What do children dislike and like best to listen to their parents?

Do you know that children dislike listening to their parents the most and like listening to their parents the most?

In the "Blue Book for Teenagers" published by the Institute of Journalism and Communication of China Academy of Social Sciences, five sentences that children dislike most from their parents are sorted out according to the survey. Come and see if you have been tricked.

1 urge learning: hurry to study/write homework;

2 comparison of the same age: you look at other people's children/you look at others;

3 entertainment restrictions: do not watch mobile phones/TV/games;

4 Direct negation: really useless/stupid;

5 others: I know how to play all day long.

In fact, excellent children are parents' "routines". If the above negative and disrespectful words are replaced by the following "routines", the children will get better every day. The harder parents work, the better their children will be. Mothers like to collect, and they use it a lot every day ~

1 invincible rainbow fart

Baby, you started doing your homework as soon as you got home from school. I admire you a little! Still a baby, the efficiency of your homework today is much better than yesterday. Keep going. Mom believes that you will do better and better.

2. Strengthen reverse thinking

Mom, I believe you will do better next time.

3 Exaggerate self-discipline

Wow, you didn't want to do your homework, but you finished it so quickly. How did you do that? I knew it.

Praise and keep your promise

After watching cartoons for half an hour, turn off the TV yourself. It is a good boy who keeps his promise.

5 encourage expression

Although you lost your temper, mom knows you must have your own reasons. Can you tell me?

Open your heart.

I see. Thank you for sharing your little secret with me. Mom will take care of it for you.

7 frustration education

It doesn't matter. Setbacks will make you stronger. You are doing very well. Mom believes that you will do better next time.

8 frustration guidance

It's a little hard to do, but you keep on giving up. You're doing well, baby. Great!

9 listen patiently

What you said is very reasonable, with clear expression and strong logical thinking ability.

10 affirmative behavior

You've really tidied up the toy area. Isn't it a great sense of accomplishment?