The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in ancient poetry: mother-in-law doesn't like you, and her life is hard to protect.

Like ancient poetry, I often have nothing to do, recite it, travel through time and space, and feel the breath of the ancients.

After reading two famous poems, I can't help patting my chest: Scared the baby!

Feel glad: fortunately, I was born late. If it was ancient times, my mother-in-law would have hated it, swallowed her voice, made things difficult in every way, and lost her life in minutes!

This poem is the earliest narrative poem "Peacock Flying Southeast" in China. In the poem, the mother-in-law forced her son and daughter-in-law to separate because they were unhappy. As a result, the two of them died for love. This mother-in-law really lost her son and earned a thousand years' reputation, which made Peacock Flying Southeast have a place in the history of China literature!

The preface of this poem shows that its poem is adapted from real things, which is different from what we can easily see now: "This story book is fiction, and if there are similarities, it is purely coincidence."

It tells the story that Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing, a small official in Lujiang, fell in love and got married during the Jian 'an period in the Eastern Han Dynasty. But Jiao's mother is not satisfied with this daughter-in-law. At first, she tried every means to make things difficult. Finally, she asked Jiao Zhongqing to divorce his wife. Two couples were forced to fly together and agreed to "swear that the sky will not be negative" when they left. Later, Liu Lanzhi was forced to remarry and drowned on her wedding day, while Jiao Zhongqing hanged himself.

Liu Lanzhi in the poem is "thirteen can weave, fourteen can learn to tailor, fifteen can play and sixteen can recite poems". When I arrived at Jiao's house, "chickens crow into the plane and can't rest every night." A woman with both talent and beauty came to her husband's house to do housework at dawn. So virtuous and virtuous, she still made her mother-in-law angry: "I have been angry for a long time." I've put up with you for a long time.

Liu Lanzhi met the great god's mother-in-law! (god of nerves)

The second song is Lu You's ci-Hairpin Phoenix. Red brittle hands. "

Lu You is famous for writing poems about his country and people, and he is known as a "poet saint". "Chai feng. "Red Crispy Hand" is one of his many poems. It does not talk about politics or ambition, but only praises the love between children.

The first word was known by Lu You when he was playing in Shaoxing Shenyuan seven years after he was separated from his original wife Tang Wan. After drinking the wine sent by Tang Wan and her current husband, Lu You left a message on the wall of the Imperial Academy.

He expressed his resentment and sadness at being forced to divorce his wife, and his indescribable sadness and infatuation with Tang Wan.

When this statement came out, it caused a sensation and spread widely. I'm afraid the reason is not only the good handwriting, but also the concern about the relationship between Lu You, Tang Wan and Tang Wan's current husband Zhao Shicheng. Gossip ancient people and modern people are the same.

Heroic, elegant, cultured, lyrical, martial, and cool, Gruda also has a weak side in his heart. In the face of love and filial piety, I have to obey my mother's orders. Even if I meet my lover after seven years, I can only vaguely complain about my mother's "East Wind Evil".

Tang Wan is divorced, and some people say that she has no children. Some people say that she likes Lu You too much, which makes Lu You unwilling to make progress. What is recorded is "improper mother's intention", that is to say, Tang Wan doesn't agree with her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law feels sick when she sees him.

Let me see, a bad relationship with my mother-in-law makes him (her) dissatisfied, and it is also a force for my son to "talk to the woman".

Even if you are a noble family and have both ability and political integrity, your husband regards you as a treasure, but it's a coincidence (it's rude to call names for the second time, and I really hate Tang Wan's handling), so I have to pack my bags and go back to my parents' house with tears in my eyes.

After reuniting with Lu You, Tang Wan often went to Lacrimosa, and his body was more entangled with his sick soul. Less than half a year, it disappeared. You see, the life of Tang Wan's generation of beautiful women was taken away by an order given to her son by her former mother-in-law.

Two old ladies, Jiao Laotai and Liu Mu, separated by six or seven hundred years, really have no gap and no generation gap. Faced with a virtuous and virtuous daughter-in-law, as long as it is "my mother doesn't like you and she is unhappy", she forces her son to divorce his wife. The filial son can only listen, and the poor daughter-in-law can only cry goodbye to her husband.

With the death of Tang Wan, Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix" has become a masterpiece of love, and Liu Lanzhi's life has given birth to "Long Poet Saint" and "Peacock Flying Southeast".

It is really a very happy thing to think of this and feel that I am living in the present. Not only do I have to look at my mother-in-law's face, sometimes she has to look at yours! Lucky, lucky!