Etiquette speech

It is said that the history of China is a history of etiquette, and we all have the reputation of "a country of etiquette" since ancient times. As early as the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucianism mentioned that "courtesy is the first in the world" and emphasized the rule of the country by courtesy. Confucius also said that "don't learn etiquette, don't be rude", which shows that etiquette plays a vital role from both the national and personal perspectives. Then in this people-oriented society, as members of the president of the student union, we should pay more attention to our own etiquette norms.

Etiquette can be divided into three categories, but what I said today is mainly aimed at members of our internal student union, so it can be summarized into two categories, personal etiquette and public etiquette. Personal etiquette can be divided into three items, one is appearance, the other is speech, and the third is manners.

Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the external expression of a person's mental outlook. A person's health habits and clothes are closely related to the formation and maintenance of dignified and generous appearance, which can be said from two aspects: health and clothes.

1. Hygiene: Cleanliness is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful clothes and luxurious clothes are, if the whole body is covered with dirt and smell, it will inevitably destroy a person's aesthetic feeling. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits. Do sleep, get up, wash your face and feet, brush your teeth in the morning and evening and after meals, often wash your hair and bathe, pay attention to neat appearance and change clothes frequently. Don't "clean personal hygiene" in front of people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt and so on. These behaviors should be avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking with people, keep a certain distance, don't speak too loudly, and don't splash on the population.

2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it is necessary to be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, and to abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of objective environment and occasions, that is, dress should give priority to time, place and purpose, and strive to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dress.

As an art, speech is also an important part of personal etiquette. This is also essential as a member of the student union. Speech is mainly composed of politeness and language.

1, courtesy: be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others.

2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" in daily use, and the word "you" in the second person's address. The first meeting was "long heard"; Long time no see; Please criticize it as "teaching"; Trouble others call it "disturbing"; Seeking convenience is "borrowing light"; Ask people to do things, such as "please". Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in China are ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye". These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization.

Etiquette and manners are also essential in personal etiquette. From one's manners, one can clearly see one's civilized quality and accomplishment. Etiquette can be simply summarized into four aspects: speaking posture, standing posture, sitting posture and walking posture.

1, Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. So when talking, first of all, both sides should face each other squarely and listen to each other. They shouldn't look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn. Otherwise, it will give people the impression of being absent-minded and arrogant. In addition, when introducing yourself, you must have a strong voice and not give the other party a perfunctory feeling.

2, standing posture: standing posture is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, and the shoulders should be relaxed. Arms naturally droop or cross in front of the body, eyes straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist, legs, etc. When standing. In some formal occasions, you should not put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, let alone make some small moves subconsciously, which will not only appear stiff,

3, sitting posture: sitting is also a static shape. A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle when you sit down, dignified and steady when you get up, and you can't rattle tables and chairs and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what sitting posture, the upper body should be kept straight, as the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.

4. Walking posture: Walking is the main action in people's life, and walking posture is a dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" means using popular water to describe a brisk and natural gait. The correct walking posture is: light and steady, chest raised, shoulders relaxed, eyes looking straight, smiling, swinging arms naturally.

There are many kinds of public etiquette, but the present situation of our student union staff can mainly be seen from the etiquette in specific public places.

During the meeting, the mobile phone should be turned off or turned off. You should enter the venue in advance according to the time, dress and sit down according to the regulations.

The office is where the staff of our student union work. Pay attention to cleanliness, keep quiet and hygienic, take good care of the public property of the student union, and at the same time do not harm the health of others, do not smoke in the office, and abide by the articles of association of the student union.

In this era of highly developed communication information, the mode of "turning a deaf ear to things outside the window and reading only sage books" is no longer suitable for our life rhythm. On the basis of reading, we need to cultivate our communication skills. Of course, communication as a member of the student union is even more essential, and the cultivation of communicative competence comes from various banquets and socializing, so the importance of social etiquette is self-evident.

Although social etiquette is a regulator, it can regulate the relationship between people and avoid conflicts. But there are also some taboos to remember in social etiquette, otherwise it will be counterproductive. No one wants to associate with people who are timid and confident. If you don't know how to interact with people, you will be isolated. It can be said that the quality of interpersonal relationship is an important factor to determine the success or failure of life.

There is an important "three A principles" in communication etiquette: acceptance, attention and approval. It is to accept each other, attach importance to each other and identify with each other with your own practical actions. Accepting each other is to be able to tolerate each other and not exclude each other. Paying attention to each other is to let them feel your respect, which is very important in your heart. To identify with each other is to be good at discovering each other's advantages and affirming them in time, without arrogance or rashness or flattery. Therefore, we must pay attention to daily etiquette and leave a good impression on people anytime and anywhere. Do "speak in moderation, communicate in moderation, do things strategically, and behave in moderation." Only in this way can others easily accept you, help you, respect you and satisfy your wishes.

So what should we pay attention to in the process of communication?

Don't break your word. Breaking promises is only a temporary convenience, a temporary happy mouth. In the long run, losing the trust of others means losing the greatest capital.

Don't hurt others with bad words. When the other person's temper is on the verge, it is necessary to temporarily avoid it, because the other person can't find the object to vent, and the fire gradually disappears. Avoidance does not mean compromise, but gives the other party a chance to think calmly, and at the same time proves his self-cultivation.

3. Communicate in time to eliminate contradictions. It's hard to avoid abuse. Before or after things happen, it is best for both sides to sit down and communicate calmly, eliminate misunderstandings or contradictions and avoid verbal abuse.

4. Don't get angry easily. Calm down, learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes and consider the problem from the other person's point of view, so as to find out the solution to the problem.

5. Don't gossip. Gossiping behind your back will not only hurt the friendship between classmates or colleagues, but even make enemies, which is also a manifestation of low character.

6. Don't joke too much. Jokes are common, but be careful.

7. Don't smoke in public places. Smoking is harmful to human health, and smoking in public places will give people a feeling of being unreliable. Of course, if the host invites us, we can talk alone.

Secondly, table manners play an important role in social etiquette. Familiar with and master wine table manners, so as not to be analogical, to treat people properly and not to be rude. As a communication medium, wine can not only leave a good impression on people, but also promote interpersonal communication and bring convenience to work or study. Let's learn about the etiquette on the wine table:

Although the wine table is "affectionate and stuffy; Love is shallow, lick it. " But don't say it while drinking.

2. Keep a low profile, accumulate wealth, sit on the banquet, see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, and don't be too impulsive.

Toast is orderly and has clear priorities. Baking bread is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. Leaders will drink with each other before it is their turn to propose a toast.

4. You can be respected by many people. Never be respected by many people unless you are a leader.

5. Respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the drinking capacity and attitude of the other party must not be less than that of the other party. You should know that you are respected. In addition, persuasion should be moderate.

Chapter Two: Etiquette Speech

It is said that the history of China is a history of etiquette, and we all have the reputation of "a country of etiquette" since ancient times. As early as the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucianism once mentioned that "courtesy is the first thing in the world" and emphasized the rule of the country by courtesy. Confucius also said that "don't learn etiquette, don't be rude", which shows that etiquette plays a vital role from the perspective of the country and individuals. Then in this era of fierce market competition, in this people-oriented society, we should pay more attention to our own etiquette norms.

Elaborate etiquette, emphasizing business etiquette:

First, the concept of etiquette

Etiquette, English "courtesy", is a process of self-discipline and respect for others in some established procedural way in interpersonal communication. It is an art suitable for interpersonal communication and a communication skill. People usually put the word "etiquette" together, but they are actually separate. "Etiquette" means "etiquette", such as weddings, ceremonies, reciprocity and so on. And "Yi" is the expression of "Li".

Second, the origin of etiquette

When we were young, our parents taught us to be polite, civilized and polite. When we step into the society, in the process of study and work, we also find that we should pay attention to etiquette when dealing with people. We should pay attention to our clothes and manners, so how did manners come into being? There are three sayings: etiquette comes from customs, etiquette comes from ancient sacrifices, and it is used to practice agreed things for blessing. Etiquette comes from court regulations and is used to restrain people's behavior norms. We can't study which statement is more accurate, but from the above three statements, we can easily see that etiquette is produced to maintain a stable order in social activities and maintain a harmonious communication.

Chapter III: Etiquette Speech

Hello, leaders, teachers and classmates! The topic of my speech today is "Let the flower of etiquette be fragrant".

The towering trees stand upright, relying on the silent support of the roots; Lingyun's tall building is majestic and comes from the firm support of the cornerstone; So, what can we use to support a harmonious society? That is-politeness. What is etiquette? Etiquette is a sincere smile when we meet on the road, a warm help when a friend is in trouble, an "I'm sorry" when we accidentally bump into each other, a whisper in public places, and mutual humility? Being polite is a beautiful quality, a noble accomplishment and a noble behavior.

Now, I am standing here, sharing the etiquette stories around me and my happiness: every morning, when I come to school, I greet my teachers and classmates, and everyone greets me warmly. At that time, I felt warm. During the break, my classmates and I whispered about our hobbies and told a lovely story about Pleasant Goat. I felt kind at that time. After school, I smiled and said "goodbye" to my teachers and classmates. At that time, I felt happy. At home, I help my parents do housework, and they praise me for being the most sensible. At that time, I felt happy. All day, I lived in happiness. Students, do you want to be as happy as me? Very simple, smiling, more polite, strive to be a small model of civilization and pass on Chinese etiquette from generation to generation.

Etiquette is a song, a beautiful and beautiful song. If we lack etiquette, it is like a song without melody, and no matter how perfect the lyrics are, we can't play beautiful music; Etiquette is a flower, a flower in bud. If we lack etiquette, we are like a flower without rain and dew, no matter how delicate it is, it will gradually wither. Students, etiquette is the foundation of self-cultivation and etiquette is the soul of life. Let's start from now, start from scratch, spread the concept of civilization with enthusiasm, and create a clear sky with love. On campus, we should try our best to be polite students. In society, we should try our best to be messengers of civilization, so that the flowers of etiquette will bloom on us and the fragrance of etiquette will overflow around us.

Etiquette is a spring, a clear and transparent spring, etiquette is a poem, a poem without end. Observance of etiquette is the highlight of our quality; Learning etiquette shows that we are moving towards civilization. Let's continue to irrigate with sincerity, nurture with enthusiasm, cultivate with understanding, and make the flowers of etiquette fragrant.

That's the end of my speech, thank you!