Do You Believe? This is life.

I have always believed that the word (fate) is not just lip service. Everyone is an independent individual, with different appearances, different brains and different fates, even the twins who look alike.

You may not believe it, but when I was in my teens, I knew that everyone has his own destiny, and the time after that was just to make these four words more three-dimensional and profound.

My fate was predestined in my mother's womb. The era of son preference forced me to separate my mother and daughter soon after I was born, just like a cut umbilical cord, and there will be no connection from now on. I was just eleven or twelve years old when I learned the secret that I was not my mother's own, but adopted.

I complain about my ignorant age. Even if I live happily, even my neighbors say that I am very lucky and happy to meet such a family and such parents. And after I know the secret, I often secretly cry late at night. At that time, I didn't know why, but now I think about it, no one wants to accept the arrangement and baptism of fate willingly. Although fate is well-intentioned, people have to bite off more than one can chew, and struggle passively. After going around, they find that fate has treated me well, and what fate has arranged is the best and most appropriate. As people often say: God closed a window for me, but opened a door for me.

and fate has brought me more knowledge than that. I complained after I learned the secret, but I pretended as if nothing had happened. Some boring people in the village dared not tell me openly. They always said something by innuendo. The most outrageous thing was that when my sister, who had never met before, was admitted to college, people whispered everywhere. My family often talked about her and encouraged me to read more and study more. In their words, we have the same genes in the future, just like her.

I was really angry at that time. I don't know if it was anger or I wasn't smart enough. I said goodbye to my student days after I finished junior high school. Later, I realized that even if I went back to school and walked again, the result would still be the same. The important component of hard work is undeniable, and a smart brain is also crucial, but if there is no time in life, there is no way to fight. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. That's very good.

you think this is over? No, no, no, a person's life is to grow up through experience, and to go upstream when conforming to destiny.

My elder sister, whom I have never met, is a brick in my dark history of youth. Unexpectedly, she is also a catalyst for me to grow up.

After entering the society, I always feel that everyone is living step by step, eating, working and sleeping. And I am no exception, just different fate, sending us to different places to experience different lives.

Without a diploma or a skill, I was quickly beaten back to my original shape in the cruel reality. Self-abasement, shyness, and inability to speak have all become stumbling blocks in my life. I am doing the work that I least like and have to do, and I have broken away aimlessly again and again, and I have been returned to my original place again and again. I have no strength to struggle and I don't want to struggle again. Until I met her (sister's) words, I rekindled my fighting spirit. Her words are powerful, thoughtful, independent, and dare to fight, which I don't have and all I need. Looking at her success, I also long for such a life. I have never had such a positive attitude, but when I look back, I find it ironic and incredible. Why is it her? Why her? Fate seems to be playing a big joke on me. I try to understand and respond to the gift given to me by fate with an open face, courage and acceptance.

Sure enough, when I sincerely face myself and everything, the first lesson that fate taught me is: learn to be grateful, try to forgive others, and also benefit myself.

Looking back, my heart is grateful. I am grateful to my mother who was pregnant in October for giving me life. Needless to say, the pain of giving birth to a child is said to be a piece of meat cut from my mother. Even if I am redundant, I think her heart will hurt at the moment when I was sent away. Looking back on the scene when we met many years later, she hugged me and burst into tears. I am sure that she is guilty of me. She cares about me very much, and I also feel that she put me in my heart.

The second lesson that fate taught me: There is no shortcut in life. Don't outsmart me, just attack.

after meeting her, it opened the curtain for my confused life, but people are always lazy and don't want to open up by themselves, just want to eat ready-made food. Thinking that she is doing so well now, if you help me casually, I will walk a few steps less than others. Of course, I only keep this idea in my heart. Coincidentally, when I met something, I went to the city where she lived and fought, and this idea was even stronger. She seemed to want to help me sincerely. Although she was busy with each other and met less often, she always talked to me every time she met, asking me what kind of work I liked and what kind of life I wanted. In fact, I know in my heart that a person like me who wants a diploma without a diploma and needs a skill without a skill really can't help me. I didn't understand the truth when I left that city.

I came to a new city, started a new life, insisted on reading her articles, and slowly accumulated experience, which was very effective soon. I began to find myself, learn to deal with myself, and cut in positively. The most important thing is that I understand a truth: other people's success cannot be copied, and you can't imitate other people's thoughts. The only thing I can do is to stick to my original and try to make it better and more perfect on your original basis. There is never a shortcut in life. The secret of others' success and their help are important, but if you stand still and work hard, no one can help you. At that time, you may even lose your original talent.

Life is like a sail. If you want to keep the boat afloat, you should learn to sail, and learn to find your way in adversity, so that you can go through the storm and make the journey.

Now, my life and work are progressing bit by bit according to my plan. Although I can't see the future road, I believe that the fate of those who work hard, love life and face life bravely will definitely give her a satisfactory and happy ending.

fate, let's go on together, and see you at the next intersection.