Husband takes money to see a doctor for his child.

Hello! As you said, it is necessary for you to have a good talk with your husband.

If his company is depressed, he really can't get paid. Don't blame her for this. You can ask him to quit with a high salary, or you can think of other ways to make money:

If his unit is booming and makes a lot of money, or he is engaged in private business, he always eats and drinks, spends money indiscriminately and ignores his family. This is his mistake. If you can't control him, you can talk to his parents or elders and ask them to help you solve it. There may be some hope:

If he still won't change and give you living expenses, then you have to make a choice.

Option one, if you still care about this family and don't want it to break up, you can leave the children in-laws or parents to take care of them. You can also find a job and earn some living expenses to make do with it.

Option two, if you think this marriage can't continue, you can separate from him first, but this is not a divorce. Give him a chance to turn over a new leaf and see if he can turn things around. If he still ignores his family or doesn't give you living expenses, can this family continue?

As an outsider, I can only give you some advice. I don't want to break up other people's families, but I am telling the truth. You can think about it and think twice before you act.