My wife is in confinement after giving birth. My mother cooks chicken soup every day. When she gets greedy, I'll send her home! Why?

Liu Shun's daughter-in-law worked hard in the delivery room for more than eight hours, and finally gave birth to a little daughter to Liu Shun. Looking at her daughter's quiet sleep, Liu Shun felt that she must have saved the Milky Way in her previous life in order to harvest such a lovely little cotton-padded jacket.

The daughter-in-law stayed in the hospital for a few days, and after confirming that there was nothing wrong with her body, she went home to recuperate and confinement. Because the daughter-in-law's health has not yet reached the stage of recovery, Liu Shun took his mother from his hometown to help take care of his wife and daughter for some time.

However, Liu Shun also gave her mother a lot of money on this basis. We can't let the old people contribute in vain, can we?

After her mother-in-law came, Liu Shun could go to work with peace of mind every day. But he never imagined that his mother had the idea of preferring sons to daughters. When she learned that her daughter-in-law had given birth to a daughter, she was very unhappy. Now I have to take care of my daughter-in-law, and I feel even worse.

However, the mother-in-law did not directly point out this complaint, but took action to respond to her when taking care of her daughter-in-law. For example, when helping to look after the children, the expression is very cold. I would never say a word if I was fine at ordinary times. Although I cook chicken soup for my daughter-in-law every day, I always sprinkle more salt. The daughter-in-law said that the soup was a little salty, so she sarcastically said that she didn't like her cooking and her mouth was awkward. ......

Liu Shun didn't know this, because every time he went home, there was always a happy scene, and two women deliberately created the illusion that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a good relationship.

Until one time, Liu Shun came home early and found his mother stewed chicken soup. He was very hungry. He greedily secretly filled a bowl and almost didn't spit it out at the first bite. He felt that he was drinking poison instead of chicken soup. Too salty! Chicken soup cooked by his mother has never tasted like this before.

Liu Shun is not a fool, he will be back soon. But it's hard for him to tell. He secretly called his father and asked him to make up an excuse to let his mother go back. The next day, he sent her back to her hometown

In the evening, he hugged his daughter-in-law and said, "It's really hard for you recently. I know mom sometimes does something wrong, but please forgive me. She wasn't like this before. "

The wife said nothing, nodded gently and got up to see the children.

How do men adjust the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? ① Make a good preparation.

A man is both a husband and a son, and his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the two closest people in his life. One gave him life, and the other accompanied him all his life. If a man fails to be a mediator between two women, it is his dereliction of duty. Generally speaking, the key to deal with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in men.

(2) Neither side is partial.

When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men should never take sides, but should judge their own practices fairly and reasonably. Because no matter which side a man takes, it is harmful to the other side. Therefore, when there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the way men handle it determines the next development of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.