Brother, from now on, you are the adult of the family.

At noon, when I was about to take a nap, my mother suddenly called me. She told me the news: "Your uncle's brother is getting married. When will you have a holiday? It will be on December 22. It's up to you. Are you on holiday? Can you come back? Your brother came yesterday and asked me to help (i.e. cook, cook, entertain guests, etc.)." I was stunned for a moment and asked, who will help him take care of the entire wedding process? You know, getting married is a big event. Mom said, you have forgotten your auntie. Yesterday, your auntie uncle also made some arrangements. It is almost done. Moreover, the neighbors have already regarded them as their own children. I said oh, that's true. Later we talked about other things and said that I would see if I could go back when the time came.

After hanging up the phone, I lay down and cried unconsciously. I was quite puzzled, but I thought I was really crying because I was happy for my brother. Then I called him. , although we haven’t contacted each other for a long time and we have grown up, when I call him brother, I feel that we are still the same as when we were children.

Like us, my brother’s family also has four people, but there is another little brother, and I have a younger brother. The adults of our two families have a very good relationship and are very close to each other. We have grown up together since we were children. They are two or three years older than us. When they were young, their uncle was more strict with them, so their grades were better. Dad would always tell us to look at our two older brothers, their grades were so good. Yes, they are two typical children from other people's families. They have loved and hated them since childhood.

Until later, many people in the village gradually began to work along the coast, because it seemed that they could make money faster. Likewise, uncles and aunts also went. Two years later, my parents also left, but our two families still lived relatively close to each other. During the summer and winter vacations, our brothers and sisters were on vacation, and we would visit together to play.

The good times did not last long, and there were always bumps and bruises when going out, but the uncle's family began to encounter various misfortunes one after another. On the way to work, my uncle and my aunt were in a car accident together. It was very serious. The uncle became half a child, and my aunt was left with severe leg problems and could not do gravity. Later, she had to rely on compensation money to return home. I take care of my uncle while living in my hometown. At the same time, the eldest brother just admitted to an ordinary second-tier college for some unknown reason, and the younger brother didn’t know when he started to decline, and later he repeated a grade.

Life went on like this for two years. Whenever we went back to our hometown and passed by my brother’s house, we would visit our uncle’s family. Once we went there, my uncle would ask me and my brother a lot of questions. Sometimes he would cry and say, “Everyone of us is the same.” So big! Are your parents back? But after a while, they forgot who we were. It was always like this, good and bad. Because his brothers were all studying outside, he sometimes cried and said that neither of them wanted him anymore and neither of them wanted to take care of his future life. But his aunt was used to it and had a good attitude. She would joke with him. , yes, yes, they don’t want you anymore.

Day by day passed by, and in a blink of an eye, the eldest brother graduated from college, joined the work, and became a teacher. The second brother also went to college, and life seemed to be getting better gradually. During the Chinese New Year the year before last, everyone was still discussing the marriage of my eldest brother at my uncle's house. Everyone suggested that the marriage should be arranged, but for some unknown reason, it did not happen. However, another uncle's brother got married, and my aunt also went to help that day. There is always a "sir" at the wedding, and my aunt asked him to come and have a look at the house because she saw a snake at home two days ago (we in rural areas feel that there are strange things in the house and it is necessary to ask the "sir" to take a look) . After returning home, my aunt said she would go to Yao Ma's house to get something and would be back soon, but she never came back. When she was about to get home, she fell down on the road and left like that. When I heard the news, I was really stunned for a long time, thinking about why God wanted to do this, and what the uncle would do on his own in the future. Later, I heard from family members that at my aunt's funeral, the uncle suddenly cried and said, "She "Don't want me anymore"... During the Spring Festival of the first year, I heard from adults that my two brothers went to visit my aunt's grave. It looked very pitiful, and I felt even worse. When school started, my eldest brother took my uncle to work, which I heard was a nursing home. I'm afraid there is no other way. Who doesn't want to take care of him by himself, but because he has to go to work and earn money to live, he has no time to take care of his uncle.

So when I heard that my brother was getting married, I was happy for him and asked specifically if she was the sister-in-law from before. My brother said yes.

Second, if my aunt knew about it, she would be very happy, because she really hopes that her brother will get married soon. I think my brother will have some regrets in his heart. Third, I lamented that from now on, my brother will be the adult of the family, the backbone of the family. It is up to him to take care of the family. I believe he can do it!

What is the meaning of a tree that wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and a child that wants to be raised but cannot be kissed? I think this is it! Hopefully we all start treating them "kindly" from now on.