How many people have never been married around 1987? Everybody come out and talk about their stories and experiences?

1988, sharing three emotional experiences.

1: 20 10's girlfriend got married in a hurry and talked for two years, during which she got pregnant unexpectedly once (had an abortion). Finally, it was found that she had been the mistress of others for more than three years, and the aborted child was the man's. That man was none other than her brother-in-law's father. After that man qj, she became a mistress.

Two: Girlfriend I met at work. Her father is a real estate developer. One day, after knowing that we were together, she said in front of everyone in the company, "I can just take out one hundred or two hundred million." What about you? " .

Three: introduced by relatives. We've been together for over a year. We were separated. She was in poor health and didn't go to work in her hometown. Every month her pocket money is swiped by my salary card. I once heard a relative say that she gambled every day when she was not at work at home, and I didn't care too much at that time. After all, her family has a tradition of playing mahjong. For more than a year, I lost my salary card completely. By the time I realized it, it was too late. Not only that, I owe more than 300,000 usurers.

It has been 1 1 year since I came out of society. From an ignorant teenager to now, I have had my own pride, love, hate and drunkenness. Sometimes I think life is like this. Perhaps, I dare not love again.

Let's talk about the examples around us. 1987 There are still many unmarried people. Both men and women, especially in big cities, have great work pressure and life pressure.

For women: Now women's sense of independence is getting stronger and stronger. They don't want to get married and have children, don't want to be bound by marriage, and don't want to live by marriage. It is difficult to find someone who really loves each other, so they would rather not get married. One of my colleagues is like this. He was born in Beijing 1985 and graduated from a famous university. Now he is single. People say that he can't find the right one, preferring to remain single. After all, he is financially independent and has a house in Beijing.

For men: nowadays people are more and more realistic. It is impossible for a man to marry a daughter-in-law without a certain economic foundation. He must have a house and a car, and he must earn money to support his family when he has children in the future. When we go to the countryside now, we can see many older unmarried young people. On the one hand, influenced by the family planning policy and China's traditional feudal thought, men are favored over women, resulting in more men than women; On the other hand, with the rise of bride price in rural areas, it is normal for rural children who have no strength to marry their wives. In addition to rural areas, there are also many male white-collar workers who are unmarried in big cities. One of my leaders, born in 1982, is also an executive of the company. He has a good economy and several suites in Beijing. Maybe he is under great pressure at work, so people don't have time to fall in love and get married.

I am a single aristocrat in 1982, and I am about to become a saint. I believe many people feel the same way. I just graduated from college, full of youth and vitality, surrounded by many suitors. But I feel that my life has just begun. I am still young, and I can work hard for my career and strive for a good future for myself. Don't rush to get married and talk about boyfriends.

Later, I worked for a year, two years and a few years. My work is getting busier and busier, and my communication and life circle is smaller. Unconsciously, peers around me are paired. I am still alone, and there are relatively few opposite sex around me. Thirty years later, I want to talk about a boyfriend and bid farewell to being single, but the right person seems to have been avoiding me and never appeared. I have always thought that it is impossible to get married for the sake of getting married. Being noble and single is better than being unhappy.

With the passage of time, the growth of age and the urging of my family, I registered Lily Jiayuan, participated in the registration interview if you are the one, and later met him online. We met on a date, and then I gradually felt stable and reliable. Originally agreed to talk about marriage, but refused to give a pledge of marriage. Ps I'm unmarried. He divorced recently and had no children. I knew from the side that her ex was very material. The short marriage spent most of her savings, saying it was a fraud. I can understand his feelings at first, but people are different. I hate that he regards me as his ex-wife. Some can't accept it, but I think everything is suitable, so I put up with it, but there are cracks. Just when it was time to talk about marriage, the two sides had great differences on various matters of the wedding. Not long after the cold war, this relationship ended in vain.

Later, I changed my life in the city. I don't have any friends around me, and my circle is relatively small. I haven't met anyone who can get along with me again, so I still do.

I'm 86, alone. My family is in a hurry, but I don't want to get married. In fact, it's not that I don't want to get married, nor that the person who can make me want to get married hasn't appeared yet. I also wanted to find someone who likes me to make do with it, but at least my family was relieved. But in the end, I still couldn't get through it, so I made do with it, but I was still unwilling. Year after year, my childhood friend's penis can play soy sauce, and I am still alone. Sometimes I think that a low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single, and a single life is enough.