When children in Ma Bao use their grandparents as a "shield", what should she never do?

I heard parents complain that they just sent their children to their grandparents and began to rely on them only two days later. Now they don't listen to their parents and have nothing to talk about, so they go to them. They don't know why they are used to such questions. Nowadays, children are becoming more and more difficult to discipline, and there is nothing they can do. It didn't help much to tell my parents, but my grandparents still got used to him as usual. This situation is obvious and common. After all, grandparents' love for their children is the kind of love that people can't shake. So in this case, parents should be more tolerant and deal with this situation in time. Parents should never do this at this time.

Parents should not take it out on their children when they don't listen to advice. Children sometimes have very serious negative emotions, that is, they are particularly naughty. Children are spoiled by grandparents and often lose their temper. Because grandparents are spoiled, they can't adapt to our strict requirements for him for a while, so it's normal to have a bad temper. Then we may be particularly angry when the child loses his temper. Don't hit the child with emotion at this time, because the child is still young, and we just vent our anger. However, our children are not so sensible. What we need is tolerance, otherwise the child will be injured by accident, which will hurt the parents themselves and leave a bad impression on the child.

We can't stop every generation of parents, but we don't want grandparents to interfere in our parenting. Educating children must have scientific ideas in it, otherwise instilling incorrect ideas in children will definitely have an adverse impact on their future development. Therefore, when our parents have some problems in educating their children, they must point them out. We must not tolerate this development. Be sure to communicate with children, educate them, tell them the right thing, and give them a suitable development path.

I saw a video in which a child took out a kitchen knife and confronted his grandfather. The reason turned out to be that grandpa wouldn't let him play mobile games. From the video background, he is a left-behind child, educated by his grandparents. But a series of bad consequences can only be borne by parents themselves. At this time, parents must be patient and don't change their children's minds just by our words. We should also use practical actions to make them feel their father's love for their mother and give them a suitable environment.

In short, if there is a problem with education, parents will bear the bad consequences, which is also unfavorable to the development of children's lives. Therefore, parents should be alert in this respect, never indulge or force their children, and must temper justice with mercy and choose the right path.