There are many practical considerations in love. Is it true?/You don't say.

Sometimes, I really worry about Leo. In the modern love world, the competition is fierce, but the courage, methods and skills of Leo in expressing love (I mean when he first pursued it) are really not brilliant.

Basically, Leo is conservative at the beginning of his pursuit. If you want Leo to take the initiative, it is inevitable that you will not be able to pull your face; Lions, in particular, risk being rejected. Isn't that a gamble? When the lion felt ashamed, he had to stay put.

Is there any barely feasible way? Probably can only accept man-to-man tactics. If you really like him, first observe his whereabouts, lock in some times and places where he often appears, and then seize the opportunity to appear in front of him and let him notice your existence.

Let him see you at least three times a day. For example, early in the morning, at the breakfast meeting in the alley, I was in front of him, and I deliberately ordered a breakfast that was not available in the store; At noon, I stood beside him in the welfare club and accidentally fell to the ground; In the evening, go to his usual pub for a drink and sing a song on the stage … until he smiles at you and talks to you. If it never happened, you can walk away without leaving any evidence! )

Most importantly, when he talks to you, please don't be too pretentious to answer "if you can come, can't I come?" Such unbearable words. Please add a question at the end of each sentence, such as: "Yes, what a coincidence, do you live in this alley, too?" If you can talk to him for twenty sentences, even if you know him, then the following things will be careless.

When you look directly into each other's eyes

United by misunderstanding, separated by understanding. I believe you have heard this sentence and seen this vivid and bloody example. This is not because most people's eyes are not accurate enough, but that when people get along with each other, they will inevitably show their good side at first. In addition, people in love often use love to downplay many practical problems. No wonder couples get along for a long time and get "deeper and deeper, more disappointed".

Leo, in particular, looks smarter than you actually are. If encouraged by friends around you, you may be blinded by beautiful illusions and ignore practical problems.

Here are two examples that can be used as a reference for you to look at your right eye. A Leo friend of mine met a painter by chance, was instantly fascinated by the painter's temperament and talent, and began a lightning-fast love. Unexpectedly, a month later, I realized that this painter may paint well, but he doesn't know the world at all, let alone how to make a living. To make matters worse, he can't resist the kindness of other admirers. The lion, who once had illusions, had to break off his love affair with Hui Jian, ending a good dream.

Another beautiful woman in Leo is also quite outstanding among her colleagues, but she can't get a good relationship. Because whenever everyone is talking about a good man, she will write a love song with the hero in a short time. At first, it was quite envied by other female colleagues. Once or twice, it became a topic.

Seeing the right eye can only be considered as a good impression, and other people's rumors can only be used for reference. Please evaluate the potential of getting along with each other calmly and objectively, which is an important basis to ensure the success of the relationship.

At the time of first love

Leo's first love script is often wonderful, but unfortunately the ending often leaves regrets. This trait is related to Leo's excessive desire for first love, and more to those deceptive novels and movies.

Before falling in love, Leo has written a script and drawn a blueprint for his first love. Most of the plot of this script is imitated from movies or novels: in an afternoon shower, I met a handsome guy who kindly borrowed an umbrella and found a rose on my desk every day; A motorcycle accidentally hit a peerless beauty ... such a romantic fantasy occupies a small heart and becomes the highest guiding principle of love.

If one day, the first love really comes, the plot may be like a romance novel, and the dog's blood will be spilled. We agreed to call at night, and he fell asleep. You should wait by the machine all night. I waited all night until dawn, and my tears were wet all over the table before I received them.

You were even more angry when he told you that he was asleep. "Sleep is more important than me? Don't you know I'll wait all night? Don't you have nightmares? " A burst of sadness, I am afraid that even my clothes are wet. In fact, he is just too tired.

Is it necessary to exaggerate so much? Is it necessary to be so romantic? Why not make love easier and more natural? First love is a wonderful memory of a person's life. If you insist on loving like a poem, a dream, a novel and a movie, be careful that there will be the first wounded poem, the first heartbreaking dream, the first bitter novel and the first sad movie in your life.

When you fall in love

I think your lover has been carried away by your enthusiasm. Your gift is enough for him to open a gift museum, and your concern, greetings, love letters and cards are endless. In short, when you are in love, you really pour out the love of your life and are not stingy at all.

He must feel that he won the first grand prize, or that he looks like Yang Guifei. However, all this is too rich and full, but it will make people feel insecure. Will winning the first grand prize be the wrong code? Will the beloved Yang Guifei be forced to die in front of Maweipo one day? There will be some uneasiness or foreboding in my heart.

So, don't scare your lover, let alone put pressure on your wife. You know, everyone's personality is different, and everyone's expression is different. When you go all out, do you subconsciously want him to respond in the same way Did you unconsciously put double pressure on each other?

The first pressure is that you give him too much love that he doesn't need. For example, he was born well, but you took the initiative to accompany him for twelve hours a day; He likes quiet, but you have a full schedule every day. How can this not be stress? The second kind of pressure is to make the other party feel that there is nothing to report. For example, on his birthday, you held a luxurious party, so will he follow suit on your birthday? If he is not good at this, isn't it another layer of pressure? Therefore, even in love, quality is more worthy of your consideration than quantity. If you just pay blindly, it will inevitably cause others' tension and disappointment.

Take love in a horizontal knife, okay

Leo's loyalty sometimes reaches the point where he knows nothing about the past. So you don't want yourself or your lover to move on, and you can't convince yourself to have an unfaithful relationship.

If you can't break through your psychological barriers, I don't think you should force yourself to continue to develop. Because it's hard to be happy under conscience. When you are together, you will always think that the other party is carrying inhuman and unfair burdens, so unhappiness is a predictable result.

However, the facts are not necessarily as rigid as you think. From an objective standpoint, everyone should have a choice as long as they are not married. No one can deprive two people of their choice in life just because they regard them as lovers. Similarly, just because two people are treated as lovers does not mean that they must live happily ever after.

You should not only trust your eyes, but also respect each other's choices. If you two of a kind, the other person is willing to give up your old lover and throw yourself into your arms, but you repeatedly use pedantic remarks like "A gentleman is unlovable" and "You have been together for so long, you shouldn't turn your back on him for me" to resist yourself and the other person, wouldn't it ruin a bright future in vain?

If you can figure this out, you might as well turn two similar people into reality. If you really can't leave, it's better to end this relationship as soon as possible and find another relationship that you think is aboveboard!

When he doubts your loyalty

Leo has always been known for its loyalty to love. When your loyalty is questioned, it will inevitably make you uncomfortable. You can often hear such a dialogue in TV series: "I love you so faithfully that you don't believe it." Who else in the world can believe it? " If you hear a lion roar like this, it is definitely not an expression, but a roar from the heart.

Suspicious lovers are really a big burden for Leo; On the contrary, Leo's lover will also make others very uneasy.

Leo has a cheerful personality, and you are always natural and graceful in front of people. Whenever friends around you praise and affirm you, you can accept it gladly without pretending to be "evil". Even, you will use gentle eyes, bright smiles or brilliant insights to secretly inspire others to appreciate and admire you. These facts are natural to you, but in the eyes of your lover, you will inevitably feel that you are too enthusiastic about the opposite sex, so you will guess if you have ulterior motives.

Therefore, when you have cherished love, please restrain your own light and keep a "safe distance" from other members of the opposite sex. On the one hand, it can prevent your lover from eating, and on the other hand, it can avoid attracting people who admire you to pester you.

In addition to making corrections in action, it is better to be more positive in words. It is useful to say that you love him, that you love him very much, that you promise to love him, that you promise to love him all your life, and that you only love him all your life. Especially when you get carried away and fall in love with a dog inadvertently, he will forgive you more easily.

When love meets a bottleneck

Many Leo seem to have more dignity and less tenderness, but they are actually a constellation that knows romance. Lions in love attach great importance to atmosphere and are good at feeling. They are definitely not village girls who don't understand emotional appeal.

It is precisely because I am used to the sweet situation of flowers and flowers. After a period of communication, when love becomes a habit, the princess and prince of Leo will feel that life is too dull. Without flowers, candlelight dinners and lingering love words, life seems to have no luster. The lion trapped in the bottleneck of love is really like a year.

It takes a person who tied the bell to untie the bell. Instead of expecting him to warm up love, why not take the initiative to try to break the bottleneck? First of all, you might as well have a frank exchange with him and tell him how you feel. I hope he can face up to this problem with you. Don't worry about him laughing at your immaturity, let alone adding to his burden. Because only when two people really understand each other's needs can they find an effective solution. Even if the other person thinks that this desire to return to love is unrealistic, if he loves you, he should have the obligation to accompany you through this growth process.

On the other hand, we might as well take the initiative to improve the depressed love craze. If a bunch of flowers represents the maintenance of family ties, what is the big difference between him sending you and you sending him? Love is the interaction of both sides. When you rekindle the flame of love, he can feel the warmth and return his love to you!

When the old lover turns back,

For Leo, although your lover is gone, your memory has recorded the whole relationship. So, one day, when an old lover looks back, it will naturally remind you of the past.

Was it very helpless to break up at that time? Although neither you nor he wants it to end like this, it has become a wordless ending because of the fate of the environment. Now that he is back, you are naturally ecstatic, and you can finally make up for it. You hate the sea.

Unfortunately, although everything in memory remains the same, real life is easy to change. Here, I must advise you not to heat up too fast at once. Don't impose on him memories of the past. You should try to understand him and accept him now. Otherwise, the old love between us will become a stumbling block. It is really inhuman to taste the loss after losing it again.

If he abandoned you at that time, I think your memory will play that tragic memory again when he appears. Therefore, it may be difficult for you to pull your face down and accept this arrangement of looking for gold or stepping on shit. Seriously, if you can't promise to forget his past betrayal, I advise you to forget it the first time. Otherwise, he will live in the shadow all his life-you have an excuse to comfort yourself when you do something wrong all your life (I didn't forgive you for what you did to me), then the future of love will be worrying.

Doubt about love

Leo boys are like kings and girls are like princesses. I think you have such noble temperament. When you are in love, you really like the feeling of being spoiled. When you feel lonely, he can come to you at once; He can make you happy when you are bored; When you want to decorate your heart, he can take off the stars in the sky for you; You want to prove your charm, he can give you the most decent worship in the world.

Unfortunately, this year has entered the era. Few countries in the world still maintain the system of king and princess. If you really insist on playing such a rare and precious role in the country of love, I'm afraid you are in danger of losing your job.

Therefore, when you doubt whether your lover still loves you, don't forget to look back and think about whether you have adopted a "super high standard" for your lover that is difficult for ordinary people to complete, so that he always fails in your eyes.

People are diverse. Leo has a set of thinking patterns, and people in other constellations also have a different set of thinking patterns. Expressing love is also diversified. Some people have two loves, and they can be very affectionate. Some people love you 120 thousand, but they may only express two or three points. Leo, you must learn to look at people around you with a more inclusive eye. Especially for your lover, you have to believe; Love doesn't have to be talked about, and it doesn't have to be love.

Facing the choice of love and bread

For Leo, lovers with the smell of bread are really attractive. However, don't think that the noble lion once gave up love for a box of bread.

Every time some men see that Leo women know how to spend money and enjoy a better life, they want to win the hearts of beautiful women with money offensive. In fact, trying to lure a lioness with money is a taboo. She will think that this is a big disrespect for her and a contempt for her dignity of thinking.

So, if you are a lioness, of course, you won't make a choice entirely based on money. Otherwise, just your friend's comments will make you feel very painful. Instead, there is a greater chance of being obsessed with love.

However, the persistent choice must be fully psychologically prepared. As the ancients said, poor couples are sad. In TV series, the plot that a young lady marries a young man with ideals and ambitions and can't get used to a hard life is usually true; However, for young people, future success is not necessarily everyone's luck.

So while you believe in love, you should also carefully evaluate your minimum demand for bread and the potential of the other person to earn bread in the future. What is more dangerous is that you overestimate each other's potential and hold the ideal of choosing love first now and killing two birds with one stone in the future. This kind of getting along requires a high degree of wisdom, otherwise a little carelessness will make you under constant pressure, while the other party can't realize your ideal. In a life of dispute, love will disappear without a trace.

Love is a lasting test, please don't give yourself too difficult questions.