When you reach middle age, please refuse three types of "low-value" social interactions. It is a thankless waste of money and effort.

After you reach middle age, there are seniors and juniors, and the pressure gradually increases. You have to force yourself to fight in order to survive. In addition to work, family life and social life also bring you a lot of troubles, especially your gradually expanding circle of friends. You are overwhelmed by the overwhelming number of things and social activities that you cannot take care of every day.

In fact, when you reach middle age, you should learn to sort out your circle of friends, and reject all social interactions that you shouldn't have, otherwise it will be a thankless effort.

After graduating from school, many people may have lost contact with their old classmates. Everyone is busy with their careers and rarely have time to get together. But after they get married, their careers have stabilized and they have friends with their classmates again. When we get together, nostalgic people will always find ways to connect classmates from all over the world and talk about the romance and innocence of those years together.

The classmates who play well and have similar views have undoubtedly opened up a good network for themselves, but in fact, the appearance of most classmates is not very pleasant. Most of them are doing it for profit. **Renew the relationship", either to borrow money or to buy a drink for the wedding, or to go through the back door to establish a relationship. Such trivial matters once or twice are okay, but if they occur more often, it will inevitably make people disgusted, and the pure friendship in the past has changed. It's strange that the existence of friends and classmates has turned into a tool for profit-making. This kind of "friendship" is really chilling!

I’m already very busy, but now that I have to do all this, life becomes even more difficult! At this time, you should learn to let go and clean up your circle of friends one by one. Delete all the people who are not important to you or old classmates who you have not contacted for a long time, because their existence is not important. Don't care if you borrow money, because most of the consequences will be turning against each other, so it's better to just be a familiar stranger.

Ever since a certain online store launched the offer to get free products at bargain prices, bargain hunters have been planning how to get free products all day long. Of course, the website will not give you an advantage so easily. They will ask you to add friends and recruit members, and ask relatives and friends to help negotiate prices. At this time, you have to send links everywhere and ask for help. In order to get the business, even those Classmates whom I had not contacted for hundreds of years were also found.

You may often encounter such strange people. Friends who are not very familiar with each other often send you links for a small thing and ask you to help chop them. If they don’t chop them, they will come to question you. , constantly urging you, this kind of thing is very annoying. Although it doesn’t take much time to chop once, no one can stop it once the number of times is too many. The most important thing is that the two of them are not familiar with each other, and some of them even just chat. Netizens who have passed a few sentences also send you links all day long asking for your help. They seem to have no sense of shame, no sense of boundaries, and constantly overdraw their connections for small benefits.

Whenever you encounter such an ignorant person, don’t be afraid of embarrassing him. Just ignore him or simply block him, because this kind of person who loves petty gains is too small and they will not bring you trouble. What's the benefit? It's just a waste of your time. Don't bother with this kind of ineffective social interaction.

Chinese people like to say something like this: "After all, I am your so-and-so, you have to help me!" "He is so pitiful, and he is related to you, and you are capable, why? Won't you help him?" Whether it was a pleading tone or a questioning tone, it was unbearable.

Some people like to stand on the moral high ground and demand others, guiding the country with a God-like attitude, but they themselves are not willing to pay at all. For people like this, the vicious tongues on the Internet give them a The title of "Holy Mother Bitch".

You don’t need to pay attention to your relatives who borrowed money from you because of their morals. After you reach middle age, you will be under a lot of pressure. Even if you have some money saved in your hand, it will be of more use, my child. Tuition, living expenses, family expenses, support for the elderly, none of them require money. You work hard for life and don’t dare to stop and take a rest. And those relatives ask you to lend them money as soon as they come, and cry all kinds of complaints if you don’t. All kinds of abuse, as if you owe them money, don't be polite to such people, just ignore them!

People like this who use morality to kidnap others to borrow money are not very good in character. They only think about themselves and will not consider your difficulties. If you encounter difficulties in the future , don’t expect them to help you, they will only take pleasure in your misfortune. Stay away from relatives with bad character like this as soon as possible.

After people reach middle age, if they want to improve their quality of life, they must learn to add and subtract, avoid some ineffective social interactions, ignore those classmates who have not been in contact for many years and borrow money as soon as they appear, and ignore the Internet Don’t worry about unfamiliar netizens who want you to chop them off, or relatives who ask you to borrow money with moral hijacking. Life is not easy for everyone. It would be great if many people can take care of their own small families. As for other people, if they have If you can, help. If you don't have the ability, then I'm sorry and let them do what they want!

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