Is there a moment when you suddenly regret getting married?

1. I regret that the moment I got married was when my husband was angry and smashed things. When he threw something at me out of control, I felt extremely scared and desperate, even worried about the safety of myself and my children. This kind of violence made me deeply realize that I may have made the wrong choice, and I regret not seeing his nature and potential violent tendency in advance.

Another moment that I regret getting married is when we often quarrel after marriage. We often quarrel over trifles, and even turn into fierce quarrels and cold wars. It makes me wonder if we really fit together. I regret that I didn't consider the maturity of marriage and the personality matching of both parties more carefully.

Another time, I found that my husband's attitude towards children's education was completely inconsistent with mine, and I regretted getting married. He often takes drastic measures when educating children, even using corporal punishment. I am deeply dissatisfied and worried about what he has done. We argue endlessly about our children's education. It makes me question whether we can raise children together. I regret not finding this problem earlier.

Another moment that made me regret getting married was when I found out that my husband was having an affair. This discovery made me feel extremely painful and betrayed. I can't accept his betrayal of me and our marriage. This experience made me deeply reflect on whether our marriage is really happy and healthy, and I regret not noticing his infidelity in advance.

Finally, there was a moment when I found my husband's irresponsible attitude towards family responsibilities and regretted getting married. He often fails to fulfill his due responsibilities and obligations, which leads to our family's economic difficulties and even a debt crisis. This made me disappointed and angry. I regret not examining his sense of family responsibility and stability more carefully before marriage.