If love has God's will

Text/Buyi Rushishi

If love had God’s will, there wouldn’t be so many stories of joys and sorrows in the world; all love would be happy until old age; all encounters would be in the best possible way. Time appears; all love is a matter of two people and will not be pursued by one person.

If love is provided by God, men and women will have less pain. It is said that women are fickle and complicated. But in the face of love, women are passionate and devoted. As long as they truly love each other, a woman will always remember a man for the rest of her life. Even if she meets someone else again, she cannot replace him. Women need the providence of love even more. Only when two people happen to love each other can women not be hurt or fall into the prison of love. Of course, men also need the providence of love, but men have stronger hearts and have more ways to get out of trouble. Therefore, women are relatively weak in love.

If love is provided by God, you must be brave enough to express it. Some people clearly care about each other, but they always hide it, or keep it in their hearts and never show it. Also, I hope that the other party can take the initiative to approach me and plan the so-called hard-to-get strategy. In the end, the other person thinks you don't love you, and the two people who were supposed to be happy together missed it. Especially women, if you meet someone you like, just say it out loud. Even if you are rejected, at least there will be no pain of waiting.

If love has God’s will, we must also give up some things that hinder love. For example, money. How many people have made love miserable because of money. When you meet, you need a gift, when you fall in love, you need a token, when you get married, you need a betrothal gift, etc., which makes men miserable. If they are ordinary men, even if they love the other person deeply, they will reluctantly part with them because they are short of money. Vanity is a woman's nature, but love should not be too vain. The opinions of others are important, but the happiness of two people together is even more important. Just like, you know whether the shoes fit well, but others only see how shiny the shoes are and don’t know how painful or warm your feet are.

If love is provided by God, you must be brave enough to sacrifice a lot. Love is giving and then giving. Those iron cocks who don't pull out their hair can't find a good woman. Not even a chance to hold hands. Who wants to sit awkwardly on the grass and drink the northwest wind when they meet? To fall in love, you need to put in labor and wisdom, create conditions for love, and spend a lot of time so that two people can touch each other, chat face to face, and talk about how they miss each other. It is necessary to pay for the loved ones of both parties. No one is an independent individual. Therefore, you must be kind to the people around you, and you will be wrapped in happiness.

If love has God’s will, don’t give up halfway. When you meet, don't talk about love casually, but touch your heart to see if your heart is beating and whether you are ready to give everything for the other person. I love you is a word, and it is an acknowledgment. It cannot be said casually or lost casually.

If love has God’s will, we must also know how to be tolerant. Meeting is like suddenly falling in love, falling in love is feeling that all shortcomings are advantages, and continuing to love will have countless shortcomings. Therefore, not tolerating each other's shortcomings, no matter how much God's will, is also a kind of cruelty.

If love is provided by God, please hold it firmly in your hands and pursue it bravely, even if you are poor and have nothing, even if you may be rejected.