Are you happy to marry a wife? Tell me.

1. A good wife must be a hardworking woman who can keep the house.

I remember someone saying, "A good wife is a good day", which I think makes sense. Look at the familiar families around you. It is the wife who really decides the lifestyle of a family.

In a family, eating and drinking Lazarus is always messy, and a good wife can always work hard day after day and keep chores in order. At the same time, she knows that she must have principles and can't haggle over every ounce.

A good wife knows the truth that "food and clothing are not poor, and life is not poor". She knows how to arrange family life in a planned way, how to save money on the premise of ensuring the quality of life, and how to make the family gradually rich.

A good wife must be a gentle, considerate and easy-going woman.

It is said that women can be unattractive, sexy and smart, but never gentle. This is especially true of a good wife. She can not only interpret the marriage life vividly and wonderfully with tenderness, but also be shy as a lotus flower with tenderness.

No man can escape from a woman's gentle arms. This gentleness is a kind of happiness, which benefits him and infects others unconsciously. After all, a woman's appearance is not the basis for a husband and wife to grow old together.

Imagine what would happen if a beautiful face matched an unattractive personality. Needless to say, everyone should know that it must be a fragile vase.

A good wife must be a tolerant, caring and polite woman.

To tell the truth, a good wife doesn't have to know astronomy and geography, but she must be a tolerant, caring and polite woman. Her tolerance and fraternity must have a happy home in her heart. In the eyes of her husband, she is a goddess, and in the eyes of her children, she is the warmest harbor.

She knows that love needs to spread, not only her own man, but also her parents, brothers and other people she loves. She knows that after marrying a man, she should respect his parents more.

Her propriety stems from the fact that no other man will occupy her inner position except her husband.

A good wife must be a woman who will play dumb according to the situation.

A good wife must be a smart woman, and definitely not a woman who is resigned to her fate and has no opinion. She knows that there are many times in life to assess the situation and play dumb, and she knows how to manage marriage to the realm of inaction.

To tell the truth, the "silly" here is a smile that knows everything and doesn't show. She won't look down on others, let alone attack others with words. She knows when to understand and when to be confused.

The confusion here is that she knows everything in her heart, controls all changes in the situation within her own expectations, and then calmly responds. To put it bluntly, this is actually a good woman's state of mind, a sober, a wise.

A good wife must be a kind and grateful woman.

Kindness is the true meaning of human nature and the most precious character of human beings. Because women are kind, they will honor their parents, care for their husbands, love their children and be kind to others, so as to be stable.

In life, a good wife must know that romance is a way of life and gratitude is an attitude towards life.

In other words, a good wife must be a grateful woman. She always believes that life is always beautiful, and she can live smarter and more interesting, get along with people more calmly and lovingly, create a more harmonious living environment, reap warmer emotional returns, and move towards a better life realm.

6. A good wife must be a woman who gives each other private space.

No one has any secrets in this world. A good wife must be a woman who knows how to give each other private space.

Marriage is an invisible rope that binds two people together for the rest of their lives, but maintaining proper private space will enhance each other's feelings unless you have no trust at all.

Therefore, a good wife should not only cling to the family's economic strength and men, but also give men some private space, and will not check his mobile phone, QQ chat records and so on. A good wife won't ask who the woman he talked to yesterday, nor will she ask a man to always revolve around himself.

In short, there are many standards for a good wife. Men have different tastes and preferences. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Women are beautiful because of kindness, or they get true love because of kindness. No one is perfect. For men, a good wife should also appreciate her advantages and tolerate her shortcomings.

What's more, there is no depth of life. When you learn to be happy and sad, you can feel the fleeting time with a calm heart, enjoy life and bear clear family ties. Therefore, as a man, you should be grateful and understand your wife's difficulties.

On the other hand, however, if you don't know how to be grateful from the heart, no matter how good a woman is, she can't be your good wife.

There are all kinds of people in this world, so good men have different standards. But I believe that the mainstream values of society are similar. Here are some basic requirements for a good man.

First of all, the most important thing is to be good to you. No matter what you cry, he is willing to coax you until he makes you happy.

Second, he is single-minded about his feelings. Like you, he can never tolerate flowers. No matter whether he is rich or poor, he will always take you with him and never give up. After all, it is not a myth that men are easy to go bad when they have money. Men with money and mistresses are very common in real life. Of course, most men with money in their pockets are still very devoted.

Third, your man does not gamble, prostitute, drink or smoke. It is not only conducive to family health and harmony, but also saves this part of the money.

Fourth, he has a stable job and an upper-middle income. His family background is simple, and his relatives are easy to get along with, especially his mother-in-law.

Finally, he is not only a good husband, but also a good father. Will take the initiative to care about children's school choice and study, and will take time to accompany their children out to participate in outdoor activities.

Those who meet the above conditions must be good husbands!

Marry an independent, mature and responsible man who can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you will be happy.

First of all, this man should be filial to his mother. We often understand filial piety as obedience, that is, obedience. However, in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only obeying and obeying the mother can not solve any problems, except pleasing the mother, which will only deepen the contradiction. Many men don't realize that their parents are not perfect, but also have their own shortcomings and selfishness, so the mother-in-law may have a generous and tolerant attitude towards her son, but not towards her daughter-in-law. I don't know anything but being picky. For outsiders who have nothing to do with themselves, it is natural to take away the feelings of their sons. Attitude determines a person's behavior. If the husband lets his mother-in-law find fault with his wife, or even adds fuel to the fire, family conflicts will inevitably intensify. So if men don't realize this, you don't know how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only by being filial to the mother but not tactful can we maintain family harmony. To stop the contradiction provoked by the mother, although it may be difficult for a mother to accept emotionally, she is her own son after all, and if it makes sense, it is understandable. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that tolerance for one person must be cruel to another.

Second, love your wife. Every married woman wants to have a sense of belonging to her family. If the husband treats himself as an outsider, there is no place in the husband's family. Moreover, the husband-in-law will treat his daughter-in-law according to the man's attitude towards his wife. If a man puts his wife in such a position, how do you let her choose to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? If my mother-in-law was taking care of my son before I got married, then after I got married, I lived with my wife, shared joys and sorrows and raised children. I don't love my wife who gets along with me day and night. I am obsessed with the upbringing of my parents. Which wife do you want to be? My mother-in-law's kindness is great, because she gave birth to you. Which parent doesn't have children and doesn't raise children? As for it. If you can't love, at least you can't let your wife be wronged. If this can't be done, then why do you marry a wife? If you love your wife, many daughters-in-law will love my family, be kind to my mother-in-law and care less, so the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will naturally be less difficult.

Whether a man wants to find someone to live with and start a family or get married for other reasons is also important. If so, he will have a clear sense of family boundaries, and his home is different from his parents'. He has the right to decide his family life, not to muddle along. One moment he thinks he is the son of his parents, and the next he thinks he is someone else's husband.