"Ode to Joy 2"｜What kind of existence is the little bag in your life?

It hurts me to stay up late watching dramas, and the worst thing I can complain about is that there are too many advertisements. "Ode to Joy 2" can be said to be a work piled up by financial backers. Even so, I still followed the first 8 episodes seriously.

But my way of watching is different. After watching the first two episodes completely, I only watch the scenes of Mr. Xiao Bao and Andy, and even the scenes of Dr. Zhao and Qu Xiaoxiao in the following episodes. I always skip it in fast forward. Because I saw Bao Yifan in my life from Mr. Bao. (I feel that the trend of Xiao Bao that has been blowing recently is no less popular than that of Xiao Xianrou)

For Andy, Xiao Bao is very different from the women he has dated in the past, and he can’t wait I want to introduce Andy to my friends around me, and I try my best to promote Andy's cooperation at work. I take good care of Andy in life, and even changes my breakfast to make Andy happy. In his words: "He has never been so interested in a woman."

In order to let Andy get rid of the stereotype of him in the past, he took Andy to the place where he started his business and helped Andy Di used sports to vent his emotions and took care of Andy's emotions at all times without daring to neglect him at all.

Xiaobao always has money and leisure, a hearty laugh, a great figure, a beard, reliable, funny, sometimes evil smile, sometimes serious, even Andy can't do anything to him, even I called Lao Tan (not instant noodles) and told him that I felt very happy and comfortable with Bao Yifan. (Completely in line with modern women’s perfect fantasy of a perfect future husband)

So what kind of presence does Xiaobao always have in my life? It’s not that there are such rich and free people around me, but just from Mr. Bao’s laughter, I can’t help but think of two people. One is my brother Tang, and the other is my dad’s friend.

Brother Tang got married when I was in elementary school. It was very lively at that time. In the hall surrounded by people, I only saw Brother Tang and the bride serving tea to the elders in the family in exchange for red envelopes. At that time, in my world view, marriage was a lifelong matter, but I didn't expect that they would divorce two years later.

Later, Brother Tang went out to Shenzhen to make a living. He worked as a small vendor, set up a street vendor, opened a bar, and a mahjong parlor, but he never worked for anyone. A few years later, he married again and gave birth to two chubby boys. The family was harmonious and he lived a happy life. In his spare time, he often takes his sister-in-law out to travel, fish, and swim, and his life is full of excitement. In the past few years, I have started to start a catering business again. Although it is more difficult, many problems have been solved by the couple's combined efforts.

I still remember that during the days when he was driving and setting up a stall, he would deliver daily necessities to my house from time to time. Every time he comes to my house, his hearty laugh and his deep dimples make me feel like the whole living room is filled with sunshine. When I get along with such a person, I always feel a sense of intimacy.

Another Mr. Bao in life is my dad’s friend. I went to Hong Kong when I was young, did serious business, and also opened a casino. The family built one house after another. After getting married, they gave birth to three chubby boys. One person worked hard outside to support the whole family.

In the end, he was sentenced to several years for gambling. After he was released, he relied on his generous character and hard-working spirit to start with real estate demolition. In the past few years, he bought cars and houses, and his life began to prosper again. He and his wife have a clear division of labor, and things outside the family rarely worry her, and they occasionally have a little romance. Although they were married on a blind date, their relationship was fairly solid, and they rarely quarreled.

Generally speaking, they all have the same characteristics. They are funny in conversation, have a hearty laugh, and have a bit of a bad character. In addition, they can endure hardships and have a strong sense of responsibility, and they can always win over women. Heart. And whether it is work or life, they rarely worry about their women. Having good communication skills and ability to withstand stress can always help them find new directions and solutions for themselves when they are depressed and confused in life.

They may be ordinary, and they may have done wrong things, but their family harmony, loving husband and wife, and their courage and magnanimity in facing life make me admire them a little. They should be the ideal marriage partners of many women, right?

I don’t know, what kind of existence is the little bag in your life?

Copywriter: Hu Qi

Editor: Hu Qi

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