The real meaning of good morning (I just learned the real meaning of good morning)

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101October 3 1 day, some netizens took a screenshot of Havin's circle of friends and wrote: "Thank you, my daughter and I will be strong and need time."

This is the seventh day after Li Yong's death, and Havin has made friends for the first time.

Yes, maybe only time can make the pain dull.

Don't say it's a close relative's beloved wife, even if it's Li Yongfen's, such news is hard for me to accept at the moment.

The image of Li Yong in my memory has always been healthy and optimistic, and it has nothing to do with the word death. Until 18129 October, screenshots of "Fatima's mother" in Weibo were overwhelming, which read: In the United States, after 17 months of anti-cancer treatment, I died at 5: 00 am on 20 18/0/25 October.

I had to believe that after that, tears welled up, just as sad as losing an old friend I knew very well.

Before this Weibo, Havin sent 55 1 good morning. I'm sorry to say that at this time in my career, I really understood the true meaning of the word "good morning".

I looked up the explanation of good morning on the internet, and one answer is the most appropriate: safety is safety. The ancients said to say hello, not hello, because it is good to be safe first!

I thought good morning was just a greeting, something like "Did you have breakfast?" Only then did I understand that good morning means: fortunately, we are all alive.

In this, there are great sadness, little luck and more affection.

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In fact, as early as seven years ago, I heard my parents say something similar, except that my father was not so foreign and didn't say the word "good morning".

At that time, my mother was critically ill in hospital, which was also cancer. She has exhausted all kinds of schemes, getting heavier every day and may leave at any time.

My brother and sister take turns to watch the vigil. The first thing I do when I wake up every morning is to make sure that my mother is all right. If I were in the hospital, I would listen to my mother's breathing quickly. If I were at home, I would call my mother and ask her how she was last night. That kind of uneasy mood is really scary to the extreme.

Every day, my father makes breakfast and sends it to my mother as quickly as possible. Every time his old man watches his mother eat, he will say with joy: Wife, it's good that we live another day.

That sentence seems to be engraved in my mind and appears at any time, because my father says it every day and says it many times.

I thought it was to encourage my mother at first, but now I understand that it is another version of "good morning", which is all about my favorite person, hoping that she can wake up safely every morning.

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On the internet, some people interpret good morning as "love you" and good night as "I love you". This explanation also has its own meaning.

My husband has a distant nephew named Yang Yang, who is in college. Their family lives in another city, which is an hour's drive from mine. Our two families have a good relationship. Every Spring Festival, Yang Yang and his father will visit him.

He kind of worships me. He asks me questions every time he comes, asking me how to do and write the official account of WeChat.

He also told me quietly that he was in love, a classmate of his high school and studying in another university. They had a very good relationship, but it was more difficult to meet, and more was WeChat and telephone contact.

Yang Yang said that he sends a circle of friends of "good morning" and "good night" every morning and evening. It seems that he is saying hello to everyone, but in fact he is saying "love you, I love you" to his girlfriend.

I smiled. "Yes, people in love are so romantic. I will also add you to WeChat. "

Since then, I have seen good morning and good night in Yang Yang's circle of friends every day, and I smiled knowingly.

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However, just over two months ago, in late August, one day, my husband came home from work and his face was ugly. He said to me, don't be afraid. Something happened to Yang Yang.

Ah!

I didn't react at the moment and asked, which Yang Yang?

My husband said that there are several Yang Yang, that is, Yang Yang, whom we grew up watching.

It seems that someone hit me hard in the chest with a hammer, and my heart ached so much that I could hardly breathe. I sat on the sofa and cried.

Later, I went to Yang Yang's home to visit his parents, and I got to know what happened intermittently.

Summer vacation, travel, car accident, a few words together, so young life, say no, no.

I silently hold Yang Yang's mother's hand and don't talk. I know that this kind of pain can only be healed by time, and no words can soothe it.

Yang Yang's circle of friends stopped on the day of his accident in August, and there was only "good morning" before he could say "good night".

I haven't seen his girlfriend yet, and I don't know her situation. Alas, even without looking, I know what kind of pain it is to be with the person I love, and where you will go!

I hope she will meet another person who says good morning and good night to her every day as soon as possible. In the cold world, we can stay with her like a warm and bright lamp.

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I remember watching the TV series "The Queen of the Palace", where Yongzheng lied to let Zhen Xuan kiss in order to test Zhen Xuan and Guo Ziyu County. Knowing that he could not change his will, Zhen Xuan bid farewell to the emperor: spring banquet, green wine and a cup of song. Pay tribute to Chen Sanyuan once again: First, may her husband be a thousand years old; Second, I hope my concubine is healthy; Third, I want to be like Liang, and I want to see you every year.

In fact, the implication is for King Guo Jun, telling him to take care of himself and be safe all the year round. Even if I don't see him, there will be a future.

Yes, all the splendor in the world is a thing of the past, and Qian Qian's fame and fortune is not worth a sense of security.

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People are born lonely, but fortunately, there are people who can care about them and people who care about you.

Just like you and me at the moment, we may never know each other in reality, but our souls are always together. Because of you, I will keep writing. Every day, I want to tell you that I am fine and I hope you are fine.

Dear, whether we meet in life or not, I will always bless you: good morning, good afternoon and good night!

* Note: All the pictures in this article are from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact. * Author: Su Xin: columnist, from the media. Galloping in the workplace, full of love stories. About the workplace, about life, about marriage and love, about women, I write my heart by hand. Wechat WeChat official account: Su Xin (ID: Su Xin 98498). The new book "Cultivating a Gentle Heart in a Difficult World" is selling like hot cakes -END-