Never cry to the people around you! What is the truth of life in this sentence?

Never cry poverty to the people around you, which is very correct, but crying poverty is not hypocrisy, let alone modesty.

In my opinion, "crying poor" means complaining. "Hypocrisy" is a kind of pretending to say something unpleasant. In the final analysis, it is a manifestation of insufficient strength. Modesty is a low-key attitude towards life.

1, I always find someone to complain.

Lu Xun wrote in an article that "slaves always have to find someone to complain". It seems that the image of complaining is really bad. But there are many such people in life, and they may meet at any time. Is complaining useful? It's a little useful to get comfort and sympathy, maybe nothing else. Almost everyone was killed! Think about how many people can help you at these moments. I think it must be rare. If you can't solve the problem, why complain to others? In short, it is completely unnecessary. A lot of complaints will make more people choose to leave, which is counterproductive.

Please swallow your suffering in one breath, face the reality firmly and try to record it.

The only way to solve suffering is to find a way to make yourself strong. There are no obstacles in the world, that's for sure. It's only a matter of time, so when you are killed, you must stick to it and try your best to solve it. Every difficulty always has a corresponding solution. If it is not solved, it is not found, or it is found right. Keep looking!

3. Who is complaining? Who can only complain about suffering?

There are two kinds of people who complain, the poor and the rich. When the poor man complains, he is really bitter. The purpose is to get help. As a result, the poor suffer more. Have you ever seen a beggar? Not much to say, you know everything. Rich people complain whether they are afraid of borrowing money or want to get more benefits. Only the strong don't complain, they laugh at difficulties and move on.

Suffering can only complain to one's relatives, and it is always one's relatives who are the first to show their talents in times of crisis.

4. "Hypocrisy" and "modesty" are not brothers on the same road.

Why should people be "hypocritical"? That's because of lack, people are often lacking. "The original meaning of the word' virtual' is false. For example, he is poor, because he is really short of money and has to pretend to be rich. At a party, a man boasted that he had a wife who loved him very much. I think nine times out of ten, he has a bad relationship with his wife. A year later, I heard that he was divorced. People who are truly powerful are "modest". Modesty is a low-key, a learning attitude and a life attitude.