The divorce between Dong Huahua and Fan Jiang is a wake-up call for stay-at-home mothers.

Some time ago, Dong Huahua angrily accused Weibo of Zhang Dayi of seducing her husband Fan Jiang and went on a hot search. I thought Fan Jiang would return to his family under the pressure of public opinion, but I didn't expect news a few months later that Dong Huahua and Fan Jiang divorced and Dong Huahua left home cleanly! ! !

What? What kind of operation is this? Isn't Fan Jiang cheating? How does Dong Huahua go out to clean? Fan Jiang's tactics are too high!

Dong Huahua's brains and talents are no match for Fan Jiang and Zhang Dayi. Dong Huahua hasn't worked much since he married Fan Jiang. Perhaps because of Fan Jiang's "I support you", she has been staying at home, almost out of touch with society. She takes care of her children every day, goes shopping, cultivates her sentiment, closes herself in a simple world, and completely turns herself into a vine, which needs to be attached to a big tree to survive.

Dong Huahua's experience has sounded the alarm for those full-time wives who have no financial resources.

People are fickle in marriage, and the most incredible thing is the sentence "I support you". However, many girls are often moved by this so-called "commitment". They thought they found love and dependence, foolishly gave up their careers and returned to their families.

Many stay-at-home wives will make excuses for themselves, saying that I don't work for the children and this family. If both of them work, who will take care of the children and family? This is a weak excuse. Women should have their own financial resources before and after marriage to improve their ability to resist risks. Otherwise, they will be like frogs waiting to be cooked in warm water. When marriage or family suddenly changes, when you can no longer rely on the person next to your bed, you will be out of touch with society, unable to find a job, unable to adapt to anything, facing great economic pressure and raising children. Then your life will collapse.

The cruelty of this society is that it will not treat you well because you are weak. The weaker you are, the more you will be beaten.

Even if a woman chooses to be single, it is better than giving up herself for marriage.

Women can be full-time wives or full-time mothers, but they must have their own financial resources and constantly improve themselves.

When a woman cannot be independent at home, she has no status at all. Even children will feel that her mother's contribution to this family is not great. It is her father who makes money to support his family outside, and his father works harder than his mother. You worked hard to get up early to take care of your family, and finally only you were moved. And two people can't grow up together, and the spiritual gap is getting bigger and bigger. In the workplace, men and women will feel more comfortable in the same language.

Men cheat, two people who used to love each other turned against each other and their marriage broke down, nothing more than the following situations:

1 .. Men and women share property equally.

The man felt guilty about his family and left home voluntarily.

3. Find ways to transfer property, pass the buck, and let the woman leave home cleanly.

It doesn't matter if you encounter 1 and 2. What should the woman do if she encounters the third situation? If Dong Huahua really leaves home clean, doesn't it belong to the third situation?

Women have no financial resources, so they have no ability to protect themselves in marriage.

My friend's cousin is in her forties and has a son and a daughter. Originally, her family was happy, but this year she divorced because the man had someone outside. She hasn't gone out to work since she got married and had children. She has been taking care of the baby at home. The man's job is average, but his parents have money at home, and his parents bought the house. His parents' names are also on the property certificate. Therefore, when divorced, the woman is almost away from home and has no fixed source of income, so the child is awarded to the man, and the man insists on divorce, and the woman has no initiative in marriage. Although the fault lies with the man, the law can't protect the woman, and she won't feel sympathy or pity because she is weak.

What do we do? Women have become vines that only rely on others. Once she lost her attachment, she didn't even have the ability to stand on her own. Do you want to find another tree to attach to? However, it is too difficult for vines that have taken root in situ to find a big tree to attach to.

Zhang Guimei, the headmaster of Huaping Girls' High School in Lijiang, Yunnan, became a hot spot because of an interview video.

President Zhang Guimei's opposition to women being full-time wives has caused a lot of discussion. In fact, President Zhang means that women are not as reliable as themselves. When a woman becomes a full-time wife without financial ability, her ability to resist risks will be reduced.

Therefore, even if a woman is a full-time wife, she should be a full-time wife with independent financial resources. She can't bet all her bets on one person. What if her husband ran away, fell down and lost his viability? Who should a stay-at-home wife rely on?