I don't agree with my mother-in-law buying a house for her brother-in-law. What should I do?

It's a beautiful day, but I have to mention my brother-in-law at this time. My husband's brother is six years younger than my husband. I gave birth to a child this year. He just graduated from college and spent two years in a big city, but he didn't think there was any future. He said it was better to stay at home, so he returned to his hometown. This time is different from when I was looking for a job. Relatively speaking, there are many opportunities. But no matter how tall my brother-in-law is, I am so delayed.

We all know that if you don't work for a long time, some companies will have concerns about finding a job. My husband once advised my mother-in-law that my brother can't be so idle and work quickly. Once this person stops, he will become more and more lazy. Mother-in-law naturally won't listen. She feels that her youngest son is still young, so he doesn't work if he doesn't want to work, and the family can't afford it. Also, the money my mother-in-law takes from us every month, plus my father-in-law's stall, actually earns a lot in a month. My parents are not in a hurry, and my husband and I are embarrassed to say anything more. In this way, after two years, my brother-in-law is old and my in-laws are anxious to get married. Most of these girls see their brother-in-law doing nothing and naturally don't want to meet, which makes my in-laws very anxious. Later, my brother-in-law accidentally found a girlfriend, and my in-laws were overjoyed. I certainly don't want this relationship to have any twists and turns. It is natural to date when you are in love. My brother-in-law offered to buy a car, saying that all his peers around him had cars. He doesn't ask much, just a few hundred thousand, and he has face to take his girlfriend out for a ride. What my mother-in-law said makes sense, and with her savings over the years, she did have money at hand, so she bought a car for her brother-in-law. My husband and I didn't know this until we saw the car. I was very unhappy at that time, not because I wanted money, but because my in-laws took out all their savings. What should I do in the future? Moreover, you can enjoy as many blessings as you have skills. Brother-in-law doesn't even have a job, and he has to ask his mother-in-law for gasoline. Why did he buy a car? ? Open Netease news to see wonderful pictures, but I bought them, not our money, and I'm too lazy to say anything. The problem appeared a year later, and the young couple had a good relationship and said they wanted to get married. Marriage was nothing, but the woman's parents proposed to buy a wedding room in the city, and the future son-in-law must have a stable job. Buying a house is not the same as buying a car. More than 10,000 people can't do it naturally, but they can beat my in-laws. My mother-in-law thought about it for us and thought that as long as we were willing to help, this matter could be solved perfectly. How did my mother-in-law persuade my husband? I don't know. Anyway, during this time, I recognized my husband's meaning. He wants me to agree to run another supermarket in my brother-in-law, and then take out my savings to buy a wedding room in my brother-in-law, and make a down payment on the loan. Because he didn't make it clear, I assumed that I didn't understand. Later, my mother-in-law couldn't sit still, and time waited for no one. She came and pointed it out to me. I refused directly. I said this, and you said it was the first time, and I wouldn't agree. My husband wanted to help me, so I turned to him and said, "How much did you subsidize your brother over the years? Do you really think I don't know? I feel that the existence of this family is inseparable from your efforts. The brother-in-law is your brother. He is in trouble. You can help him. That's no problem. But not this time. As the saying goes, urgency does not save the poor. This time you can even send it to the supermarket and buy a house. After that, the support of his children and the life of his family will be under your control. " My mother-in-law still won't give up and said, "daughter-in-law, why don't you let my eldest son help my brother buy a house?" You have good conditions, help your younger brother, and the family should be human. " I smiled angrily. This is called helping? I didn't lie to my mother-in-law. I told my mother-in-law directly. Actually, I also told my husband about it. ? I opened Netease News and saw wonderful pictures. I said, "Help as much as you can. I think we have done a lot in recent years, and I'm too lazy to talk about it. You know that. Mother-in-law, if you insist on helping your brother-in-law, then I will divorce, and your eldest son can support this younger brother with half of the property we have worked hard together. " My mother-in-law and husband were silent when I filed for divorce. I have a wry smile in my heart. It's not that I refuse to help my brother-in-law, but that I really have reached the point of strong refusal. Because most people will push their luck, let alone be eccentric in-laws. If I compromise this time, I will be waiting for other unreasonable demands. If I still want this home, I will be a "villain", which is actually good for my brother-in-law. I hope he can realize that everything depends on himself. Relatives can help you, but they won't always support you. For example, this time, if my brother-in-law has a plan and attitude, tell us face to face, to a certain extent, I am still willing to help.