What is the mentality of people who don't send friends?

Some people may send a dozen or twenty friends a day, and have been broadcasting their life for their friends. Some people don't send friends for several years, but they are active in the circle of friends. These people are everywhere in reality. The following is an explanation of the mentality of people who don't make friends. Let's have a look.

The psychological explanation of people who don't make friends may be introverted, may be that they don't want to be noticed, may be that their circle of friends is too noisy, may be lazy, may be busy, and may be disdainful of making friends.

The first category: just look at the hairstyle.

There are several reasons why users who have not seen it are still watching it:

1 boring;

2 I want to know what has happened to my friends around me, what is new, and what I am afraid of missing;

I pay special attention to some individuals. I can't stand it without watching it. I can't wait to leave a message for everyone.

4 Look at what news or big events friends have sent and find out;

(5) Shopping, really, especially Bao Ma;

Look at what colleagues and leaders have sent. Don't miss this. Leave a message and shout slogans when it is related to work, praise and flatter when it is related to life.

All landowners I sent friends, relatives, colleagues, no one likes the news, I just can't stand it.

The second category: no hairstyle.

There may be the following reasons why users who don't watch or send out abandon their circle of friends:

(1) Other people's lives have nothing to do with me. Why should I let them know about my life?

2 Maintaining friends does not depend on the circle of friends. A true good friend doesn't care if he praises him or not. Similarly, they don't need to brush their sense of existence. Even if they haven't contacted for a long time, a phone call will appear immediately.

3 I don't want to see the daily accounts of other people's circle of friends. I like it, but I don't.

4 all kinds of sun photos and chicken soup for the soul, when I first saw WeChat, I have no interest at all now;

5 WeChat business is screened, and full-time friends can block it, but some friends are part-time sideline businesses. He sends it from time to time, completely shielded and inappropriate;

6. Being led by the company? Kidnapping I often want to send a circle of friends related to my work company, and I hate leading this behavior from the bottom of my heart, and then I hate WeChat. I hate that companies force individuals to change the name of WeChat to start with the company, and I hate the WeChat circle. I simply don't read it or send it. Just do a good job;

For the protection of personal privacy, I don't like reading and posting.

Is it immature to send friends all day? Nowadays, many people like to interact in the circle of friends, such as: travel, travel, eating, parties, karaoke bars, children, promotional items, troubles and so on.

Nowadays, people don't have much leisure time. Occasionally, I will use my mobile phone to check messages, send pictures and share them. It is normal to interact in a circle of friends, but pay attention to the quantity. Too many accounts will cause others to close accounts or even black accounts, which is not worth the loss.

Publish life

Announcing your life every day is the focus of your life or paying more attention to others and your life dynamics; You can share your life appropriately, but don't suggest too much, which will have an effect of showing off your wealth or calling you poor.

Release work

Generally, only people who don't work hard or business people who are too serious will release work information for work, whether it is positive or negative.

If the work is good, sending it every day is a sign of showing off; If the work is poor, it will make people feel unmotivated.

Release product

For this piece, whether it is classmates, friends, relatives, etc. This is the most headache; It's too late to be blocked and blacked out by others.

No matter how good the account is, it is not recommended to publish product information every day. If you want to send it, send some meaningful products. Don't deliberately promote it, don't deliberately screen it, and don't send it in groups. This is not a sign of maturity, but a nuisance to the outside world and a sign that personal information is leaked to yourself.

Emotional stories invisible to friends circle 0 1

There was a time when I liked being in a hairy state. At that time, there was no circle of friends, and everyone checked each other's dynamics in QQ space.

I send it very frequently. You can send four or five articles a day and one article every few hours. The content is trivial, and it is all small things or small emotions in life.

When I get up in the morning, the sky is blurred. Do you want to send one? Can you come back alive after going out in such a heavy fog? .

Eat at noon, eat worms, and send one? In order to add some protein to my poor student, the canteen is crazy enough to put bugs in the dishes! ?

I had an appointment in the evening and watched a movie. Do you want to send one? Nowadays, romantic movies are getting more and more distracted. Give me my ticket back! ?

It's not over yet. Every once in a while, I will take out my mobile phone and poke it into the space to see who has commented on me and which good friends have not praised me, commenting on one reply after another. When I meet a friend who can talk, I will talk in the comments below.

At that time, I was in college and my high school classmates were scattered all over the country. Students of three years, once separated, want to know their recent situation, but it is not easy to call or send text messages. The best way is to browse their space and see what they have posted. I went to college alone in the distance, and I didn't have any familiar friends around me. I also hope to let my old friends know my joys and sorrows through the state of my hair.

At first, I wanted to release my loneliness by being in a state of hair. Through frequent interaction with my friends on the Internet, I can get back some sense of connection, as if my friends were still there and never far away.

Later, when I integrated into the university environment and had a new circle of friends, I still felt a lot of state. I want to get a sense of existence in this way, so that people associated with me can notice me, and I hope that my life will not be lonely, watched or cared about.

At that time, I liked to send space status and WeChat friends circle. Looking back now, what did I post? Some don't, and they are petty and sentimental, and they all blush for themselves. However, that was me. The display and interaction in space and friends circle really helped me spend a lot of lonely time.

Those lonely moments, like one dark night road after another, are bound to be knocked and uneasy when I walk alone. Those praise comments are like a bunch of torches, which give me a little warmth more or less. More importantly, they light up a short circuit ahead and give me the courage to walk alone through the long night and deserted streets.

02

When did you start to dislike posting status and friends circle?

It seems that there is no clear time node, but I just vent my trivial life and emotional fragments on the Internet, and my interest in waiting for friends to choose slowly fades.

No longer visit the space dynamics, and rarely brush friends circle. I seldom send it myself, and I seldom read what others send. If you miss someone, you can find her from the address book, click on her avatar and look at her nearest circle of friends one by one, but you don't comment and don't like it. You don't want her to know that I was here, and she doesn't need to know.

Maybe it's really past that stage. People are neither old nor tired, and they no longer have such strong curiosity and desire to explore the world for others. Even if a planet explodes next door to me, what does it have to do with me as long as it doesn't hit me?

Speaking of it, people's hearts are really wonderful: when they are babies, they only have themselves in their hearts. They cry when they are hungry and make trouble when they are uncomfortable. Slowly, they became sensible. Parents, relatives, classmates and friends come into their hearts, and more and more people care about them. At this stage, the people and things in my heart expand outward and add. Since then, I have been to many places, met many people and experienced many things, so I have no ambition and motivation to expand. I just want to keep one acre and three points that I care about, constantly eliminate those that are not important, and start to do subtraction.

Especially in the past year or two, the territory of WeChat has expanded rapidly, and it has almost become a national APP. No matter colleagues, customers, new friends, or even snack bar owners who often go to eat, they will take out their mobile phones and sweep them and add a WeChat. There are more and more people on WeChat, people who know and don't know are crowded in, and the circle of friends is endless. Many people who brush the screen are still doing WeChat business or people who don't care, so they will never turn over their circle of friends from beginning to end.

Put yourself in others' shoes. Put yourself in others' shoes. I think others feel the same way about me. Too many so-called contacts on WeChat QQ are only shallow links, and there is no deep friendship between them. Don't go into it, not to mention that not many people really care about your recent situation.

Since most people don't care about you, why do you say those trivial and unimportant things?

What really matters, whether it is joy or sorrow, is not suitable for people to watch in public. How can you say that?

03

I used to want to use the interaction of friends to drive away loneliness, but later, after sleepless nights, I took my mobile phone and looked through my address book, but I didn't know who to call and who to call. You just found that some roads, you have to walk alone, people always have to learn to be mature and forbear in loneliness, and grow up slowly.

There are never too many people who are willing to answer your phone at one or two in the morning and listen to you. There are very few people who can let you talk about your troubles, grievances and worries. Close friends who are honest with each other can be counted with a snap of their fingers.

These good friends who can really comfort and heal you have always kept in touch with you. They don't need to chat with friends to know what happened to you recently and how you are doing.

People who care about you don't rely on your friends to get your news, people who don't care about you and people you don't care about, and you don't need to show them your life. In the long run, your circle of friends will become less and less.

After entering the society, you have to work to make money, buy a house and a car, fall in love and get married, and go to foster parents to raise children. Endless trifles are like waves, and you are at the forefront of life. You are very tired. Where did you get the energy and time to gossip on the Internet?

In the past, your heart was outward, and you had to ask others to get a sense of existence. As you mature, your heart begins to look inward for energy and support. You are your own king, self-sufficient, independent of others' affirmation and shallow concern, and suddenly you feel speechless. It's useless to say anything, and you despise everything.

Maturity may be a good thing, but it is really not a happy thing. You no longer have the desire to gush out, you no longer desire to establish contact with others, just as the wind stops, just like mountains of earth and stones, just like streams converge into the sea, you become strong and you lose a lot of happiness.