What is the mentality of a man who keeps chatting with you?

We have all heard this saying, if a person is willing to spend time with you, then he must love you. If a boy is willing to chat with her often, it shows that he cares about the girl in his heart. I think so, otherwise who would want to spend a lot of time chatting with someone they don't like? You can judge whether this boy feels this way about you from the content of the chat between the two of you. Do you often ask for help, care about your feelings, listen to your ideas, help you solve problems, and take the initiative to solve some small things in work and life? It feels very pleasant to chat with such a mature man. Do girls regard each other as their close friends? Do you still have a certain fondness for it? If you like it, you can give the other person some hints to give him the courage and determination to pursue you. Of course, if you don't like him, just treat him as an ordinary friend. It's rare to have a close friend in life, so cherish him.

Of course, it is not ruled out that this boy is just bored and wants to tease you, so he often chats with you. At this time, girls should observe the boy, if he just talks about some entertainment gossip, flirts with girls, or brags about his deeds because he thinks he is a love saint or awesome. There is no need to pay too much attention to such a boy. He is just too idle. It is like casting a net to fish. It is best if you can take the bait. If you can't hook him, there is no loss.

In fact, girls don’t need to think too much, it’s just a chat, as long as both parties feel happy and not disgusted. Why bother to find out what his mentality is? Just maintain the sense of self-protection that a girl should have, but remember not to invest too much emotion and rely too much on the other person when you don't understand the other person.