How to politely refuse other people's requests?

In interpersonal relationships, it is sometimes difficult to say no to others. Because rejecting others means that others may dislike you because of it. Meeting the other party's requirements will bring about the other party's favor. Although everyone you meet is nothing more than a passerby in your life.

But when faced with requests from others, if you choose to reject them, you will indeed show a look of disappointment and helplessness. Everyone seems to be making various requests in exchange for the other's acquiescence and affirmation of themselves. In fact, we must deeply realize that we must learn to refuse.

Although agreeing will bring satisfaction to the other party, it can easily cause a waste of your time and emotions. If you don't know how to reject others today, your interpersonal interactions will make you miserable. When interacting with others, many people really don't know how to reject others and can only be led by others.

You may even form a habit of thinking. As long as someone else makes a request, you must work hard to fulfill it. So how to break through this embarrassment? You must adjust your mentality and don't deliberately force yourself to reject others. We can use alternative methods. Because the best way for us to quit any behavioral habit is to find another behavioral habit and make a good replacement and compensation.

The reason why you can’t bear to reject others is that you still have the character to please others in your bones. The main reason for not daring to reject others is based on how much others like you, but also because you need to take care of other people's emotions. Then you have to work hard to find someone who truly loves you. Such people are actually very important people in your life. Rather than trying to please a short-sighted person who only wants to ask for money.

If a person is not familiar with you at all. And made some excessive demands for your help. Don't reject him right away. You can find a suitable reason and tactfully tell the other party that I have something more important that needs to take up time. There must be an accurate judgment in your heart: Is this person worthy of your help? Does it make sense if I do this?

Your refusal must let the other party know that you can do this yourself and do not need help from others or find better people to help. And be sure to let the other person understand that I have no obligation to do this for you. You should reserve your time for people who really understand you and who are truly worthy of your help.

If this person in your life is not worthy of your love, you should avoid him. You don't need to appear confused. Don't let the other person feel that if they say more nice things to you, you will give in. You must learn to say no and know how to refuse. Using language skillfully and flexibly is a kind of wisdom in dealing with people.