Who can explain it to me and stop my playfulness?

There are a lot of words, so I believe it will be difficult for you to read every word, but you must read on, because you have to be worthy of your 100 points. Also, take out the pen and paper, wait a moment Use it!

I majored in psychology, and everyone knows the truth. I believe that since you can ask this, you must also know the importance of learning. Let me tell you some practical ways to keep you away from the game for a while. It doesn’t matter what your ideals are (but you have to have them). Everyone understands the cruelty of reality, but if you haven’t really been exposed to it, it’s all in vain. When I was a child, I farmed, and later I sorted goods in a supermarket, and walked through the dishes in a 3-star hotel. I slowly began to understand what society is. From what you said above, you must also be self-motivated. Since you are self-motivated, that’s fine. manage. And the fact that you can get 100 points to ask questions shows that you have some foundation in Baidu, and you have some foundation in Baidu. It is obvious that you are obsessed with games, but you not only use computers to play games, but you are also slightly exposed to other useful things. This is a good start.

What is the most important thing for senior high school students, to get into college! But who said that if you want to get into a good university, you have to give up your playfulness? Look at the so-called successful people nowadays who don't like to play. There is a saying that goes, "IQ is not the best teacher, and diligence is not the best teacher. What is the best teacher? Interest!" Who said it, I said it . . Carnegie (author of the world's third best-selling book "Human Weakness" after the Analects of Confucius and the Bible) said this and I summed it up.

I also loved games, and I also loved Fantasy Westward Journey. Everything about that game made me want to leave, but I still "returned" because Fantasy is now filled with many pornographic and violent contents. , all day long there were account robbers, scolding account robbers, GMs, and forced PK, so I left. Although I was concerned and reluctant to leave, I preferred to team up with my friends to fight skeleton monsters in the Big Wild Goose Pagoda 6 years ago. Fantasy Westward Journey. Now I still go online occasionally, but I just help my friends with tasks, chat, go fishing and so on. No more fighting, no more PK. For me, this game has a new meaning. It is relaxation after a day of work, the warmth of friends, and childhood memories. That's what the game is really about, isn't it?

Maybe you know that it’s wrong to be so addicted to games, and it’s not worth the effort, but you just can’t let it go, and so do I. Now you have a plan: do it yourself. (Take out the pen!)

First of all, let’s analyze your symptoms: ① lack of self-control;

② addicted to online games;

③ lack of concentration Concentration, lack of motivation for learning, motivation but no power.

It’s better to solve the problems one by one.

1.⑴ It should be a holiday now. First of all, it is very easy to decide in an instant to stop playing online games and study hard. It is also very easy to achieve it in an instant, but it is very difficult to continue, unless you encounter some huge stimulation, but the chance of this is very small. of unreliability. So we can only withdraw gradually.

When you used to play Fantasy, you probably played it when you woke up and fell asleep when you were tired. It doesn't matter, now I want you to spend two to three more hours setting up the stall, and then during the time of setting up the stall (turn off the screen, don't look at the screen), you have to take out a book and read it, preferably a textbook. The textbook is really useful. If you go down, you might as well read magazines and novels. (Don't read "Barbarian Chronicles" or anything like that. Even if it's "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" or "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", you can still read it if you're studying literature. If you're studying science, don't read it as soon as possible. It's addictive and a waste of time. After you go to college, you can Let’s read some more. It’s better to read magazines, especially prose. Accumulating more knowledge can help you spread your thinking. I’m a seasoned reader. Don’t read long novels, just short stories for entertainment. Add another two hours to set up the stall and read (just turn off the computer and let him rest during the two hours he spent setting up the stall yesterday, and you can just continue reading.), in this way, 10 hours is reduced to 8 hours, 8 hours Then reduce it to 6, 4 hours. (Shorten it every two days, then reduce it every two days. If it is not suitable, shorten it every four days. A little longer is fine, but not too short. Play 10 today. It is unrealistic to play for two hours the day after tomorrow.

) Finally, log in every day to do SM and other things, chat with friends, and ask what’s going on. If not, just log off. Slowly control it to two hours, and then about an hour, and this hour is the best choice. At noon and afternoon, after playing, I went to read a book.

When you sign up, don’t always think about upgrading or anything. It’s almost done. If you want to compete for the top spot in the college entrance examination, it will all be yours. Chat more with your friends on the account, and I suggest you slowly chat with them on QQ, don’t just chat about games, otherwise it will deepen your dependence on games. You can give your account to a friend you trust and let him take care of it for you (this is very important!)! ! For example, there is an event, and the rewards are awesome, just now! You log in to your account twice to refresh the picture, and then force yourself to immediately ask your friends, "I have to review, please add my account and help me complete the tasks!" Just say that. Then log off immediately!

So you have more and more time squeezed out from playing games, what do you do with the extra time? Going to read the textbook? Definitely not, because then you would sleep. ^_^. I’m not stupid. I go to QQ to chat with friends, read the news (even fantasy maintenance announcements, game experiences), hang out on Baidu, or go to my space for anything (if you haven’t watched movies or Don’t make a habit of watching TV series, you will develop that habit once you watch them). Use half of your shortened game time to do chores and have fun. If there is a movie or blockbuster released, you can go online to download the gun version (don’t download it every week, every half a month). Once is enough. )

OK. Now you look at your situation, estimate your addiction level, and then write a plan! Play for a few hours tomorrow, play for a few hours the day after tomorrow, etc. This is your plan, for a week first.

Note: What I said above about you reducing the time from ten hours a day to one or two hours a day seems to have added nearly 10 hours of reading time for you. , but you should know that it is unrealistic for you to read all these 10 hours. You can allocate the time yourself. You can spare an hour or two every day to watch TV, take a walk or something.

In this case, the time allocation is almost like spending half an hour doing exercise together in the morning (you can also read English ^_^), and then reading a book, but remember to read as much as possible the textbooks, teaching aids, etc. Magazines are for entertainment purposes only and cannot be used for more than 2 hours per day. I saw that it would take you about two hours to eat at noon, play games and read the news after dinner, and then read a book. Until dinner, after dinner you can take a walk and watch TV for an hour, then read a book. This means you will spend at least eight or nine hours on books every day during the holidays, but you have to get used to it slowly.

⑵ When I went to school, I don’t know about you. When I went to school, I got home from about 5 a.m. to 11 p.m. During this time, I was at school. I said I was reading, but in fact, the students knew in their hearts that it was a big deal. Part of the time is spent wandering around, reading small books and so on. We’ll talk about this later. Let’s talk about time allocation after returning home.

The first option is to go home after a tiring day and wash yourself up quickly.

The second option is that you can surf the Internet or even play fantasy, but it only means chatting with friends for more than half an hour at most, not more than an hour. You may be able to do it as a teacher, but the rest is free. If you want to run a lap every day when you come home from school, then you probably have no hope of going to college. This hour is not for you to indulge, but for you to relax after a day of intense study. Combining work and rest is the best way to study. On the other hand, you may not be able to let go of fantasy, so just have fun with it. If you can make good use of your school time, you don't care about the time in the evening.

Leisure is leisure. After a while, it’s time to return to the right path. Pick up a book and do some exercise before going to bed (don’t think too much.), summarize what you have learned this day, review it, and then read Find out what you should do if any of your plans fail to come true.

OK. It is said that this plan is really complicated. If you have conditions, it is better to see a psychiatrist. If not, you can only rely on yourself. Make a reasonable plan based on your actual situation, but don't act too hastily, otherwise you will only fall short. That's why you should make your plan happen every Monday instead of once a month. But remember.

Once the plan is made! There is no flexibility and you have to look after you even if you are sick. The time you play the game can be flexible (it can only be less. For example, you have been playing for one and a half hours, and now you want to do a one-hour task, but the time you set is only two hours. In order to ensure that you don’t Jumping off the bus halfway, so you might as well not do it!), but the time for reading cannot be flexible (only more). So you have to force yourself! Follow the schedule strictly.

Method 1: Paste the schedule on the computer screen. When the time is up, do whatever you have to do!

Method 2: Considering that you are not stable when sitting in front of the computer, it is recommended to put away the mouse after playing with the computer.

Method 3: It really doesn’t work. . Give your parents the planner. . Or someone else closest to you who can supervise you.

In this way, there is basically no problem with control.

2. Let’s talk about the problem of being addicted to online games. The time for online games has been stipulated in the above plan, but in fact, not playing is one thing, and not wanting to play is another. .

So. The following plans are proposed:

①, gradually pay less attention to dreams and participate in those activities;

⑵, hand over the account to one or a few friends to take care of it, someone who can make you feel at ease , think of them whenever you want to play fantasy, they are helping you play, don’t you feel reassured? ;

⑶, try to chat with friends on QQ instead, it takes a while to chat on Fantasy, so why bother;

⑷, allocate more time online to other things For example, you can read the news, go to my Baidu space, or read the answers I gave you a few times, etc.;

⑸, this is something you must do , especially when you are in school, the first thing you do after boarding the Dream is to tell all your friends, "I just came up to see you, and I will get off right away!" Then, keep your promise, and get off as soon as you are done with your work. Bar.

Others~ You should also reflect on your own situation and how to stop worrying about dreams. Let me stop here.

3. If you concentrate, as I just said, interest is the best teacher. Just like some children, do you think they are stupid? He is very good at playing games. Do you think he is smart? But it didn't make any sense for him to learn. Why, interest!

As long as you seriously want to do something, you can definitely do it well.

The reason why you are not interested is probably because you are afraid. You are afraid that you can't do it well. In fact, you really can't do it well, and you don't want to do it again and again.

Ultimately, this is caused by issues such as self-confidence.

So, you have to start from the simplest and memorize the ancient text, and you will fall asleep as soon as you recite it, because the ancient text looks too long and disgusting, so you don’t need to memorize the whole text, just memorize one paragraph a day. If you If the amount is too small, you can do it this way, one section in the morning and one section in the afternoon, or one article and another. I usually have nothing to do, so I picked up an English language book and wrote a few sentences together, and the effect was great. Slowly, it will get better.

The formulas in mathematics (physics and chemistry) are also disgusting. They are long but not long, but at least you can read the ancient Chinese without even reading it. So. Don't memorize formulas by rote. To master his derivation method, you may only need to memorize a few original and very simple formulas, and the subsequent complex formula can be deduced naturally. Even if you can't push it, you don't have to memorize it. Gradually mastering it by doing the questions, it is difficult to remember it or not. (If you can survive the sea of ??questions in the third year of high school, will you still be afraid of those formulas?)

It stands to reason that you should review when you are in the third year of high school. , be steady and steady when reviewing! Start with the easiest ones, make sure you understand them all, and then move on to the more difficult ones, and then the more difficult ones, and the more difficult ones you understand, the more difficult ones. If you do the most difficult thing right from the beginning, you won’t be able to figure it out until you die, and it’ll be too weird if you’re not sleepy! . I guess I'd be pissed off at the scene.

Moreover, during your step-by-step review process, when you really understand the difficult points, that feeling is actually... . It's very cool. . . I really enjoy how every time we finish a math test, I often solve a problem by myself in a class, and then the teacher asks me to go up and talk about it.

It’s really, really cool! , of course, you can only understand these if you slowly learn them. Only the person who made the question can understand it. It turns out that solving the problem is such a happy thing. . . .

Therefore, learning must be steady. Only when you are steady can you have the opportunity to make progress. Only when you have the opportunity to make progress can you experience the pleasure of being a master. At that time, you will no longer be afraid of formulas or ancient prose.

Oops. . Think about my senior year in high school. I got off school at 11 o'clock every night and played on the computer until almost two o'clock. Rain or shine, I recited English in Chinese class, I did math, I recited Chinese in math class, and I didn't recite history in geography class. , sleeping in history class (I went to high school in Jiangsu. You must have heard about the horror of education in Jiangsu.) After class, everyone was sleeping and I was fooling around. During lunch break, everyone was resting and I watched movies on MP4. . In the end, I only got a second grade in the exam. Beihua Institute of Aerospace Industry in Hebei. . The school's reputation is not very high, but I have always been proud of my school and I did learn a lot here.

Think about my deskmate who memorizes Chinese in math class, Chinese in English class, Chinese in history class, and Chinese in geography class. Chinese class for him. . . . sleep. . . It would be best if I didn't expect it, and I would fail gloriously.

It should be said that those who miss college will definitely leave regrets in their lives. So, you must seize this opportunity.

I feel a lot when I think about it when I was young. Come on, boy, life in college is so rich and colorful. It would be a pity to miss it. ! ! ! I have typed so many words, and I am not asking for anything. If I can help you, it is more than worth it. But in general, no matter what I say, it is useless. No matter what anyone says, it is useless. It all depends on you. .

Supplement: If you want to quit playing, you can’t play so hard now! You have to get out of the game a little bit! If you play hard during the summer, having your computer suddenly taken away when you go to school will only make you want to play even more. So it is not impossible that you can sit in class and still think about the game. Only if you step out of it step by step. As I said above, reducing the game time little by little, and then handing your account to your friends to take care of are all ways to reduce the worries of your game.

I am also a long-time game fan. I used to get up early every day and play until late at night, and then I decided not to play anymore. But after two days, I still thought that all the trouble was just a dream, and finally I returned to my old career. When playing becomes boring, I just play a little less every day, and play a little less every day. In the end, I basically just log in to see my friends, and then I don’t have any worries anymore.

Time will smooth these things out, so you can’t just decide not to play and stop playing. Only when you slowly stop playing with him can you forget about him.

Furthermore, the most rational game is to play it for a while every day to relax your mind and keep your body and mind healthy, rather than to play all day long. After you go to college, you have more opportunities to play, and. . The conditions for you to play are also better. . Don't focus on it now, it's better to consider long-term development.

Many people now claim that it is unnecessary to go to college, and many successful people have never gone to school. I admit that there are many ways to succeed, but acquiring knowledge is necessary, and going to college is the safest. Postgraduate entrance examinations, going abroad, etc. are all important choices related to your life's development. If you fail to experience these, it may be devastating to your future.

In addition, I suggest that you completely disconnect from the computer during your senior year of high school. You can discuss this with your family and play for a while on weekends or whenever. Otherwise it may be harmful rather than helpful for you to quit playing. It's like you used to see someone every day, and suddenly you can't see each other within a year. You will definitely miss them. That's just the way it is. Quitting playfulness must be done step by step, so you can’t play hard anymore now. In less than a year of your senior year in high school, you just stay away from your dreams for the time being, and don’t take it too seriously.

Everyone knows that college is important, but you need to have visions and aspirations. Those of us who have been through it all have only regrets. .