What do you mean by uninvited?

Meaning: refers to unreasonable demands, polite words when making demands on yourself, and self-modesty.

Source: Yun "Reading Notes on Summer Records of Luanyang in Wei Caotang II": "I don't want to ask, but I want to do it."

Vernacular translation: I hope you will agree to this ungrateful request.

For example, I think it's New Year's Eve, talking and laughing, which is very funny. It's a bad invitation to let him see me off in the dark. (The Adventures of Jiang Yang)

The story of reluctance to expand information:

This is the story of a soldier who came back from the Vietnam War. He called his parents from San Francisco to inform them that he was back, but he had a reluctant invitation. He wants to take a friend home. "Of course!" The parents replied, "We will be very happy to meet."

But my son went on to say, but there is one thing I want to inform you first. He was seriously injured in the Vietnam War and lost an arm and a foot. He is always desperate. I want to invite him back to live with us.

"I'm sorry, son, but maybe we can help him find a place to live." The father went on to say, "Son, you don't know what you are talking about." Disabled people like him will bring a great burden to our lives.

We have our own lives to live, and we can't let him ruin them like this. I suggest you go home first and forget about him. He will find his own sky. "Just then, the son hung up the phone and his parents never heard from him again.

A few days later, the parents received a phone call from the San Francisco Police Department informing them that their dear son had fallen to his death. The police think this is just a simple suicide case. So they flew to San Francisco heartbroken and led by the police to the morgue to identify their son's body.

That's their son, yes, but surprisingly, his son only needs one arm and one leg.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia-Ungrateful Invitation