What do you think of "Don't invite a large group of people to a dinner party, because you won't be able to make a single friend"?

There is a certain truth to this. If you invite a large group of people, it is a wine place. It is not a feast without wine. After eating and drinking, we will disperse.

It is easy for two people to get acquainted with each other when they sit together, drink and chat, so when there are more people, polite words come out. Sometimes the words in the wine shop are just for fun. When toasting, there is a lot of human kindness in it. This must be reciprocated. If you don't reciprocate, it will be said that your wine is not good enough. If you want to make friends at a wine bar, then save it. Everyone knows that when men drink together, they brag a lot, especially people they don’t know very well. Look, it's only half-truth and half-false at best. ?

For dinner parties, I usually arrange this:

Generally, when socializing between friends, a large group of people are always invited. For example: In the town where I live, my childhood friends, classmates, and some friends who grew up together have a New Year’s dinner every Spring Festival. The so-called New Year’s dinner means that some of the people mentioned above take turns hosting. Today is your day Home, come to my house tomorrow. We all get together all year round. We just chat about family matters and catch up on old times. There is no other purpose. Drink more if you are a big drinker, drink less if you are a light drinker. If you are good at cooking, cook at home. If you are too lazy to cook some delicious dishes, go to the hotel and set up a table or two. Firstly, it will deepen the relationship between you. Secondly, if you eat someone else’s food, you have to invite them back. These classmates and friends are general relationship.

When you meet close friends, you usually choose to do it at home or a relatively quiet place. If you choose to do it at home, think about it in advance, buy some delicious and fresh dishes, cook them yourself, and show them off. For cooking, invite a family of good friends, or sometimes two families, to have a few drinks, talk about family, work, children, etc., care about each other, give each other ideas, make suggestions, and talk about things that are not normal on ordinary occasions. Speak from the heart. ?

At this time, the main purpose of each other is not to enjoy wine and food, but to show each other's concern. In this case, basically talk about everything. Inviting a large group of people to dinner should not be thought of as a failure to make friends, but rather as a failure to make close friends!