Talking about girls in a cool way

I am a girl, and this lady thinks that "bad" is a person's character on the one hand, that is, to be cool, not to be a mother-in-law, but to be a real man! On the other hand, it also means that boys should not be too serious and formal. Sometimes you have to do something bold but not too intimate with the girl you like. Bring some different surprises, different feelings and different passions to love! Ha ha ha ha, this is just my personal understanding, and it doesn't represent all our female compatriots!