Please give me a wonderful excerpt from Fu Lei's letter.

"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "

The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For my grown-up son, I hope he will thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let the child stay away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children will be useful in the future and will not sleep on the streets. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the hard work of our parents, let them see what they want to see-our happy life is also a reward for their painstaking upbringing.

Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.

"As far as playing is concerned, I think it is generally good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate. Tonecolour has really changed a lot. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "

This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

Third, Fu Lei's charge.

"In the public * * * group, catching up on tasks will inevitably hinder normal study, which I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "

Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.

Fourth, mother's concern.

"I hope you put all your energy into the study of knowledge, with more reason and less emotion. Of course, you need to rely on your strong confidence to control all your troubles. This is not an easy task, but it must be overcome. I have never been involved in any opinions about your emotional problems. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart man, you will realize it yourself. Since I am your mother and we are flesh and blood, we have to nag and persuade. "

It should be said that mother is cautious. The father has good intentions for his son's future, while the mother starts from the most delicate place-the son's emotional problems, giving him a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his feelings and career, and let his son understand the key points. We should also learn from Fu Lei's wife. We should understand our priorities, our tasks, our road and direction, what we should and should not do, and grasp the direction. This will contribute to our success.

V. Fu Lei loves his son.

"Son, I tease you, I will always be sorry for you, and I will never make amends! These thoughts have never left my mind all day, but I dare not tell your mother that if you do something wrong in your life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed away! "

On the occasion of parting, father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict with his son and being "cruel". It turned out to be my own fault. Well, in fact, this is the love for my son! If you don't work hard when you are young, your boss will be sad! When his son was young, Mr. Fu Lei was strict and meticulous with his son, and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. Sounds like a joke. Where would a father abuse his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a stick makes a dutiful son, and Mr. Fu Lei uses strict father to make a gifted scholar. When our parents are "violent" to us, we should have an understanding attitude and understand our parents' anxiety. Because they did it for us, and they hated iron for not turning into steel. After all, parents have the desire to make their children successful and their daughters successful!