I don't know why some of my relatives will say my shortcomings.

Relatives say your shortcomings are all based on concern. I don't care about you, and I don't have to say it. They also hope that you can develop in a better direction. I hope you can notice your shortcomings and correct them. There is no malice, don't think too much about yourself. If the shortcomings they say really exist, they will change themselves.