In agency work, how to handle complex interpersonal relationships among colleagues

In agency work, how to handle the complex interpersonal relationships between colleagues

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The foundation of building good interpersonal relationships is to first acknowledge your "true self" and show it in front of everyone.

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It is normal and smooth for colleagues to establish good interpersonal relationships among themselves. Basic guarantee, therefore, we need to pay attention to the following points:

1. Keep promises on time and keep promises

A person who does not keep promises on time and keep promises is often not trusted by others.

2. Respect your superiors and old colleagues

When speaking to your superiors and old colleagues, you should be measured and not too casual.

3. Keep public and private matters

Private phone calls are strictly prohibited while at work, and public property is not allowed to be appropriated or taken home for use.

4. Strengthen communication and communication

Work must be proactive, and colleagues must communicate with each other and cooperate with each other.

5. Don’t evade responsibility

When you make mistakes, you should take the initiative to admit them and actively correct them. You should not avoid responsibilities and blame each other.

6. Have a serious attitude

Mistakes are often caused by insufficient preparation and thinking. If there are any areas that are difficult to grasp, they should be checked again.

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Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. This is the most fundamental requirement of empathy. The prophets of Islam taught their children that they must meet three standards when speaking, that is, every sentence they say must meet these three standards, otherwise they should not be said. The first hurdle is to ask yourself: Is what I said true? The second question is, do I have to say this? The third question is, are my words kind enough? I don’t need to explain the meaning of these three levels. They refer to speaking methods, skills and attitudes. The third level is for empathy. When you do something wrong or encounter setbacks, do you expect your friends to say some words of comfort and encouragement, or do you expect them to pour cold water on you? Maybe you will say: Isn’t this nonsense? Who would want others to pour cold water on it? However, when you pour cold water on others, have you ever paid attention to the same thoughts of others? In fact many people don't pay attention. Let's take a look at what people are saying:

You're such a s***, how do you get such a point? Did a dog eat your brain? Why are you so stupid?

What are you doing? You always keep a straight face all day long, as if someone owes you a lot of money!

Don’t you have eyes? The road is so wide, why do you want to step on other people’s feet? ...

Almost everyone has been hurt by such unloving words, but they use the same words to hurt others. This shows how urgent it is for everyone to pay attention to empathy.

Empathy comes from a broad mind, a deep understanding of human nature, and a broad love.

55 tips for interpersonal relationships

Tip 1: Recognize the meaning of life and the goal of working hard throughout your life

Why do you have to work so hard? Because you must be worthy of your own conscience.

If you want to become a master of interpersonal relationships, the first step is to confirm your values; if you don't even understand this

, it will be difficult to see through the meaning of life. , not to mention any sense of accomplishment.

Step 2: List five major achievements so far

He who knows the enemy is wise; he who knows himself has great wisdom.

Tip 3: Understand what expertise and resources you have that are urgently needed by others

I am born to be useful.

Whether your expertise comes from professional training or amateur exploration, it can be transformed into a strong "interpersonal relationship

kinetic energy", so don't belittle yourself.

Tip 4: Say goodbye to the days of being a lone ranger

Still want to compete for the first place in all subjects like a primary school student? Don't be stupid, there are only team results in this world, not individual results, so there is no so-called "first place".

Say goodbye to your career as a lone ranger. Your life will change from black and white to color and start anew.

Tip 5: Build confidence in yourself, help yourself and help others

Everyone has the ability to change the world, and you are no exception.

Participate in more activities, help others, and help yourself.

Tip 6: Develop short-term and long-term goals, review and revise them regularly

Is the work plan book useful? Yes, it can allow a person to develop heat for at least three minutes.

Setting goals can not only motivate yourself, but also let others know what you need. As long as you are diligent in communicating with others

, then your friends will naturally know what difficulties you have, and then use the network of interpersonal relationships to help you

realize your goals as soon as possible Dream.

Step 7: Draw a "network map" of interpersonal relationships, showing your diversity and exposure to this resource

Deepness

The characteristic of the interpersonal network is: every member is the boss.

If you can keep the latest version of the interpersonal relationship map, it will not be difficult to know how to make good use of your interpersonal resources with yourself

as the protagonist at this moment.

Tip 8: Introduce yourself in a very professional way

In many situations, the external image you present is far greater than your true ability. important.

Tip 9: Introduce yourself in a concise, decent and original way

No matter what kind of social situation you are in, the first lesson to expand your interpersonal relationship is to learn to introduce yourself .

Try to win by surprise. Let the other person remember you firmly, and remember a positive image.

Tip 10: Start the conversation skillfully

Why do we often miss many opportunities to make connections with others? It's because we often spend those prime time hours racking our brains, but still can't come up with a suitable opening line.

You can start the conversation easily whether actively or passively. Once you can reach this level, no matter what situation you are thrown into, you will be able to quickly enter the situation and expand your popularity as you wish, for yourself

Create one excellent development opportunity after another in life and career.

Tip 11: If necessary, take the initiative to introduce yourself again

If someone takes the initiative to come over and say hello to you, then this must be a big shot.

Practice more about "lowering the noble and condescending", and take the trouble to introduce yourself frequently, and your interpersonal relationships will

become wider and smoother.

Tip 12: See their faces clearly and remember their names

People actually don’t care how much you know about them, but they do care whether you listened carefully.

Tip 13: Be good at being a competent host in social situations

As long as there are humans on the earth, you will not have to worry about not having the opportunity to express your goodwill.

Tip 14: Be willing to stand up and gain visibility for yourself

Wanting to gain visibility for yourself does not require unscrupulous means; on the contrary, this will help you realize your ideas as soon as possible.

Only by recommending yourself appropriately can people know when they can ask you for help or advice, so as not to make your hero

useless.

No. 15 No matter who you deal with, always treat them with courtesy

Even if life is short, it is more than enough to learn etiquette.

If you want to win by surprise and become the master, you don’t have to sacrifice the near and the far. Practice your lines first and then speak them.

Tip 16: The business card must be a carefully designed work

The function of the business card is to remind others that you are a person in the world.

When others want to use interpersonal relationships to recruit reinforcements, your business card is a very important clue, so

do not be hasty in the design.

Tip 17: Carry a sufficient number of business cards at any time and at any time

Before going into battle, first check whether you are "fully armed".

Tip 18: Only hand over your business card when the situation is appropriate

When you are sure that you have something to say to the other person, when the time is right, you should respectfully hand over your business card and make an agreement. Only the interpersonal relationships established on this solid foundation can withstand the test of future contact and cooperation.

Tip 19: Record the date and related matters on each business card received so that it can be sorted and checked in the future

Check

When others have not yet Knowing that when you don't care about them, it is naturally impossible for them to care about you.

Tip 20: Don’t hesitate to express gratitude

Successful people have a characteristic, which is to always be grateful.

Treat all the friends who have supported you with a grateful heart, and take the initiative to express your sincere gratitude. Slowly

Slowly, you will find that not only your interpersonal relationships The more solid you become, the more others will follow your example.

No. 21 No matter you know someone or not, as long as they can inspire or inspire you, you should sincerely thank them

Say thank you

Use praise It does take a lot of courage to replace jealousy.

How does it feel in your heart when you are praised by others for coming up with a brilliant idea? Compare your feelings to others.

Whether it is a friend you know or don’t know, as long as you can provide clear words Or those whose words and deeds are worthy of reference, don’t forget to say thank you to them with a smile.

Once you make this a habit, not only your career future, but also your outlook on life will be rewritten.

Tip 22: Express your gratitude to the other party by making phone calls, sending small cards, and giving small gifts at the right time

As long as you are willing to praise Others, you will be the biggest winner.

To irrigate a tree requires sufficient sunlight, water and nutrients, but to cultivate your evergreen tree of interpersonal relationships

depends on your continuous care, by calling Take care of the tree with small steps such as sending cards and gifts. But Qian

Don’t let it wither and die due to malnutrition.

Tip 23: Have your own dedicated letters, cards and notes

Handwritten letters are more intimate and give people a different feeling.

Want to build your own golden brand? Want to project a good professional image? Make a small investment and print some special stationery paper. You will feel more dignified when you want to send it to clients, colleagues or friends.

Tip 24: Gladly accept others’ thanks and assistance

Whether a person is willing to accept others’ thanks can reveal his or her interpersonal skills.

Tip 25: Establish a systematic and effective interpersonal network

This will more effectively improve your operational efficiency in interpersonal relationships.

Why do some people get twice the result with half the effort, while others get twice the result with half the effort? It's because there is no order in doing things.

Tip 26: Never have outdated information on your business card

If you don’t have time to record new information every day, log in at least once a week to ensure the information

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Tip 27: Set up an effective time management system

Time is not forgiving. We cannot ask for time to be suspended to match our pace, we can only try to catch up...

If you can control time, you can control everything.

Let me remind you that as long as you are willing to respect the work schedule you have set, others will not dare to take you on a business trip.

Once time and resources are completely in your hands, it will be more than enough to govern the country and bring peace to the world.

Tip 28: Review the day’s work progress schedule in detail every day

How to know whether you are getting closer to the road to success, or whether you are spinning in circles? ...The best way is to "check out" every day to see how the work schedule is being implemented.

If you check out once a day, your psychological burden will not be so heavy. Even if this is a huge project,

you can still feel the steady pace of progress.

Tip 29: Finish today’s work

In fact, time is nothing to manage, because there are 24 hours every day, what you should worry about is how to manage it

Thousands of plans to get a piece of this pie.

Never follow the example of the slow doctor and "pay debts to pay off", otherwise you will end up working overtime until midnight and still not be able to pay them back

Don't abuse your notepad, and don't put it off if you can solve it on the spot. Invisibly, your work efficiency will naturally increase.

Tip 30: You must respond to all calls within 24 hours

If your business philosophy is "If you can put it off until tomorrow, there is no need to rush to do it today", then you will probably be afraid for the rest of your life.

It’s hard to get ahead.

Make it a habit to reply to all calls within 24 hours, and you will ensure that the information on your network is

smooth.

Tip 31: Before picking up the microphone, think about what you are going to say later. There are four roads to success

Ladder: act carefully and be prepared. Come, move forward and follow through.

Tip 32: Refuse unnecessary social interactions

If you waste time now, time will waste you in the future.

Tip 33: Plan properly before participating in social activities

As long as you are prepared for everything, even if your ancestors have no virtue, they can still prosper.

Tip 34: Take the initiative to seek support from others

You are in a harmonious society where all things exist, so fighting alone will not work.

Most people are willing to help, so as long as you decide they won't be a hindrance, give them a

chance to show off.

Tip 35: When speaking, you should state your requirements simply and clearly, and it is not appropriate to show an aggressive attitude

How does the interpersonal network work? Got up? It's very simple, just be willing to fight. When the other is willing to suffer, this marriage is formed.

Tip 36: Whenever you get the chance, never forget to say this: "By the way, among the people you know, who

is..."

Ask, and it will be given to you.

Next time you hit a wall, take stock of your speaking skills and see if there is room for improvement. In fact, most people are willing to help others, so don't close the door of opportunity rashly.

Tip 37: You should act on the suggestions made by others as soon as you know them

Otherwise, after the three minutes of heat has passed, everything will return to the original point. Talking without practice will not help.

Tip 38: Every time you talk to a friend, you will feel that you have benefited greatly

People who know how to go with the flow may find it difficult to get ahead.

Tip 39: Actively participate in various civil society groups

By integrating into this big family, you not only build your own career, but also fulfill the dreams of many of your companions.

The merits are immeasurable.

When a group of people gather together for the same purpose, interpersonal relationships germinate.

Tip 40: Try to hold a position of real power within the association

Once you are promoted to a cadre, it means that you are a respected senior, rather than someone who just wants to come over

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Mediocre people who divide resources.

Tip 41: Diligently use your interpersonal network to handle other people’s requests

The most praised thing in the circle is that everyone is a winner, because the fruit of victory belongs to everyone. Personal.

If you want friends to help you when you are down, the best way to deal with it is to invest more

more.

Tip 42: God is there when you raise your head three feet up, and there are people when you are three feet above your head

How to cultivate self-confidence? It's very simple, just pick those things that you are not good at... As long as you can break through your own defenses, attack boldly, and hold on for a while, you will definitely feel like eating sugar cane, and gradually Beautiful scene.

Tip 43: Frequently evaluate your interpersonal network and continuously expand it

The establishment of interpersonal network needs to be sustained and is not something that can be done once and for all.

Tip 44: Trust your intuition

Listen to the cry of your heart and you will get all the answers.

Unless you think you are insensitive, there is no reason to ignore this voice from the depths of your soul; let

let it lead you, and you will be able to grasp the situation as soon as possible and understand the surroundings All the troubles.

Tip 45: For every ally in the interpersonal network, we will do our best to help them rise step by step

Maintaining the interpersonal network requires sincerity and patience.

You should cultivate your strength by supporting allies and build a building on this solid foundation. It will only be a matter of time before a "win-win" situation is created

Just a problem.

Tip 46: Provide first-class service to your friends

Even if you are not involved in the service industry, there are still many opportunities to serve others.

You must first establish your own brand and let people in your interpersonal circle know that you are a reliable person.

In this way, they will be happy to make this kind of investment. , because they know you’ll give back even more in the future.

Tip 47: Like to listen to your friends

Having normal hearing does not mean you know how to listen.

The art of listening is: listen patiently to what others are saying, and don’t get it wrong!

Tip 48: Have noble moral integrity and professionalism

Talking without hesitation will lead to endless troubles.

Interpersonal relationships are indeed very useful, but they must not be abused. As long as you show a noble sense of integrity and professionalism in your dealings with others, even your mortal enemies will be convinced of you and respect you to the fullest.

Tip 49: Face every opportunity of "relationship" with an open mind

The difference between great men and ordinary people is that the former can respect everyone, including those who don't have enough to eat. tramp.

Tip 50: Laying out a watertight and huge "intelligence network"

A benevolent person who can make others famous will surely be remembered in history.

When you become a jingle person, it means that you have more resources to invite others to share, and this "virtuous cycle" continues.

Isn't this great!

Tip 51: Use your interpersonal network to develop yourself, benefit others, achieve your career, and change your life

If you need a bridge to connect your public and private life areas Whether you have it or not, that’s your network.

Tip 52: Think about interpersonal relationships at all times

A sword will become rusty and dull if it is not used. If everyone can make the use of interpersonal relationships a habit, Then

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And encourage them to do the same.

Tip 54: Use a network of interpersonal relationships to cover the whole world

There are so many interpersonal networks in this world that almost everyone has an umbilical cord connecting them.

Tip 55: Integrate interpersonal relationships into an indispensable part of life

You are in a harmonious society where all things exist, so it is okay to go it alone. It doesn’t make sense.

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How to deal with complex interpersonal relationships at work?

I personally think that the first thing is to have confidence in yourself and not feel inferior in front of others. Then you need to sincerely interact with others, use some communication arts appropriately, and have different ways of interacting with different people. , This requires slowly accumulating experience, and the most important thing is to constantly improve one's own quality and make oneself more perfect, so that others can better accept oneself, , interpersonal relationships will naturally improve, , how to handle complex interpersonal relationships well ?

How to handle interpersonal relationships well 1. On the topic of how to handle interpersonal relationships well, here are some immature opinions based on my own experience for reference. I hope it can be of some help to you. Relationships are an important part of our lives. If we do not have good interpersonal relationships, it will have a negative impact on our work, life and mental health. In real society, it is normal and understandable for certain ideological gaps to arise due to differences in personality, talent, life background, purpose, etc. If you can't get along with everyone at work or in life, that's not normal and you need to make self-adjustments and changes. People play different social roles according to their age, gender, occupation, position, environment, etc. When contacting people, different roles have different behavioral norms, so when getting along with different people, they have different requirements and skills. Here I will only express some opinions on the question you raised, that is, how to get along with colleagues. First of all, we must consider others at all times and avoid being self-centered. To have a good relationship with colleagues, you must learn to consider problems from other perspectives and be good at making appropriate self-sacrifice. To do a good job, you often need to cooperate with others. After achieving results, ask others to share them with others. Do not express yourself everywhere and take everyone's results as your own. Providing opportunities to others and helping them achieve their life goals is crucial to good relationships. Being considerate of others is also reflected in lending a helping hand to others when they encounter difficulties or setbacks. Good interpersonal
Relationships are often mutually beneficial in both directions. All the care and help you give to others will be repaid when you yourself encounter difficulties. Secondly, you must be open-minded and good at accepting others and yourself. Don't waste any opportunity to praise others. But it should be noted that you need to be measured and don't exaggerate blindly, which will make people feel hypocritical and lose others' trust in you. Again, master the skills of talking with colleagues. When talking to your colleagues, listen carefully and give appropriate feedback. Listening with concentration represents understanding and acceptance, and is the bridge connecting the souls. When expressing your thoughts, you should be subtle, humorous, concise and vivid. Implicitness not only shows your elegance and self-cultivation, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, explaining opinions, and not hurting relationships. When giving opinions and pointing out other people's mistakes, pay attention to the occasion and use calm words to avoid hurting others' self-esteem and causing resistance. psychology. Humor is the spice of language that makes conversation lively and interesting. Being concise requires mastering what should be said when talking to others and not saying what should not be said. When talking to others, you must be emotionally invested, so that you can move people with your emotions. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself well, you need continuous practice, constantly increase your cultural accomplishment, and broaden your horizons. Finally, make time to mingle with your coworkers. It is also a good way to cultivate your own interests in many aspects and make friends through hobbies. In addition, exchanging information and discussing one's own experiences can harmonize interpersonal relationships. Building good relationships is an art. All people need continuous learning and practice to become proficient.

I hope you can make a self-analysis based on your specific situation, so as to break through the fence of self-isolation, be open-minded, and establish a harmonious interpersonal relationship!!! 2. Get along with your boss, no matter what kind of personality your boss is, you must do Come to the following points: 1. Talk less and do more. 2. Make him fully trust you. This full trust is based on full communication. The purpose is that you want to understand him and at the same time let him fully trust you. Get to know you! 3. When your boss expresses an opinion that is different from yours, you have to listen carefully. 4. Dress appropriately. 5. Female employees try to wear makeup in front of their boss (male boss, female boss) as little as possible. 6. When you want to praise When a female boss over thirty years old is beautiful, please use the word "temperamental". When you want to flatter a male boss, please say to him: Working under you, I have learned a lot about how to behave. I would like to be able to There are many opportunities like this. 7. No matter what you do, you need to report. It is best to write a short and concise written report. If it is inconvenient, you can report in other ways. But please remember: writing is better than oral. Interviews are better than phone calls. You must also remember what to report first and what to report later. You must also explain clearly what requirements assigned by the leader have been met, what tasks have been completed, etc. 8. Be good at using the resource of your boss. No matter what the situation is. Don't offend your boss. Unless you already have a higher place to go, please keep this in mind. Because your boss has your use in terms of experience and interpersonal relationships. (Note: If you think he is Some aspects are not as well mastered as yours. Please don’t forget why he is the leader and you are just his subordinate. So you must be open-minded.) 9. When you think one of your ideas is relatively mature, please Use the most tactful way you think to explain your ideas to him. Try to get him to support you. 10. No matter what the situation, even if your opinions are adopted by your boss, you must not go around shouting that these are yours. Please remember that all ideas will eventually become the decision of your boss, and everything is issued in his name. Therefore, your goal has actually been achieved. Do not be aggrieved because of this. Otherwise, Even the person you complain to will be dismissive of you. 11. Never regard your boss as your true friend. Please remember that what you need at work is a leader, never a true friend. Confidant Once you truly handle the relationship with your boss, you will feel that you are more like partners than like superiors and subordinates. As a partner, your boss will entrust you with more tasks, giving you a broader space for development. How to handle complex interpersonal relationships? Please thank you

Interpersonal Dear friends: This must be helpful. This answer will tell you how our hearts work! You are your own best psychiatrist, be bold, careful, and thick-skinned. People should also be hard-working and helpful to others. Help with the little things within your ability. Try your best to help... and win a good reputation. If you are right, you will get more help, but if you are wrong, you will get less help. Treat people with integrity and treat things with integrity. In interpersonal communication, there are four taboos: First, avoid being rude. Some people believe that being rough and rough in dealing with others is the true nature of working people, while elegant conversation and graceful manners are all "stuff" of the bourgeoisie. This kind of small farmer consciousness that despises modern civilization is very harmful. Second, avoid losing your temper. Joy, anger, sorrow and joy are human nature. However, if you are in a bad mood, you should "digest" it by yourself, but you must not "attack" others, otherwise it is very uncivilized. No matter how bad your mood is, don't lose your reason. Instead, you should restrain your bad emotions and control your anger mentally. Having a bad temper and losing your temper randomly will not only hurt your harmony, but also make people "stay away" from you. Third, avoid short talk and long talk. It is not an exaggeration to say a few words of truth between colleagues and friends, but it is absolutely not allowed to irresponsibly spread rumors and stir up trouble. In particular, you should be careful not to gloat over other people's misfortunes, or even take advantage of others' misfortunes, add fuel to the fire, and use other people's privacy and suffering as your own talking points. Fourth, avoid talking too much. When getting along with others, don't overdo it, especially don't joke with others casually or make jokes about your "degree" in public places and during work hours. In short, in order to be popular in interpersonal communication, you must abide by the "Three A's Principle". The meaning of this principle is to require people to accept, agree with, and value others as much as possible in interpersonal interactions. It is called the "Three A Principle" because in English, the first letters of the three words acceptance, approval, and attention are all A.

American scholar Bu Jilin believes that the "three A's" are like basic food that satisfies people's self-esteem and cannot be replaced by other things in interpersonal interactions. His words are worth remembering by every company employee, if we don’t want to be disliked. What is a person pursuing in his life? Life is a process, not a point. Life is about process! Life lies in every day, and every day is unique and cannot be repeated. So we should make every day and every minute of ourselves beautiful and happy. Therefore, you should adjust yourself: 1. Desire less, 2. Compare less, 3. Have a balanced mentality, 4. Be content and happy 5. Change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, and don’t lose yourself 6. According to yourself Live your life according to your ability, and don’t let other people’s living conditions affect your mood. How to handle the interpersonal relationships between colleagues in party and government agencies

But to communicate with each other, people who sit in the same office and speak differently will To establish good and harmonious interpersonal relationships among colleagues, they must communicate with each other frequently. In addition to helping each other and understanding each other, appropriate language is also very important. How to deal with many quarrels, even among colleagues who usually have a very close relationship? Complex interpersonal relationships?

You can read the book "Social Studies", which talks about how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Especially the second chapter also has practical case analysis. You can search it on Baidu and watch it online. You can try it first and then adjust the corresponding handling strategy according to your own situation. How to deal with complex interpersonal relationships in WeChat

If you know each other, there is nothing complicated. During festivals, just send a few blessing messages in groups, or you can also send individual blessings to important people, etc., and usually talk to friends more often. If people in the circle interact, it will be ok. Tell us how to deal with complex interpersonal relationships in the company?

Worried about dealing with relationships? I have eight tips: 1. Clarify department responsibilities and memorize your job responsibilities. Not offside! Don't plant other people's fields and leave your own fields unproductive. This is just like the driver is responsible for driving, the escort is responsible for inspecting goods, and the accountant is responsible for collecting money. If you do other people's work, others will feel a sense of crisis and run against you. 2. To master the operation process is to find out the "online" and "offline" of your work link. Don’t make mistakes, don’t get into trouble, don’t let others do anything wrong. Otherwise it will be a stain on your record. 3. Identify your boss, or principal or deputy supervisor. Ask for more instructions and report more. If your boss gives you an explanation, write it down and report more progress. Make people think that you are doing things safely and can let go. 4. Keep accounts. According to the leadership arrangements and job requirements, know what to do every day, list 1234, prioritize, and deal with the backlog one by one to avoid delays. 5. Respect people. It doesn’t matter whether you are old or young. If you have lower education than you but higher qualifications, you are still a master. You are right to ask for advice when there is nothing. 6. Participate in more team activities and minimize being alone. Let your talents and hobbies shine through. 7. Be low-key. Don't take the initiative to participate in opinions and suggestions if others don't ask or tell. Including dressing in a fashionable manner. 8. Don’t forget to send text messages by phone during the holidays, and send warm and proactive greetings. When you encounter something good, you might as well share it with everyone. Colleagues in the department share hot roasted cold drinks, etc. A little kindness can bring us closer. Harmonious interpersonal relationships are an important prerequisite for doing a good job in the workplace.