Children always don't think seriously when they do problems. How should we educate them?

1. Don't criticize children on the grounds of carelessness, which will easily cause psychological stress to children. During the exam, you will focus on psychological requirements such as "I don't want to be careless", which will easily lead to distraction and more unnecessary mistakes. I think we can give children such positive psychological hints as "I will carefully examine the questions".

Parents should try not to take positive punishment for their children's carelessness, so as not to strengthen their children's carelessness, but adopt positive reinforcement methods. For example, don't criticize a child when he is careless, but when the child finishes a thing seriously, parents should praise the child in time and strengthen his carefulness, so that the child will gradually accept this psychological suggestion and develop more and more carefully.

3. Help children develop the good habit of checking homework in their usual study. Many parents are willing to check their children's homework, thinking that they are responsible for their children, but they don't know that their children will develop the habit of not checking carefully. To get rid of their carelessness, we must first start with our parents. For example, parents can urge their children to open the homework to see if there are any mistakes when they get the homework reviewed by the teacher at ordinary times and later. If there is an error, find out the reason. If you really can't find it, you can ask your parents for help. At this time, parents can't help but directly point out where the mistakes are. They can prompt children to look at the questions (understand the meaning of the questions), talk about the solution (see whether the formula is correct), recalculate (see whether the results are correct), etc., and gradually guide children to correct their own mistakes, and praise their performance in time, so that children can gradually develop the good habit of checking and correcting mistakes.

4. In daily life, parents should use their care to infect their children, such as keeping the house in order, suggesting that children learn to tidy up their own things, tidy up their own rooms, and cultivate their sense of responsibility for their own affairs.

In short, the child's carelessness is not unforgivable. Instead of blindly blaming and exerting psychological pressure on children, it is better to strengthen the training of children in peacetime and cultivate their good life and study habits.