Sichuan teenagers bought pesticides and died by taking poison. Is it wrong for parents to claim compensation from pesticide shopkeepers?

Whenever I see such news, I really feel sorry for my anger. Unfortunately, teenagers always set their life at 16 years old. Angry is that parents don't reflect on themselves, but they just pass the buck. Personally, I think this behavior is really shameful.

Maybe many friends are still unclear. Let's analyze this matter rationally first.

The party Xiao Yang is only 16 years old, the same age as Hua. He has plenty of time to spend, at least he has a certain judgment on the possible consequences of what he has done. According to the court verdict, at 6 o'clock in the afternoon, Xiao Yang bought a bottle of pesticide through WeChat payment alone, and then went to the tea shop to let the classmate who was shopping in the tea shop hand over the key of the electric car to another classmate, and then drank the pesticide.

It is not difficult to see that Xiao Yang has a clear plan for this matter, and he is actually very calm when he does it. What makes the child so calm in the face of death, and what makes him give up his life so easily?

Is it really easy for him to give up life?

The answer is no, because Xiao Yang had similar words and deeds of suicide before, but he didn't act because he was worried and worried. His parents divorced when he was 7 years old. Since then, Xiao Yang has been living with his grandparents. What role did Xiao Yang's parents play in these nine years? Parents? Or a money-making machine without feelings?

Left-behind children lack not only money, but also love, the love of parents and irreplaceable love. Although Xiao Yang's parents may go to other places to earn money for various helpless reasons, nothing is more important to a child than the companionship of parents.

Now the network is very developed. A 16-year-old boy will be exposed to all kinds of information through the internet, but his grandparents know nothing. Xiao Yang has no one to rely on at home and no one to talk to. Coupled with the lack of parents' company, he accumulated more and more things in his heart, became more and more stressed, and his psychology became more and more fragile, which largely led to the tragedy.

Is the owner of the pesticide store responsible? Yes!

Selling fake pesticides and not selling toxic substances in strict accordance with the prescribed procedures should be punished, but many times we have no way at all.

When we were young, we were instructed by adults to buy things, sometimes it was oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, sometimes it was wine, and sometimes it was cigarettes. When the farm is busy at home, although few parents let their children run errands to buy pesticides, there are definitely some, so it is not surprising for the shopkeeper, although there are doubts, so Xiao Yang said that when he bought pesticides, he bought them for his grandfather. The shopkeeper really couldn't tell the truth or ask him.

Do you want the owner to ask the customer: Do you buy pesticides for drinking? The first reaction of a normal person must be that there is something wrong with this person. As for Xiao Yang, even if he bought a drink, he wouldn't admit it. Is it necessary for the shopkeeper to follow him all the time to see if he bought something for use or drink?

Finally, let me talk about Xiao Yang's parents. Pain? Aiko? It is really unacceptable, but as parents, shouldn't we reflect on our own reasons? Why does a good boy become like this? Is there something wrong with yourself?

Speaking of which, I can't help thinking of Joe's little joy when he ran away from home. After her parents found her, Ruth wanted to jump into the sea. Dad let her have something to say at home, but mom still asked her why she had to go to Nantah. It's not that Eiko's mother treated her badly, but that she didn't find the right way. After the child had a problem, she didn't reflect on whether there was a problem with her education, but blamed others for the mistake.

This is the case with Xiao Yang's parents. Although the child's death was heartbreaking, he didn't think about his mistakes, but first passed them on to the owner of the pesticide shop, and he didn't have any responsibility at all.

If you want to ask them why they haven't been home with their children for so many years, what do you want to say? I'm doing this for the good of the children, okay? Huh? How noble, how ridiculous, but how helpless.

If Xiao Yang knew what his parents had done after his death, would he be chilling?

I think the most important thing between parents and children is communication. Most parents habitually force their children to do what they can. Although the purpose is really good for children, do they really care about money, children or face?

Parents also come from this stage of children. Why can't they think of their children, even if they can't accompany them at work, take time to chat with them, understand what their children have recently encountered in their study and life, and understand their thoughts, so as to get along with them better and avoid all kinds of extreme behaviors. After all, parents are the best teachers for children.