Say to parents who prefer boys to girls: Which is better, son or daughter? Who knows, until old age? Don't be partial.

Is it better for a son or a daughter? Is the son more important or the daughter more important? Maybe different families have different answers. But my parents have always said that their sons are good, and that if they don't have sons all their lives, what's the point of being a man? Even now, around us, the elderly have a headache, and many daughters run before and after, and some sons come to go through the motions at most. But my parents still don't seem to see it, thinking that my son will definitely not be like this. My son is always better than his daughter. Figure | Network

I was born in a patriarchal family. I have a twin sister and a younger brother. In fact, the conditions at home are not bad. In other words, if our parents cared a little about my sister and me, we wouldn't have a childhood that we didn't want to remember. My sister and I grew up in a poor family, and our parents gave this hard-won son material and money, which has nothing to do with us.

It's funny, but my grandparents don't value boys and are very kind to my sister and me. But as we all know, after the son got married and got married, his grandparents could not speak. It must be the son who has the final say. After all, he has to live on his son and has no financial resources. A father has only one son and no daughter to rely on. When I was young, my sister and I didn't mention any new clothes and toys, and we didn't expect any rare snacks to eat. Up to now, we have grown up and met our neighbor's children when we were young.

They will also laugh at me and my sister, saying that you were greedy when you were young, and your mouth watered when you watched others eat snacks. After that, everyone burst into laughter, and my sister and I also laughed, but our hearts were bitter. I know everyone meant no harm, just talking about the past and joking, but I still feel bad. When I was a child, whenever my sister, my parents and I complained, my mother would say: The water poured by my married daughter was for other people's homes. It's good to have food and clothes now. Are you picky?

It is precisely because of this idea of my parents that they are unwilling to spend more money on us than they think necessary. After junior high school, my parents let my sister and I go out to work to earn money. Finally, my grandparents insisted on taking out the living expenses saved on weekdays and letting my sister and I go to high school. Of course, grandparents naturally don't have enough money. If there is a shortage, my sister and I will do odd jobs with the help of good people.

The university is a student loan, and the living expenses are earned by myself, even if the family doesn't need a penny. My parents are still very dissatisfied, because we go to school, which means that there are two people in the family who can earn money and the family will not suffer. Besides, my parents are also worried that my sister and I will go to the big city to study, and we will not listen to our family when we see the world. But my sister and I insisted, and the neighbors in the village were watching, and my parents compromised. I don't want to hand it in at home anyway. In swearing, my sister and I went to college.

A few years after graduating from college, my sister got married and my husband's family conditions were good. After the family asked for the bride price. Because they are distant relatives, it is more difficult for parents to ask for some money besides living expenses. Whenever this time, my parents will especially regret letting my sister and I go to college. My sister is living a happy life now. She often advises me not to be soft-hearted and, like her, marry far away. If parents can't reach it, life can be more comfortable.

I haven't been in love for many years, but I haven't met the right person. Later, I returned to my hometown and went to work in the city. Because I have been single, I gradually lost the idea of getting married. When I was 30 years old, I suddenly wanted to buy a house by myself, so that even if I was the last person, I would still have a home. Although my parents have always asked me for money in recent years, I have a good income and will not always satisfy them, so I still have some savings.

I calculated that the down payment would still be less100000. Borrow money from friends for fear of hurting feelings. My sister recently lost a little money in her husband's business, and it is not good to borrow money from her at this time. I thought about it and thought about my parents. The conditions at home have always been good, and I can still come up with100000. I know my parents can't give it to me, so I'm going to write an iou and borrow it from my family. But my mother refused without thinking, saying that there was no money at home.

I can't laugh or cry, and I have no money at home? I bought a car for my brother some time ago. My parents are also willing to give up a 500 thousand car. But my mother said, this is a wedding car, which is naturally better. Besides, the money at home is not bad. How ridiculous it is to buy a car for my son, 500 thousand is not bad money, and my daughter borrows 6.5438 million to buy a house, saying that she has no money. I asked my mother, "Mom, you bought a car for my brother for 500,000 yuan, and you don't want to lend me10,000 yuan to buy a house?" My mother takes it for granted: because he is a son and you are a daughter!

Finally, my house was bought. When my sister found out, she managed to scrape together the money for me. My mother knew that after I bought a house, she was distressed that the savings in my hand could not reach her, and told people everywhere that I was unfilial. I said that my two daughters were born for nothing. I have raised them for so many years, and now this is my reward. I said my son is fine. I still have to rely on my son when I am old. My son and daughter-in-law like living with us.

Everyone knows what kind of people my parents are, so they just smile and ignore them. I listened to it, and I was quite helpless. This son did let his parents live together after he got married, because now his parents can help with the housework. Wait till he's old and broke. After all, before we got married, I heard my brother's girlfriend ask him why he lived with his in-laws. I thought it was a separate wedding room. I won't take care of your parents. My own parents can't take care of it.

The younger brother smiled and said that his girlfriend was really stupid, and that if he didn't propose cohabitation, the family would be happy. How can my parents spend all their savings to buy me a duplex wedding room? Where did you get the big house and the 500 thousand car? Besides, you don't like doing housework. My mother is here, so you don't have to do it at all. When they are no longer needed, find an excuse to let them move out. There is an old house in the village.

I told my mother about it, and my mother chased me, saying that my brother was getting married with such a small gift, and she also spoke ill of his brother. My parents don't believe that they will spoil their adult son. How can they have such an idea? She counted on her son to support the elderly. Since then, I have been home less and less. My parents were kicked out by my brother and wife, and I don't want to come to me. Anyway, I've made up my mind, and I'll give you living expenses. Don't expect me to do anything else. Think of me as cold-blooded.

It's actually quite sad. As parents, children are their own children. Giving the same love is the right thing to do! Your preference for boys makes your daughter feel cold. Finally, how can you guarantee that your son will be filial? Around us, many parents prefer their sons when they are young, but they will not be filial in the future; If you don't love her daughter, you will be filial in the future. I don't care if I meet my daughter, but I can let go. What should I do if my daughter is cold? Will you still be filial? So, they are all their own children. Why do they prefer boys to girls?