My boyfriend and I are still students. He is a self-taught candidate in finance, and his undergraduate certificate is coming soon. We will continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination. We've

My boyfriend and I are still students. He is a self-taught candidate in finance, and his undergraduate certificate is coming soon. We will continue to take the postgraduate entrance examination. We've been together for a year, but he can't talk sweet words. ... In fact, this problem is not big. Let me help you analyze it.

You have a boyfriend who loves you very much, and you love him very much. You two are together, but you tell your family that this is unacceptable.

What does this mean?

First of all, it may be because you are still at school and don't want you to do anything out of line to delay your studies.

Secondly, it may be that some boys have poor family conditions and are unwilling to marry you without a stable job.

Do you mean the same as your parents?

Then there is negative family pressure,

In fact, there is nothing wrong with what your family said. The main thing is to let you have someone to take good care of.

But no one's parents will agree to marry you to a man who has no car or house. It's hard to bring up the eldest daughter and make her suffer in the future.

So first of all, you should be considerate of your parents. You should not be too childish with your parents in this matter, which will affect their mood.

Boys were supposed to work hard, but now the work in society has nothing to do with it. It's too difficult to climb.

This is because you are still working, and you may not understand that academic qualifications are only part of a foothold in society, but also need relationships, money and your own efforts.

It's not that your relationship can't last. Family members can't harass you every day if they don't agree, can they?

Dating or dating, when a boy has a stable job after graduation, when a boy prepares a house for him to get married at home, you are telling his family about getting married.

Now you tell your family that you want to marry your boyfriend, and they will definitely not let you. After graduation, you have no job and no house. Where do you live after you get married? Living at home? Impossible,

Who are you two? Who can support you? What do you two do, ask your parents for money? Don't talk about making money, rent, loans, electricity, water, gas and eating.

You don't have these aspects, and it's also a matter of money. These are mostly what boys should bear.

Talk to him at an appropriate opportunity, tell him these things, and don't put him under negative pressure.

Let's talk about the current situation. Besides boyfriends and girlfriends. My ex-girlfriend has been talking for seven years since middle school. Isn't it the same if she's not married? Only scholars know.

Tell this to the boy and let him know that if he really loves you, he won't be in a hurry. On the contrary, the pressure from your family will turn him into motivation.

Let him work hard to earn money to finish his studies,

In the end, seniors can only help you get this far.

If you think my answer is helpful to you.

Please don't say thank you when you adopt, but also help me to be happy.

Hello, Edward Zhang, be the girlfriend of an inner man. ~ -XX brings the last word of his name, thank you.