It is said that women please themselves. what do you think?

I think this sentence has lost its meaning in today's society. What kind of woman should be tolerant of herself? Women should tolerate themselves. Dress up beautifully, dress beautifully, and even pay a painful price for plastic surgery, all for yourself, not for the so-called self-pleasing. Women dress up beautifully to make themselves more confident, but also to cultivate both inside and outside, not like a vase or a consumer product of men in a patriarchal society. In today's society, women's sense of independence has awakened. I think women should live for themselves, not for men.

Tell a story around me. I have a roommate. Because my home is in Yunnan, it is naturally dark, but in fact, my facial features are not bad and ugly. I just feel inferior all the time and feel that I am not beautiful, especially after dating my boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a real love rat, always saying that she is not beautiful. If it were me, I would have let him go, and my roommate, not only that, decided to have plastic surgery this spring, cut off her double eyelids and padded her chin to make herself more beautiful. She quarreled with her boyfriend on the phone the other day, and I heard the whole story. What surprised me most was that she told her boyfriend that if you don't think I'm ugly, I'll have plastic surgery for you, and now you treat me like this? This sentence is really sad. For her, although her appearance has become beautiful, with double eyelids, her chin has become longer and her face has become sharper, she is still very inferior. Even if he is tolerant of himself, people who love him don't seem to pay the bill, and she is the only one left in the end. Put yourself in others' shoes again. I think if I were her boyfriend, I would feel great pressure to hear such crying. I don't think this girl has paid a lot for herself, but I don't think this girl is cute at all. In this way, it is no good for women to please themselves.

Everyone loves beauty, and now more and more girls have plastic surgery for beauty, and even many girls suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder because of plastic surgery. I think looks are my own, and beauty should be for myself, not for others. Beauty is to make yourself more confident, exude more unique charm, and make yourself happier and more comfortable, not to make men feel happy. Everyone can look down on themselves, only themselves.