What kind of experience is it to get married young?

Marriage at a young age, whether in the past or now, has this phenomenon. What kind of experience is it to get married young?

When I was a child, I was surprised to hear that the children next door were engaged to get married early. So I am very concerned about this matter.

It turned out that the two families in the village got along well and the children were born one after another. They think that the child is not bad, and it is a man and a woman, so they decide to marry early.

When he grew up, the boy's father left the village and went to the town to become the leader of an ordinary unit. The boy still lives in the village with his brother and mother because he has to go to school.

When I was in junior high school, I went to school a few miles away from the village. Girls are one year younger than boys and are not in the same class as boys. On the way to school, men often meet girls. They never talk.

Later, I don't know who said behind their backs that the two of them had made an early marriage, and the boy was in a rebellious period, so the war started. At first, the boy got into a fight with the companion who said this. Later, when he saw the girl who was engaged to an early marriage, he didn't give a good face and said some rude words. The boy's brother also threw a stone at the girl.

The girl was so angry that she went home and told her parents that she would never marry that boy when she grew up. So girls transferred to other schools and didn't go to the same school as boys.

The two families later canceled their early marriage and their relationship plummeted. Both families regretted their decision to marry early, which made their children unhappy.

After graduating from junior high school, the boy's family went to town, and the girl walked in the village, no longer afraid to meet that annoying boy.

When I saw the girl, I talked to her about the boy. She sighed: It's all because her parents mind their own business. She wanted to die when the boy and brother bullied her. She said that she never wanted to see that boy again in her life.

Seeing the girl's experience from childhood to adulthood, I know exactly what kind of experience it is to decide a young marriage: being bound from childhood, having no freedom in my heart, being insulted for no reason ... or being influenced by the bad habit of early marriage in society!