reject boys for this reason.

The third reason is that I don't like you directly. Don't waste any more time on me. Emotionally, it's hard to say You are very kind, but I really don't like you. I hope you can understand and wish you happiness. This reason is also very good, even all appointments will be rejected in the future, so as to avoid thinking of any reason to refuse him in the future and solve the problem once and for all.