Bow softly.

Because of journalism, I often go to the front line for interviews. One day, I hurried to the construction site, and my cheeks gradually turned red. My colleague asked me if I was wearing rouge. I bowed my head and smiled. My friend smiled and said, You are past the age of shyness. Why are you so gentle and shy when you bow your head?

It may be because of the thin cuticle of the skin. When you are busy in winter or in an air-conditioned room, your cheeks will turn red, which is often mistaken for rouge by colleagues or friends.

My friend's joke reminds me of a beautiful poem-mimosa: "Cardamom is homeless, and the breeze dances with the moon." Why dye rouge? A faint blush is better than rosy clouds. "In the garden, mimosa is the most inconspicuous grass hidden in the corner. They look ordinary and weak, standing quietly and steadily, unlike other flowers, which compete to bloom and exude fragrance. But the mimosa is quiet, silent but affectionate, and the shyness and gentleness of bowing its head make people feel pity.

As for bows, I have also read Xu Zhimo: the gentlest bow is like a shy poem of water lotus invincible in the cool breeze. In fact, the most fascinating thing is not this poem. Although poetry is beautiful, it is always illusory. The image of a cool woman is hard to grasp, and the image of such a shy woman is too weak! People can't help thinking: Will such a weak woman be happy? Therefore, the greatest contribution of such a gentle and lovely woman may only be the achievement of Xu Zhimo's masterpiece. The image of Bai Liusu, the most bowing woman portrayed by Zhang Ailing in Love in a Fallen City, is fuller and more vivid.

Graceful woman, the seed of love, like lotus in water, looks at her sweetheart shyly and is vividly portrayed by characters. After reading such a sentence, how can it not be exciting!

In Xu Zhimo's "The tenderest bow is like the shyness of the lotus in the breeze ..." In the painting, the sandy jade hand raised by the woman gently blocks part of the sunset, wakes up from a dream, looks thoughtful, stretches her legs lazily, stands on tiptoe slightly, whispers with low eyebrows, and is tender as water, like the shyness of a lotus in the breeze, as if waiting for a lover's hug.

Fan Liuyuan praised Bai Liusu in "Love in a Fallen City": "Do you know? Your specialty is to bow your head ... "tassel's bow is not because of shyness. Fan Liuyuan inadvertently saw her bow and gentleness, so there was a battle of wits about emotion between the two people. A sophisticated man like Fan Liuyuan may have understood this woman's "stubborn" character at the moment he first saw tassel, but at the same time he also blurred the truth contained in it. Therefore, he was so calm about the temptation from that bow! It can be seen that bowing can better reflect a woman's deep affection and gentleness.

Zhang Ailing praised Bai Liusu through Fan Liuyuan and whispered: You are the best at bowing your head. When Zhang Ailing wrote this sentence, did she also have the idea of bowing her head!

Zhang ailing, she loves that man, too. She said: "Seeing him, I became very humble, humble to the dust, but she expected flowers to bloom in the dust." Therefore, she constantly provides financial support to her fugitive husband, even though she knows that his affairs are constant.

Because of love, Zhang Ailing has bowed her head, but she is not as lucky as Bai Liusu, and her love is still drifting like a fallen flower. Perhaps, this woman who writes books like a love expert is just an armchair strategist; Perhaps, she is not as lucky as Bai Liusu, the people she meets may be born without knowing their true feelings, or they may never have true feelings for her. Therefore, she no longer compromised, and she chose a quiet life.

Comparing the two, Bai Liusu is really good at bowing his head. Although he is too proud, he is afraid of losing face. But based on love, if he can barely walk down one step, he will not be willing to let it go in the long run. However, Zhang Ailing knows how to let go. When everything was irreversible, she sighed, gently kicked the stone, and then held her head high. Her modesty is equally worthy of respect.

"The gentleness of that bow is the most, like a water lotus that can't overcome the shyness of the cool breeze ..." Shame is the beauty of a woman's connotation, nature and temperament. It is like a mysterious veil over a woman, which adds to her obscurity. The hazy sense of shame is the most beautiful, because it can't be artificial or deliberately carved. It is the natural expression of emotion, inner temperament and implicit beauty.

Youhui also knows how to bow his head. One day, when her eyes were covered with fine wrinkles, her lover said, I still remember when you first went to work. You slowly lowered your head, and your supple long hair hung down to cover your face. You gently put your hair to your ear, slowly look up, your cheeks are reddish and your face is shy. How beautiful!

Hui listened to some regrets. Yes, in the blink of an eye, youth is gone! However, she was somewhat relieved. It turns out that she is also suitable for bowing. It turned out that she was beautiful when she bowed her head. It turned out that a long time ago, her lover was remembered.

And such an intellectually beautiful woman is disappointed with her marriage. Hui said: Because of her personality and the nature of her work, she is somewhat lofty, but her husband even sneered at her, saying that she was aloof and didn't give her personal space. Hui was very sad and said that when the child grew up, she would choose to separate from her husband because this was not the marriage she wanted.

Later, Hui's children went to other places to study in universities. She was left at home with her husband. One day, I had dinner with my friends and Hui family. A friend toasted Hui's husband. Hui bowed his head in thought, looked up and smiled, and said calmly and kindly, My stomach is not very good recently. While speaking, his eyes were full of deep affection and he was deeply attached to love. From Mr. Hui's wine jam and caring eyes, it is obvious that Hui will not divorce her husband easily. Yes, Hui never mentioned the divorce with her husband again.

I know, Hui bowed her head again. As friends, we can only wish her well. After all, getting married is our own business. Because there are good and bad marriages, such as drinking water is cold and warm. To say the least, Buddhists also say that the prodigal son can turn back and the lotus can bloom on the wooden platform.

As time goes on, shy people get old easily. Hui still regrets to say that although she does not have Zhang Ailing's talent, good looks and good feelings, she has the shyness, tenderness and gentleness of a little girl.

The gentleness of that bow, whether it is love or compromise, I hope someone can see it, someone can understand it, someone can feel distressed, and someone can cherish it.