Do I have to change the wedding bed? This is determined according to local customs.

Do I have to change the wedding bed? Many people say that a wedding bed must buy a new bed, and brand-new talents have a good meaning. Old beds and second-hand beds don't sound good and have worse meaning, but some people think it doesn't matter.

Must the wedding bed be new?

Marriage is a big event, and many people are thinking about whether to change their wedding beds or not, and they also have different views on it.

As far as customs are concerned, a new marriage bed is generally needed, because the new marriage bed symbolizes a new beginning and has a better start for the couple's marriage life.

However, if both sides don't mind and don't pay much attention to customs, there is no need to change. If the man or woman wants to have the custom of changing beds, then change them.

From an economic point of view: if your wedding room is new, it is also appropriate to have a new bed.

If the wedding room is arranged in your hometown and you usually live outside, don't buy a new bed and waste money.

If you live together before marriage and everything you need has changed, there is no need to buy it. If you are uncomfortable, it is understandable to just buy a new bed by accident.

Therefore, whether to get married and buy a new bed or not is actually different from person to person, and there is no mandatory change.

Can I go to bed early in the wedding bed?

It is best not to go to bed early.

Before the wedding, after the wedding bed is ready and decorated, we usually wait until the bride moves in. Before marriage, the groom-to-be can't sleep alone on the wedding bed, which will mean that he will be alone after marriage, which is very unlucky. If there is really no other place to rest, you can find an underage boy to sleep in a new bed.

Of course, these are all customs and habits, and you don't need to consider them if you don't value them.

Many netizens also said that there is such a custom:

@ Red Poppy's Tears: Our wedding bed didn't let my husband and I sleep until the wedding day. I used to be here all the time, not sleeping with my husband and me. He said he had to wait until the wedding day to go to bed. Ha ha laugh

@ 丠丠丠丠: According to the truth, you can't sleep in a new bed before marriage, including the newlyweds themselves. Find a child to press the bed before you get married. It's best not to let others sit in the new bed. I don't know the specific reason. That's what old people say.

Can't you sleep in the other room? Before we got married, my husband and I slept in other rooms. After all, it is a wedding room. Let's pay attention.

@ What are you talking about? My mother told me that it is best not to sleep in the wedding bed before marriage. Sleeping is unlucky. Before we got married, my mother-in-law asked us to live in a new house, but I still didn't move in. It is best to live in a new house on the wedding day.

@ Rabbit Paper: When I got the new house, my mother told me that I must sleep in the wedding bed on the wedding day, and I can't sleep in advance, otherwise it would be unlucky. So I didn't go back to my new house to sleep with my husband until the wedding night, and I slept in other rooms before.

Can someone else sleep in the wedding bed?

You can't. Never lend your wedding bed to others.

When getting married, many friends and guests come home, and there are not enough beds to sleep at night. In any case, don't leave your bed for the guests to sleep in.

If you are a family member, it may be nothing, but if a guest who is not related by blood lives in your bedroom and sleeps on your wedding bed, it will lead to a decline in your fortune. So remember not to give your wedding bed to others casually.

Some netizens said that the wedding bed really can't be lent to others to sleep:

@alicezhu520: Suzhou has this custom: the night before your wedding, you should find two unmarried men to go to bed, usually the man's little brother, so that you have a son. That's what my classmates did. They found two little brothers to press the bed.

Summer in @ nichole: Our hometown means to let the groom's younger brother or sister sleep, which means it's lucky not to get married, so don't let married people sleep. Anyway, here in Suzhou, it is unlucky to say that you can't sleep for others. ?

@ Venas: Just don't give the wedding bed to children and pregnant women. Others have no customs.

@ Lilly: Before letting my colleagues sleep in the wedding bed, my mother-in-law resolutely refused to let us get married. Later, she also said on the phone that if you want to get married, you have to change the bed and sheets, otherwise this unlucky marriage will not be done.

La la la la: The night before our wedding, what we want is our husband's own sister or to be lucky. If we have a son, we will take him to sleep in a new bed, as the saying goes. . Said having a son was a blessing. . . .

@ Jianghu Freak: I haven't slept in my wedding bed yet. Let my friend sleep first. My parents were very angry when they found out and told them that their friends didn't understand. Later, everything in the wedding bed changed before stopping.

@ 中中中中中: My hometown has this saying. Don't sleep in the new bed for one month after marriage, or you won't have a son; Or find a relative's little brother to press the bed.

@ Princess Elephant Leg: Married in September this year. My mother-in-law bought the bed before she got married. At that time, my husband and brother went home, and I let him sleep in our new bed. Anyway, it belongs to my family, and my mother-in-law insisted on letting me, saying that we would not let others lie down until we slept.

Some taboos about marriage bed

1. Have something to rely on after marriage.

The wedding bed should be placed near it, that is to say, it is best to stick it on the wall, not on all sides. It would be best if both sides could lean against the wall. If you can't lean against the wall on both sides, at least one side should lean against the wall. Now some people like to decorate their wedding rooms in a grand and luxurious way, and put a bed in the middle of the room. In fact, this is not in line with our traditional concept of Feng Shui in China. They feel insecure when they sleep.

The wedding bed is far from the bathroom.

Now our master bedroom is generally equipped with a separate bathroom, which will certainly facilitate our daily use of the bathroom, but it is unreasonable from the perspective of geomantic omen, and the wedding taboo has made it clear that the bathroom should be far away from the divorce bed, because the bathroom is a pollution source, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife and family harmony. Therefore, if the wedding room can be without a bathroom, try not to bring it.

3. Don't beam coping

Liang Ding is a taboo of geomantic omen, so is our taboo of marriage bed. If the wedding bed is placed directly under the roof beam, the top of the beam will suppress and contain the owner's fortune, which is very unfavorable to the owner's fortune. If you want to make a good start for your career when you are newly married, remember not to put the wedding bed under the beam.

4. The orientation of the wedding bed should be the bride's numerology preference.

The location of the wedding bed is best combined with the numerology of the bride and groom. If we can't give attention to both, the bride's numerology is mainly based on the five elements, which is in line with the concept of "outside men and inside women". This is good for the couple's fortune, and it is also good for feelings and reproduction. For example, the bride's numerology is like water, and the bedside of the wedding bed is best facing north; The bride's numerology loves gold, and the head of the wedding bed is best facing west.

5. The mirror can't shine on the wedding bed.

The mirror reflects the wedding bed, especially the mirror reflection at the bedside, which has a negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife and is easy to cause peach blossom robbery and a third party.

6. Don't face the TV in the wedding bed.

Don't point the TV at the wedding bed, so as not to form a dark mirror effect, which will affect the life and feelings of newlyweds. It is best not to discharge electricity in the bedroom. If so, it is best to cover the TV when it is not turned on.