Dad is shopping in the shopping center. Tell me about it.

Dad stood motionless in front of the toy, lying on the ground and rolling. Son: Listen, I won't buy it. I watched a variety show some time ago, and the program group set a scene for my father and son. The script goes like this:

The father took his son to the shopping center to buy toys. After the son chose Zhong Yi's toy, the father refused it at the first time. If the child agrees not to buy it, the test is over. If the child doubts buying, the father must lie on the ground and roll.

One of them, a father and son, was honored to perform this scene for us. I can see that our son really likes this toy. The first time he begged his father to be rejected, the second time his son said that he would not buy anything else for a month after buying this toy.

Then my father began to stage a large-scale demon show according to the requirements of the program group. At first, the father was lying on the ground, and the son was completely shocked. Later, my son went to coax him to get up. After all, such a big man is still a little shameful.

Seeing my father's performance, the barrage was basically full.

Player 1: This is so realistic, just like when my son wants toys, hahahahahaha.

Player 2: I learned. I will do the same next time. By the way, do I need to put a mat in advance? Is the ground cold?

◆ Player No.3: This father really works hard. Your dad or your dad? Like this variety show, children are always determined and will gradually become emotional when they want toys. What useful learning methods do parents have?

Don't try to reason when the child is emotional. When a child likes a toy, crying is the first action. At this time, it depends on the habits parents usually develop for their children, and whether the requirements will be met every time the children cry. If it was before, start to change now.

If parents are afraid that their children will be embarrassed to cry in public, so they always agree to their children's various requirements, then he will gradually understand that as long as he cries, he will be satisfied.

★ Solve the island: At first, my son threatened me with crying every time. Slowly, I don't think it's nice to be threatened by a kid Growing up, even the teacher's ruler didn't convince me. I can't be a coward!

Then he quickly took the child away as soon as he cried, in a quiet corner or at home. Put him in the corner and let him cry enough. At first, he would cry for a long time. At this time, the role of the father is very important.

When he cried for four or five minutes and felt his voice become smaller, his father would suddenly appear and ask him if he was disobedient again. Then he will tell his father a lot about how important I am to him, how to ignore him and so on.

His father will slowly guide him, whether his mother did it or not, because he cried in the mall and embarrassed his mother. After that, the two reached a gentleman's agreement: even if they like a toy again, they can't stand still and cry at the window.

Later, I cried a few times and gradually got better. Now that I have learned to discuss, I know that I will exchange my own labor for things I like, such as helping to throw garbage and washing a fruit for my parents.

When children are emotional, they don't listen to these three sentences? Don't cry.

The first reaction of many parents is to tell their children not to cry, but why not? Why can't children cry when they feel wronged?

At this time, we should tell him by actions that crying can't make him get what he wants, and even lose more.

? conceal

This sentence was often heard when I was a child. But I think it's useless. Do you think children are tap water switches? Cry when you cry, and hold it. The wronged child cried like a crybaby. Can he hold back?

Let him cry enough, but you must find a quiet place, or you can't stand others? Warm heart? .

? I don't want you anymore.

In other words, the actual performance of this sentence is a little better than holding it back, just a little. Can only play a role in scaring children. If the mother pretends to walk away, the children will cry and chase after her, because they are afraid that her mother really doesn't want herself, so they won't talk.

However, this problem has not been solved at all! Next time this happens, I will still cry.

If we want our child to know more, we can treat him as an adult and let him touch the big and small things at home. At the same time, once the goal is established, it must be adhered to and parents should follow it as an example.

Write it at the end

Childhood is beautiful, so beautiful that no matter how you spend it, you will feel a little imperfect.

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