Why do parents-in-law break their promises? Who will help me?

Alas, they ask your advice on buying things, you say buy them, and then they blame you for being wrong if there is a problem; You said you wouldn't buy it, and you said you were stingy. You regretted buying it, blaming you for not sticking to your guns. If you don't say anything, they will say you don't care. . This kind of thing will never be done well when you meet an elder who likes to pass the buck. Since you have done nothing wrong, you should relax. The kind of parents-in-law who don't want to admit their mistakes. As an elder, it must be the kind of person who admits his mistakes and finds his own steps. If you are a daughter-in-law, even if you suffer some losses, there is nothing the younger generation can do. . Besides, cars, watches, etc. It's not just the parents-in-law who want your husband to be outside, and his face is passable. I haven't thought it over yet. ...

As for the future, from the perspective of economic principles, the money in the past is already a sunk cost, so don't think about it if you can't get it back; From the perspective of pragmatic philosophy, you must think about whether your family must buy this thing when you spend money in the future. If you are not rich, you must be pragmatic. As for your parents-in-law, if you are stingy, you should say that you should make long-term plans for repaying the mortgage in the future and try to be pragmatic. Your parents-in-law should also understand.

Family, just communicate more.