How to tear the label?

From ancient times to the present, women always seem to be defined, labeled too much and bound by various rules and regulations from society.

When I was a child, I was taught to be a lady, dignified and decent, and girls should look like girls.

When I grow up, there will always be some voices around me, saying that girls don't have to work too hard, see clearly, just find a man with good economic conditions and be good to themselves, and have a good life.

However, after marriage, they were asked to be a good wife and mother who put family first, so many women gave up their careers and lost their economic independence.

In desperation, she chose to be a so-called full-time wife, and even forced to become a housewife attached to her husband, taking care of the family all day and having no time to take care of herself.

What you see later is that she may be unkempt, careless, a little out of shape, and her face is getting haggard.

But she used to be a beautiful girl, with exquisite vitality, self-confidence and charm. She is the most beautiful existence in your eyes.

What girls lack is the courage to go forward, because initiative is the way to win. ? Everyone has no definition. We should break those defined definitions, be brave to be ourselves, and strive to face every day positively. If you want to change, you must become stronger inside and accept yourself. We should break the standardized definition of secularism, discover more beauty, and let all women take the initiative and have the courage to break the bondage of secularism.

Therefore, the first step for women to achieve self-independence is to recognize and find their true self and please others instead of themselves. Before making a decision, ask yourself, is this what you really want? Focus on yourself, think independently, don't get lost in other people's opinions and eyes, and refuse to be defined.

Learn to accept yourself and be fearless. On the way of self-awareness and tearing off the label, women will inevitably have doubts and doubts, and there may be times when they can't do anything, and they feel that they can't reach the height they want.

But no one is absolutely perfect. Therefore, female friends, I am very supportive of self-reliance. Live high, and when encountering thorns, learn to accept the possible imperfections in yourself, try and fight for them. The way you work hard is the way you look most beautiful.