Some people say that when people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion. Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

I think "when people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion". I agree with this sentence, because when people reach middle age, class reunion is nothing more than a show-off party. The pride of mixing well, the contempt of others for mixing badly, and some of them simply don't participate. The hardest thing is what happened after the reunion.

The reunion is a reunion that has not been seen for decades, and there should be various moods. However, many rich people who drive luxury cars compare some ordinary people to their indescribable sweetheart, while women are more famous brands, husbands and status, sometimes inadvertently dwarf some people, and even have some first love that they haven't seen for years. In order to fulfill their unfulfilled dreams, they became lovers after the party, and the family after middle age was already a daughter, which was very original.

When classmates meet again after middle age, the original meaning is to find the past friendship, but one side can no longer find the original simple shadow.

The memory of youth is beautiful in everyone's heart, hoping to find the person who was with me at the beginning. However, the world is infinite. When I look at it again, maybe the original troublemaker became the boss, but the original schoolmaster was mediocre. Sometimes book knowledge is just an exam at that time, but really stepping into society is a scene. The original memory may be turned out, which has to be surprising. Some realities have changed.

When people reach middle age, it is inevitable that they will be unfamiliar with each other's vicissitudes.

People can change, especially under the pressure of survival. No matter how good it is, it can't stop the traces of time and the aging of the face. Perhaps the original beauty queen has become inconspicuous, while ordinary women have amazing temperament. Many traces of life are reflected in everyone's face, which makes everyone feel sorry. Maybe people will meet again in middle age, but they mentioned that a classmate died, which makes people feel the impermanence of life.

Although the affection of classmates is the purest emotion, it gives people a sense of distance in reality and has no intention of dividing people into three or six categories.

Although they are classmates, the fate of the environment makes people have to be realistic. Some people try their best to live a normal life. Some people are born with superior conditions and will always be masters. In contrast, it really makes people sigh that the student era has no status, nor has it embarked on the secularization and comparison of society. Only brothers and sisters loved each other at the beginning, but now they can never return to the beginning, and there is a deep gap inadvertently.

Even the best memories are shocking at this moment. Old faces can no longer find youth, which has no intention of making people feel sad!

Meet again after decades, full of emotion. Maybe we gradually feel that with more personal sadness and unintentional sadness in our hearts, we will miss each other all our lives. However, in Cang Sang, no one knows who every day, every year, maybe just forever, but we still can't go against nature. Maybe we will all grow old, maybe we will all turn to dust, and the best feelings in our lives will be taken away by the years. I really don't want to go to the party again.

Personally, I think it's okay to get together once in a while, but it's meaningless if it's frequent.

First, attending class reunion is conducive to expanding contacts.

Since joining the work, almost everyone has lost contact with most of the classmates, and even don't know the number if they want to contact.

Moreover, attending the reunion can quickly add back the classmates who had a good relationship before, which is also the fastest way to accumulate contacts. In the future, when you are in trouble and need help, you will not be unable to find someone.

So it is ok to attend class reunion occasionally.

Some people say that middle-aged students can't really get together, but personally, this sentence is a bit absolute and can't be killed with one shot.

Just like in the workplace, some people will say that they have no real feelings with their colleagues, but some people get along well with their colleagues.

Second, parties waste time and energy.

Small parties are pleasant, but big parties are harmful. Occasionally, we can talk about each other's lives and talk and laugh with our classmates, but frequent parties are easy to make people tired.

Adult time is precious. Heavy work is already a headache, and I have to accompany my family on Saturday and Sunday. Therefore, they have to take time out to attend the party. After a long time, people will be at a loss.

Moreover, it is inevitable to drink at parties and even persuade each other to drink. The older you get, the worse your health becomes. It is not worth the loss to make your health worse and worse for the party.

Third, it is easy to be unbalanced after gathering.

Life will change greatly when people reach middle age. Some people have a smooth career, some people still earn 3,000 yuan a month, some people have married into a rich family, and some people have been smoothed by life ... Those who are frustrated are frustrated, and those who are proud are proud.

If you often attend parties and have poor psychological endurance, you will fall into a strange circle of feeling useless.

Moreover, everyone who attends the class reunion has different purposes. Some people are eager to broaden their contacts, and some people are watching others laugh.

Therefore, occasional class reunions can be attended, and frequent class reunions should be controlled.

There are two key points in this problem, one is that people reach middle age, and the other is that classmates get together.

Let me talk about my point of view first. I quite agree with the sentence "when people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion", and I think middle-aged people's participation in class reunion has only disadvantages and no benefits!

Today's social gatherings are not the same as those at the beginning, and most of them have deteriorated.

Tell a story around me first!

My colleague Lao Liu, a few years older than me, is middle-aged. Originally, she had a happy family, a virtuous wife and sensible children, but because of a class reunion, she almost ruined this happy family.

The thing is, because of the rise of various group chats, Lao Liu's high school classmates also formed a group, bringing all the high school classmates in.

Lao Liu is one of them. At first, everyone was chatting in the group, and Lao Liu didn't think much. Later, someone suggested a reunion.

Everyone agreed. Lao Liu didn't want to attend, but seeing that everyone was so enthusiastic, he finally followed the crowd.

On the day of the reunion, everyone looked very excited when they went to the restaurant, but as soon as they sat down, everything changed.

First, male students began to brag about their high grades one after another, and they all called each other's names. Even Liu Ye, an ordinary worker in state-owned enterprises, is called General Manager Liu.

This makes Lao Liu very uncomfortable, but he can't act too much. Lao Liu sat there, listening to this saying that the new project will be listed soon, another saying how strong the company is, and some even said that they had dinner with some business leaders the other day.

As for the female students, they are all dressed in gold and silver. In groups of three or five, they say that their husbands are directors, company executives, company bosses, and so on.

These old Liu Can can stand it, and now society itself is like this.

But after three rounds of drinking, the classmates' chat changed again, and they began to talk about who was good with whom and who was with whom at school.

Having said that, Liu couldn't help thinking of his past, because sitting opposite him was his first love in high school.

Sure enough, it didn't take long for his first love to come and chat with him, and his classmates began to boo.

From each other's conversation, Lao Liu knew that his first love had not been good these years, and he had been living alone since his divorce a few years ago.

This made Liu feel a little uncomfortable, so he comforted each other with wine.

At the end of the party, it was already past eleven o'clock in the evening. Worried about his self-esteem, Lao Liu volunteered to send her first love.

The other party also readily accepted. When the woman went downstairs, the other party invited him upstairs. Originally, Liu didn't want to go up, but after seeing the expectation in each other's eyes, Liu went up.

After going upstairs, first love changed into a pajamas, then sat on the sofa and began to tell Liu about the bitterness and loneliness of these years. Finally, I don't know what's going on, but the two of them got entangled. ...

Afterwards, Liu was afraid that this matter would be known by his wife, but the more he was afraid, the easier it would be found, and his wife still knew about it.

Had a big fight with him and then ran away from home. Liu only felt exhausted and regretted it. Later, his family and relatives easily persuaded his wife to come back and keep a complete home.

★ The reunion of classmates turned into a reunion of classmates.

The story above should be very clear. Now most of the class reunions have gone bad. When they go to the party, everyone first shows off all kinds of things. Men show off their careers and women show off their husbands. I'm afraid few people are willing to accept this atmosphere.

The reunion turned into a promiscuous party.

This is not my nonsense. Now that many students get together, this kind of thing will happen. If nothing else, when they meet, whether they are men or women, it is a big hug stuck on their chest. How many bear hugs is etiquette?

After three rounds of drinking, everyone was bragging and began to talk about who had slept with whom. Stimulated by alcohol, all kinds of infidelity and one-night stands began to be staged, harming others and themselves.

★ When people reach middle age, they should know how to cherish and shoulder responsibilities.

Let's talk about middle age later. This is an embarrassing era, and it is also an unquestionable era. As a middle-aged man, I have understood a lot of truth, and there will be no more confusion.

During this period, we must first learn to cherish, cherish the people around us, cherish the people who love you and the people you love.

Meanwhile, you must remember your responsibilities. People of this age, old and young, have a partner who will accompany you for life.

Try not to attend some such boring parties and dinners. Wouldn't it be better to spend more time with your family and parents?

Remember, if you are a man, you are the pillar of the family, if you are a woman, you are a sky at home!

So, please cherish what you have now and stay away from these meaningless parties.

If it is really a deep friendship between classmates, we will contact and get together at ordinary times. As time goes on, your feelings will become heavier and heavier.

But what can such a reunion bring you? I don't think it's much good!

These are Siebel's views on love or not. I hope I can help you.

"When people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion." I quite agree with this sentence. Why? Look at me slowly.

Allow me to post a short article I wrote many years ago!

Save the field

Many years ago, I was laid off and became a full-time housewife. I had little contact with the outside world except for my high school classmates who occasionally called to invite me to their home for dinner.

These students are not as worthless as I am, and live an affluent life. When the director is the director, when the mayor is the mayor ... the worst is the section chief of a unit. What they talked about most at the dinner table was which one was promoted, which one was rich and which one was hidden in the golden house. Or push a cup for a change and flatter each other. I know nothing about them. I can't get a word in. I can only sit in a corner silently, eating and drinking. The scene was so embarrassing that I didn't want to go.

On this day, a classmate who works in other places went back to visit relatives, and classmate Guo Qing organized a dinner to welcome him. Guo Qing asked me to go, but I made various excuses to refuse. I didn't expect that foreign classmate to call me personally and invite me, but he didn't go. It was unkind.

Because there was only me and my five-year-old daughter at home, I took my daughter by the way.

When the wine was hot, the hotel manager came. He came to propose a toast to thank Guo Qing for taking care of his business. Guo Qing introduced our classmates to the manager one by one: this is Director Zhang, this is Mayor Wang, and this is President Chen ... When it was my turn to introduce me, Guo Qing said, "This ... is ..." Maybe Guo Qing was trying to find a suitable word to take care of my face, but the result was self-defeating, and he didn't come out for a long time. My neck is red with embarrassment, and I really want to find a crack to get in ... At this moment, my daughter blurted out: "This is-I-mom!" "

Children's shoes that people haven't mixed up in middle age, after reading this short article, is it bitter and evokes memories of the past? Up to now, I still remember the feeling of writing this short article, helpless, helpless and want to cry! It doesn't matter if you want to transfer your unit, you don't have the funds to do business, and you don't care about your children who want to go to work ... There is a sense of powerlessness.

"When people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion." People who agree with this sentence are generally people who don't get along well with me. Those who get along well with "officials, power and money" are willing to attend the reunion. We can't say that people who mix well are willing to go to class reunion just to show off their wealth and power and embarrass us who don't mix well. In fact, this is a natural expression of their feelings. Because life has always been superior, I have formed a habit. If you and I get along well, I think we would also like to attend the reunion. And those bad feelings we have at the class reunion are all due to inferiority and unbearable self-esteem.

If you don't want to be embarrassed, you won't go to the class reunion. Although the mix is not good, but we also have our dignity and happiness! What kind of comfort? Come on!

I have a primary school classmate. We are all in our fifties. He runs a small interior decoration company. At every class reunion, he is always a big boss, and all the girls are envious. Liu has been buttering up and can't be a lover. Only they know. I think the reunion is really boring!

"When people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion." I personally agree. Middle-aged, generally speaking, most people have entered or are about to enter the harvest period of life, and the life pattern has been basically completed. During this period, personal characteristics such as ideas, temperament and occupation were basically stereotyped, and the precipitation process of "birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups" is coming to an end. Therefore, this age-old large-scale class reunion seems to be mixed with many disharmonious factors.

Students who haven't contacted for a long time burn with enthusiasm for three minutes when they meet, and then there is silence and embarrassment that it is difficult to find a topic.

Students who have been separated for a long time, especially those who have little contact after graduation, seem to be very excited and excited when they meet at the beginning of the party. Handshaking, joking, or similar stylized communication in the workplace seems to be quite lively, but after several rounds, the hot words gradually cool down, and the communication obstacles that appear from time to time slowly awaken the strangeness of a long distance.

Emotional Reality After the Great Lakes dried up, the rest of the lake bed is obviously a dull and boring relic of time. After the silence, everyone had to choose to avoid and quickly escape from embarrassment!

Raise a glass, but there is no proper toast, only insincere platitudes.

I have enjoyed the spring breeze and suffered the attack of summer rain. The old sparrow in Dongting Lake in autumn has long understood the profoundness of wine culture.

The wine table is not only the catwalk of life, but also the Colosseum of life wrestling. On sensitive occasions, most people will hang the label of "introversion" on creed's smiling face.

Cheers, blessings, wealth, promotion ... Sound waves hover in the air on the wine table, as if there were no temperature recordings that were numb and repeated.

Everyone knows that today's toast will never find heartfelt words.

Some people struggle to spend money and work hard, and all they get is praise and gratitude.

Middle-aged classmates' parties are generally more ceremonial and grand. The organizing Committee will encourage everyone to donate money. The suggestion seems reasonable, but in fact it is undercurrent: wealth and status have solidified the score ranking in the first half of life. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, those "scores" are always reminding everyone that people are divided into three grades.

Not everyone can feel at ease and be indifferent to fame and fortune, and there will be some discordant noises at the party. The author once read an article about class reunion on the Internet, saying that at class reunion, rich people sit at one table and powerful people sit at one table, while famous people don't know which table to sit at. This is really a slogan.

Of course, there are also students who don't come to the party. The reason why they don't come is to provide a topic for everyone to guess for half a year and enjoy the aftertaste of the party.

I'm afraid it's not just a few people's thoughts that people stay away from class reunion in middle age.

Some people say that when people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion. Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

I don't quite agree with this sentence.

The friendship between classmates is very pure, and it will be unforgettable after ten years of cold window!

High school or college, after graduation, go their separate ways; Struggle in the society 10 years, people are basically married in middle age. Great changes have taken place among students, such as family, marriage, economy and status, so there are differences among students in family, economy, work, status and career.

When people reach middle age, for various reasons, some students mix well, some mix poorly, some mix generally, and all kinds of situations. This is normal and should be treated correctly. As long as the gathering between old classmates is not very frequent and does not affect life and work, proper participation can enhance the friendship between classmates and exchange information. As the saying goes, "one more friend gives one more chance to live."

Old classmates often contact and get together, so that they can learn from each other's strengths, exchange needed goods and help each other. You can't be afraid of losing face just because you are worse than other students for some reason; Just because you are better than other students, you can't be afraid that other students will find trouble with you and get their own light. Life is alive, as long as it makes sense, what should I do? It is the glorious tradition of the Chinese nation to learn from each other's strengths and help each other! I think: when people reach middle age, try not to stay away from class reunion.

Don't agree, stay away from class reunion, why wait until middle age.

I have never attended any class reunion, whether it is junior high school or university.

I think large-scale reunion is boring, because people who are usually close are still chatting in groups of three or five, and those who don't communicate at ordinary times still have nothing to say. So it is more sober to get together with three or five friends occasionally.

One more thing, I personally developed into a middle-aged basic stereotype. The reunion is just a platform for those who do well to show off. Usually a few people show off their wealth and a group of people envy them. Don't go to such a scene.

I thought my little life was not bad. Why let some people destroy this kind of ease, contentment and peace?

I quite agree with the sentence "When people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion". Not only middle-aged people, but also students of many ages have to stay away, because the party has deviated from the original intention in some cases.

First, with the passage of time, the innocence and beauty of the past have been lost. Many years after graduation, the students have been married, and they have experienced too much baptism of wind, frost, rain and snow, so it is impossible to return to the naive mentality on campus. How many people, including myself, once yearned for and looked forward to the reunion, but after they went, things changed, and they were no longer like you, me and him, with such a big gap that they would never attend the reunion again.

Second, the class reunion turned into a bragging party. Although many students set the tone before the party: just talk about classmates! But is it possible? This is never possible! Basically, through simple communication, you will know who gets along well now, who is a successful person and who is a poor working class, and then some flatterers and purposeful people will surround those successful people and flatter them. Students who mix well will also take the opportunity to show off how they got it, so that a group of central figures will appear in the reunion, which has deviated from the original intention of recalling the past and making friends.

Third, the reunion has become a promiscuous meeting. There must be ignorant first love in an innocent age. Some class reunions turned into drunken extramarital affairs, breaking up a pair of promiscuous parties. Many couples get divorced because of class reunion. At the class reunion, the first love classmate was booed and toasted by other students, and the two sides danced face to face. Finally, the two sides had an affair after drinking, which led to the breakdown of their families.

That's my answer. I basically don't attend any big class reunion now. I just get together with a few close friends and classmates. I think this is the best choice for class reunion!

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Some people say, "when people reach middle age, they should stay away from class reunion." Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

There are four or five middle-aged classmates getting together.

Pupils, junior high school students, senior high school students and college students ...

These parties may be comfort to middle-aged people, but they are more spiritual stimulation.

After the greeting, the most common theory of gay men is who is already in what position, the geometry of annual salary, how the children are, who has changed his wife and so on.

It is often the one with the highest social status who always tells his classmates his glorious history in a leading tone, while the one living in poverty is sympathized by everyone and life is not easy.

Female students, most of them say, whose looks are the same, whose husband is capable, or whose children are more promising. Most of them are envious and jealous of each other, with smiles on their faces, but different scenery in their hearts.

The most unbearable thing is that a good party has finally turned into a comparison discussion. Finally, some male students drank too much and were crazy about alcohol. Finally, I can only say something that I am not satisfied with. In the end, I can only come happily and come back disappointed, vowing never to go to such a party again. Bored to death.

Who's day, have been to, no matter good or bad. You don't have to be told what to do The rich have a good life, but the poor have a hard life. Who can be happier than who?

The standard of happiness has never been linked to money. However, in reality, how many people don't think so? Whoever has more money has the right, who has the right to speak, where to eat and how to pay. It seems that such people have the final say.

Female students seem to be better. Without so many things, they wouldn't be like boys, saying and thinking wrong.

Class reunion, or a small range of good, a few more hit it off, chat also carefree, without those utilitarian in it.

Large class reunion, if you can't attend, you won't attend. After all, years have honed everyone's appearance and mood, and no one will be the same as before, and the mood in life will change greatly.