It is not easy. Ronghao Li and Rainie Yang finally meet. How should two people in long-distance love get along?

There are also many stories of breaking up because of long-distance love, and it is often seen that artists break up, cheat or divorce with such understatement? Later, when we separated, we met less, and our natural feelings faded? Make an annual summary of a relationship.

That was not the case. Lovely hierarch Rainie Yang and small-eyed singer Ronghao Li met and updated after 300 days apart, which triggered public discussion and brought out the topic of long-distance love.

Rainie Yang released a photo of a little girl holding a puppy to express her attachment and yearning for Ronghao Li. Ronghao Li also released a dog with small eyes and a good appetite to express her joy when she saw her beloved wife.

They have a good relationship at present, and no one can say for sure in the future.

I've had it before, and I think I still have a say in long-distance relationships.

My current husband and I have known each other for 16 years, been in love for 12 years, been married for 5 years, and have been away from home for 7 years.

I don't think it's easy to keep a happy long-distance relationship. I also saw many long-distance lovers around me break up for one reason or another:

Roommate A, a college roommate, fell in love with her boyfriend for 2 years in high school and 3 years in college, and graduated 1 year. In the second year of graduation, everyone agreed to go back to their hometown to develop (in the same county). Later, because the two families found many places where their values were inconsistent in their exchanges, and both sides had strong personalities, they broke up.

Colleague b, a high school classmate with her boyfriend, graduated from different places for 4 years and 2 years. In the third year, the woman planned to move to the city where the man worked, and found the record of the man's cheating female colleague, so she broke up.

Anyway, what is this? Happy love is like every family, but unhappy love is unhappy in its own way? .

According to my own successful experience, I summed up a small rule of long-distance love for reference:

First, both sides have advantages worthy of recognition by the other side, such as mutual appreciation of personality and certain talents and abilities, which requires both sides to have their own self-worth, and to have? Love is just a passing sight? Consciousness, rather than once in love, start to take each other as the center of the world and give up your own things and plans partially or completely. A typical example is the appearance of ZS in the entertainment circle. It is said that when I fell in love with ZH, I almost gave up my job and went directly with that man. And Li Feier and Huang Xiaoming. I heard that it was also Li Feier who gave up his job for several years and concentrated on love. Although these two examples are not long-distance relationships, this rule is universal.

Secondly, I think the key point is that on the basis of mutual tolerance and understanding, we should not blindly tolerate and tolerate each other. We should regard each other as competitors, not as objects of attachment. Generally speaking, in the event of an accident, girls are either very patient, accommodating boys regardless of reasonable and unreasonable demands, very sensible, wronged themselves, and only ask boys for a gentle word; Otherwise, girls are humble, unreasonable, princesses are often ill, coquettish and critical, and boys will not stand it for a long time.

Third, as a woman, you can't meet all the requirements put forward by boys. It is very important to know how to protect yourself and make appropriate concessions without hurting yourself. And those who have daughters should educate their children more, such as letting boys have abortions often. What should the requirements be? Love is ok, but there must be measures? ; Because boys don't have their own work and life plans, they just wash and cook for men every day; I think what is the least acceptable for girls to blindly pay for men, lend money to men and even raise men? Occasionally, several AA systems will be borne by other men, but women can't always ask men for money, they must support themselves. ? Fourth, before marriage, it is best for both parties not to interfere with each other's professional life too much, and both parties have their own choices and development. But before marriage, we must have a clear understanding, and the issues involved can make us know how to manage our finances, how to be filial to our parents, and how to take care of our children in the future. We didn't take this step at the beginning, so we had a lot of trouble after marriage. The above is my humble opinion for your reference.