"Daughter, you don't need to install air conditioning for me, just give me money" "No, I won't be Voldemort" What do you think?

A married daughter is like thrown water. Many parents feel that their daughters are not as good as their sons.

But in old age, I can often go home and visit, and the person who is by my side to solve trivial matters is still the "daughter who throws out". The son only uses money to do things and cannot give his parents spiritual comfort. This is also quite ironic. of.

Qiu Qin originally thought that she could get rid of her original family by getting married, because she was fed up with her parents' preference for sons over daughters. She longed for a new life, but the reality was not what she wanted. After Qiuqin got married, her mother always tried to find ways to get money, just for her incompetent brother.

01

Qiu Qin has been married for five years. She still remembers that when she got married, her family said that the dowry of 100,000 yuan for her was more than enough, but in the end they only provided 20,000 yuan. Fortunately, my husband didn't dislike it, and my husband's family didn't talk too much. The promised 200,000 gift was just 200,000.

Whenever she thinks about this, Qiu Qin feels like she can’t hold her head high in front of her husband. Therefore, she worked hard and achieved a satisfactory figure in her career, and her salary exceeded that of her husband.

Qiu Qin and her husband Fang Hui are living happier and happier lives, and she no longer wants to meddle in her own affairs. Her parents didn't care much about Qiu Qin's married life. They only had eyes for Qiu Qin's younger brother.

When his parents learned that Qiu Qin was living a good life, they tried to find a way to "cheat money" from Qiu Qin. In this way, all the money can be saved and used when the time comes to find a wife for my brother.

Qiu Qin knew that they had bad intentions every time, but the amount of money they received each time was not very large, so Qiu Qin endured it.

My husband said the same thing several times: "Honey, I don't have any problem with your parents asking you to get some money. After all, we make a lot of money every year. But it's not okay to continue to condone them like this." The method will get worse one day, and you will spoil them. You are too soft-hearted, and you will take out your wallet after your mother-in-law begs and says a few bitter words. If it doesn't work, I can be the bad person who refuses. ”

02

Qiu Qin knew what her husband meant, but every time she saw her mother’s face, she couldn’t bear to refuse, until she found out that her brother had debts from gambling, and Qiu Qin Jean's attitude changed.

This summer, her mother told Qiuqin that her air conditioner was broken and she wanted Qiuqin to pay for one. Qiu Qin said that after work is over, she would choose a day on the weekend to go shopping in the mall to see which brand of air conditioner to buy.

In the shopping mall, my mother regretted: "Daughter, there is no need to install an air conditioner for me. Just give me money. If I get too hot, I will go to the supermarket and use the air conditioner."

Qiu Qin could see through her mother's thoughts at a glance: "No, you think I don't know. You just want to use every penny I give you to repay my brother's debt. He owes It's more than 1 million. You can't pay it back for a few thousand dollars, so don't get involved. Besides, I'm not a Voldemort. I can buy you anything you want, but I can't give you money. You are a person who didn’t care about money when you were young. When you are old, you will not be able to protect your life. I feel sorry for you when you come to your daughter to ask for money for your son.”

Qiu Qin bought an air conditioner. Before they separated for the first time, Qiuqin didn't take out another few hundred yuan. Her mother hesitated to ask for it, and finally didn't ask for it.

But Qiu Qin knew that this troubled brother would make his family worry for the rest of his life.

03

Not long after, my biological mother came to the door, crying and said: "Daughter, you must help your brother this time. Your father and I have no choice. Your brother has taken away all the money at home. Even though we told him many times not to gamble, he still gambled. Now the money he owes is almost 1.3 million, and people come to us all day long to pay back the money. "

Qiu Qin said: "Now I know I regret it. Why didn't I know when I pampered him and treated him as my treasure? I would be scolded by you whenever I touched my brother's things. Now I'll come if I have any trouble. Please ask me to solve it.

Am I an ATM? Where can I find 1.3 million for you? "

"Daughter, talk to your husband and mother-in-law. Their family must be rich. If you ask someone, they will definitely lend you money. "

"Mom, are you embarrassed to say it? You had agreed with someone on a dowry of 100,000 yuan, but in the end you went back on your word and only offered 20,000 yuan. No one said anything bad about you. My husband also comforted me by saying that I have a younger brother at home and I need to make plans for him. Are you embarrassed to ask for help now? "

My mother was stunned, knowing how ridiculous her behavior was, but she couldn't ignore her son. Qiuqin discussed it with her husband, and her husband gave the opinion that she must help.

Finally, Qiu Qin said to her family: "Mom, Fang Hui discussed it and Fang Hui and I collected 300,000 yuan as a wedding red envelope from me to my brother. You can use it to pay off the debt." , or buying a house, I won’t pay a penny in the future. You should be well aware of the money I gave you before. Even if you say it in a bad way, people still want to save face. I will no longer care about my brother's life or death. ”

My mother and father nodded.

Many people think Qiu Qin is a fool. In fact, she can ignore her family of origin and watch her family in trouble. How could he refuse to save her? It is undeniable that Qiu Qin's weakness caused her parents to be greedy.

In the face of family affection, people's hearts are soft, but everyone should have their own way of doing things. The bottom line is that if a person is kind, he will be bullied, and his family members will become invisible "killers".