The so-called moral kidnapping of "you are weak and you are reasonable"

When you come into contact with more and more words such as "Is the bad guy getting old or the old man getting bad" or when things big and small are tied to moral kidnapping, once you occupy the moral commanding heights, all ideas will deviate.

The question of whether to give up your seat has gradually risen to the moral level, which also makes us tired of dealing with this problem and talking too much. But things are still exposed to the public eye.

On May 3, an old man was invited by the owner of the seat on the high-speed train at Nanchong Station, but his request to be crowded with the owner was rejected and he accepted another middle-aged man to give up his seat. Later, the old man's daughter said, "Young people should study more". The owner of the seat complained, "Is there something wrong with his position?" ?

Everything happens for a reason. The old man is going to see a doctor by train. Anyone who has bought a high-speed rail ticket knows that when the holidays are approaching, you can only buy a station ticket without buying it in advance, so this will happen.

For this matter, don't let it become your duty, let it become mutual affection. It is a virtue that we give up our seats. But you take advantage of people's age, take advantage of people's old people being sick, and you are weak and reasonable, forcing people to give up their seats. Note that this is coercion, not asking if you can. It is his right not to ask the seat owner. This way of moral kidnapping is nothing more than creating public pressure with this weak posture. Is weakness really reasonable?

There is a passage in People's Daily: "High-speed rail seats are operational resources, and they enjoy full rights after spending money." It is commendable that the old man is seriously ill and takes the initiative to overstep his authority. Should we let ourselves judge and allow moral appeal instead of moral kidnapping?

If you take a bus, you can't take it. Once, I died, hurt my ankle, tied with thick gauze, and sat in the love seat next to me, saying "Please give your seat to the old, the weak and the sick", comforting myself that you are a "disabled person" and qualified to sit. Coincidentally, it was rush hour, there were many people on the bus, and then an old man stood next to him. At that time, he sat crustily skin of head, but the old man's eyes kept looking at me intentionally or unintentionally. His eyes revealed a thousand words and gave up his seat, although I was afraid that if my foot was stepped on by high heels, it would be unstable and twisted. I'm more afraid of that look.

A friend once quipped, "I used to have a knee injury and had to rely on crutches." I met an old man on the bus, told him that his young man gave me his seat, let the old man sit down and have a look, and added, "Why are you leaning on crutches?" "I don't know whether it is true or not, but I still smiled.

In fact, I don't want to target a certain group, but I feel it when I see the news. What I want to say more is your weak moral kidnapping.

There are too many such things in life, because friends may read tweets, so as not to sit in the right position and ruin my sleek image. I'll just talk about friends.

Chatting with people and complaining about the topic are all enthusiastic, and this kind of big principle and big plan emerge one after another. When you really want to do something, someone will definitely receive your call, and the promise you get at home is nothing more than an excuse that you don't have time. In the end, only one or two people completed the task, and the task was actually not difficult.

I went home to chat with my old friends some time ago. Speaking of school, I can't help but vomit. For a simple speech, I prepared all kinds of materials for people and gave them to the speaker I had found in advance, which was a mess. The next sentence is that I am not good at it, but what I really see is the lack of unfamiliar preparation for the information.

It is a bad thing that "you are weak and you are reasonable" as a shield to solve what you don't want to do and are too lazy to do. What we are experiencing now is basically at the same level. At most, there is no difference between who is good at it and who is short. Calling it a moral kidnapping is nothing more than that you think we are classmates and friends, and I will help you if you don't work. Forget morality. First of all, you are irresponsible. Some people will make friends with irresponsible people.

Once things are related to morality, it's really unreasonable, and you don't have to care too much about my opinion. Everyone has their own ideas, and it is normal to have contradictions.

Some people say that morality is used to restrain oneself, not to blame and order others. I quite agree. In society, it is necessary to talk about morality when everyone's normal rights are guaranteed. On the contrary, if morality is above basic rights and power is not guaranteed, what is the use of law?

Many times, when others are labeled as weak and reasonable, we have the right not to help others. However, if you are a smooth and kind person, this time is difficult. If you help, you will feel wronged and feel sorry for not helping.

More often, look at yourself and see if you have used this reason to embarrass others.

p & gt