In "Family with Children", what are the things worth mentioning about Xia Donghai's handling of his relationship with his ex-wife?

The most noteworthy thing about Xia Donghai's treatment of himself is that he never breaks ties with her and never speaks ill of his ex-wife.

After Xia Donghai divorced his ex-wife, he still maintained respect for his ex-wife. He did not arrange anything for his ex-wife and never said anything bad about his ex-wife. He never spoke ill of his ex-wife in front of his children and later wives. It can be seen from this that Xia Donghai has very good personal qualities and a very noble character. After all, in real life, more divorced men and women have feelings for their exes. I have deep resentment and I will complain about it whenever I get the chance.

Xia Donghai did not take the initiative to contact his ex-wife after learning that he had returned to China, nor did he contact his ex-wife behind his back. When he encountered something related to his ex-wife, he would first tell his current wife Liu Mei, And discussed with Liu Mei how to deal with the matter. When his ex-wife Mary came to his home, he did not show off to her, but treated his ex-wife as a guest in a polite and distant manner.

The character of Xia Donghai is gentle and polite, so his attitude towards his predecessor is completely expected by us as the audience. And his ex-wife Mary has a lively personality and is not vindictive. She was also happy when she went to Xia Donghai and Liu Mei's home. If she hadn't introduced her as Xia Donghai's ex-wife, we might have thought she was Xia Donghai's family. of guests.

The character of Xia Donghai is really the most satisfying father image in my childhood. Regarding his divorce from his ex-wife, he just explained to Xia Yu and Xia Xue that their relationship was not compatible. Will get divorced. He also never complained to the children or blamed their mothers.

And there was a character like Hu Yitong in the drama for comparison. He was also a divorced man. Hu Yitong would often go to his ex-wife Liu Mei’s home, and would also complain about Liu Mei in front of others. Mei has a bad temper, and he often speaks ill of Liu Mei to his son Liu Xing. In fact, exes like Hu Yitong are more common in real life, which highlights Xia Donghai's goodness.