I am a nanny. If my employer wants to throw away the clothes, will she look down on me if I keep them?

Diligence and thrift are the traditional virtues of our entire nation! As a nanny, if you want your employer to throw away your clothes, you must make it clear to your employer, and you can only keep them with your employer's consent. As for looking down on it, ignore it.

My clothes are often cleaned. Many of them are out of date and the clothes are very new. Therefore, some of them are given to the nanny and some to friends. I take care of the dog, and she said that she hasn’t bought any clothes for eight or nine years. We have a good relationship and make full use of the materials. There is nothing wrong with her, let alone look down upon.

Answer: No.

1. If you need it, the employer will be very happy because it is embarrassing to give it to you.

2. All the clothes I don’t wear are washed, ironed, packaged and placed next to the newspaper in the garage.

3. Every month, I ask the waste collector to pick it up from the garage and close the door every two hours. I take a look and take it all away. I feel very comfortable.

4. To be honest, today's clothes are very new and very expensive, but they are not fashionable.

No, she probably wants to thank you for it. She doesn’t want her clothes anymore. Someone can wear them which is better than anything else. She wanted to give it to you and maybe she was afraid that you would dislike it, so she said throw it away. If she doesn't want to give it to you, she can just throw it away. Why should she tell you?

It is our glorious tradition to live in hardship and simplicity. If you can’t wear your clothes anymore, give them away if you can. If someone wears them, it’s good.

Whether you keep your clothes or not is completely different from whether your employer thinks highly of you, and do you think most employers will think highly of a nanny?

I am a nanny, and my employer wants Will she look down on me if I keep the discarded clothes? You are over-worrying. It can be seen from your narrative that your employer has a long history of throwing away clothes that he does not want to wear, and has even formed a habit. This is because she has her own set of aesthetic standards and requirements for clothing and self-grooming, and her family is very privileged and allows her to do this. All clothing that she considers outdated in style or fabric will be thrown away regardless of whether it is old or new. She won't care if you pick up the clothes she threw away, put them away or keep them to give away or wear herself. I won't look down on you because of it.

In this case, why does she have to throw away these brand-new clothes or clothes that have not been worn once or twice instead of giving them to others? This is easy to understand. The clothes you give to others must be newly bought. If you give others clothes that you don’t want to wear, what if others don’t like it? If you say a few unflattering words, that scene must be embarrassing, right? In the end, you end up doing bad things with good intentions and bring trouble to yourself. So, it’s better to just throw it away. As a nanny, you are familiar with, understand and pay close attention to the clothes she usually wears. You know which of her clothes are new and which have not been worn several times, and you can feel it. You can recognize this. It's a waste, and it's a pity to realize that. It shows that you, as a nanny, know how to be thrifty, thrifty, cherish, and cherish.

Your employer can tell you that if you are willing, just take it. This shows that she is unwilling and will not give you things she does not want. This consideration is a kind of respect for others. Although you are their nanny, in her eyes, your personality and dignity are the same as hers. Although one is the employer and the other is the nanny, both should be respected.

In fact, as long as you think it is right and it does not have any adverse impact on others, I think you should do it boldly and not think too much about other people's opinions and feelings. If you are hesitant about doing things, worrying about this or that, then nothing will be accomplished.

At the same time, if your employer can see that you know how to cherish and save so much, maybe he will look at you differently and give you a salary increase?

If you think it’s a pity to throw it away, it’s good to give it away! Better than throwing it away to waste. The employer shouldn't look down on people. It's something she doesn't want, and she's not stealing it.